Having a safe naughty fun chat, respectfully.

[Devlishone4fun]

Beings we are on a adult site. Who else wants once in a while, enjoys a good naughty chat with someone. No not a oh baby, oh baby want to fuck on cam and get each other off? Wanna see my cock or pussy? Wanna cyber sex and orgasm together? Lets trade pics? Nothing like that.

I see nothing wrong with just chatting first and then slowly if it happens, good naughty fun that will put a smile on face with the opposite sex once in a while. Sometimes just getting to know the person can be stimulating without getting naughty...

No cam, no pics or anything like that... I mean just a erotic, sensual, mind stimulating safe naughty fun chat on here or using a im's, pm's, skype, kik, yahoo or what client/software you choose to use...

Just asking if any Ladies interested in that kind of chat to the Gentleman of Lit or Gentleman that know how to show respect to the Ladies of Lit...

At least some of us still know how to show respect around here.

Any women care to first time meet, chat and we get to know each other better?

With Kind Regards

Dev

 

[cookiecat]

This is my first foray in to the world of cyber monkey business. I wasn't planning on it. I just came for the stories and the forum fun. But the dirty chat seems to be a by-product of just being here, whether you want to or not. PM's magically appear!!

I've been doing the usual flip flop of there's no way I'd ever reply to that crazy PM to hey, why not? Can't say I'm jumping in feet first but dipping toes in feels good.

What you describe, Devlishone, sounds like the best way to go about it.

 

[cookiecat]

haha - I like that the title of this thread is "having a safe, naughty fun chat, respectfully" and the one under it is "throat pumping."

I'd appreciate a safe, respectful chat about having my throat pumped.

Oh Lit!

 

[tnhardon]

I enjoy both styles of chat honestly. There are times that call for the flirty and slow building style of erotic chat, and other times where it is more about the instant gratification.

Finding a good type of either style of chat is difficult.

 

[Devlishone4fun]

haha - I like that the title of this thread is "having a safe, naughty fun chat, respectfully" and the one under it is "throat pumping."

I'd appreciate a safe, respectful chat about having my throat pumped.

Oh Lit!

I guess pm'ing you would be at my own risk then

 

[xhxhxh]

Beings we are on a adult site. Who else wants once in a while, enjoys a good naughty chat with someone. No not a oh baby, oh baby want to fuck on cam and get each other off? Wanna see my cock or pussy? Wanna cyber sex and orgasm together? Lets trade pics? Nothing like that.

I see nothing wrong with just chatting first and then slowly if it happens, good naughty fun that will put a smile on face with the opposite sex once in a while. Sometimes just getting to know the person can be stimulating without getting naughty...

No cam, no pics or anything like that... I mean just a erotic, sensual, mind stimulating safe naughty fun chat on here or using a im's, pm's, skype, kik, yahoo or what client/software you choose to use...

Just asking if any Ladies interested in that kind of chat to the Gentleman of Lit or Gentleman that know how to show respect to the Ladies of Lit...

At least some of us still know how to show respect around here.

Any women care to first time meet, chat and we get to know each other better?

With Kind Regards

Dev

Couldnt agree more. No interest in cam, skype, or the quick get-off. The written word is what i enjoy most. Developing a convo back and forth.....

As an early 40s male, im confident in what i like and quite willing to share when the time is right.

 

[NotElvis]

Yes! This! Exactly this!

 

[clistenovena]

What a refreshingly retro, yet progressively fresh, idea. Very well put together there, Dev.

 

[man_4_milf]

it's all part of the experience for sure

 

[mikendel]

We both like to chat here. I do talk about hubby sharing me and recent fun we have. Meeting and Skype are not really what I want from here. Hubby may exchange a few pics and that's ok with me. I love to have sex and talking about it here is fun. It has opened me up even more with chatting. Guys here have imagination and most are nice and want the same I want.

 

[Naughty69M2M]

I really like chatting, I will chat about almost anything. Not just cybering or quickie roleplaying. But chatting, having fun with whom ever I'm chatting with. Granted, the other can be fun and sex is the reason we come to this site. But pump the brakes, let's get to know each other and maybe make each other smile. Laughing cures a lot of issues, trust me I saw a doctor on tv....today.

I also hate those who want to send me a pic of themselves and get pissy when i don't return one. If you ask if you can, I will tell you that i will not send one back, so don't get pissy when you send one to me and don't get one back. Sorry, not gonna do it. I'm here chat online, not swap pics and plan to hook up.

Edit: sorry, got on a rant........forgive my intrusion into your day or night. Enjoy.

 

[Gwanji16]

Great thread!

I love chatting and back and forth via pms. I get a few unusual oms, but I try to respectfully answer them all. I love Lit

 

[Dreamliner]

Devl, as you say, it is all about respect. I have had some great chats with like minded people here where we have recognised a connection and it has proceeded from there.

As I travel a bit, there have been a small number of catch-ups for a coffee or dinner and a good rl chat.

We are all on lit for one reason or another, ultimately erotica is a core part of this site.

Have fun on the threads.

 

[cookiecat]

I guess pm'ing you would be at my own risk then

Sometimes taking a risk pays off.

 

[elamef]

I really like chatting, I will chat about almost anything. Not just cybering or quickie roleplaying. But chatting, having fun with whom ever I'm chatting with. Granted, the other can be fun and sex is the reason we come to this site. But pump the brakes, let's get to know each other and maybe make each other smile. Laughing cures a lot of issues, trust me I saw a doctor on tv....today.

I also hate those who want to send me a pic of themselves and get pissy when i don't return one. If you ask if you can, I will tell you that i will not send one back, so don't get pissy when you send one to me and don't get one back. Sorry, not gonna do it. I'm here chat online, not swap pics and plan to hook up.

Edit: sorry, got on a rant........forgive my intrusion into your day or night. Enjoy.

Perfectly said, Naughty69M2M.

Great thread, Dev.

 

[cookiecat]

LOL I do like how you think, your posts often make me laugh, smile, think, ponder, wonder, and even arouse. Carry on..
I agree with the sentiment in this thread

Oh! gosh. Thank you.

 

[Lazy_lay]

I only play and get down and dirty with those I can talk to and enjoy conversing with. Feeling comfortable is an important and appealing part for me because if I can't have a normal (and fun!) conversation with you then there is no stimulating any other part of me.

I've met some on Lit, despite being very upfront that I'm looking to get to know you, will try to pressure cyber or phone sex and it's actually the biggest turn off. Nothing makes my pussy dry like the desert than those wanting to just straight sex-talk. Watch porn instead for the insta-gratification!

I totally understand just wanting to 'get-off' and not wanting to spend time cultivating online rapport with someone, but I am definitely not that type to play 2nd party to 'receive and respond' to your sexual desire.

To those that just get it and get me, you know kitty loves to show appreciation.

Well said.

Pushiness is a turn off.

 

[Lazy_lay]

haha - I like that the title of this thread is "having a safe, naughty fun chat, respectfully" and the one under it is "throat pumping."

I'd appreciate a safe, respectful chat about having my throat pumped.

Oh Lit!

I guess you could arrange a laptop so that you could have the safe, respectful chat while having your throat pumped.

lol...

 

[Ropergirl]

Beings we are on a adult site. Who else wants once in a while, enjoys a good naughty chat with someone. No not a oh baby, oh baby want to fuck on cam and get each other off? Wanna see my cock or pussy? Wanna cyber sex and orgasm together? Lets trade pics? Nothing like that.

I see nothing wrong with just chatting first and then slowly if it happens, good naughty fun that will put a smile on face with the opposite sex once in a while. Sometimes just getting to know the person can be stimulating without getting naughty...

No cam, no pics or anything like that... I mean just a erotic, sensual, mind stimulating safe naughty fun chat on here or using a im's, pm's, skype, kik, yahoo or what client/software you choose to use...

Just asking if any Ladies interested in that kind of chat to the Gentleman of Lit or Gentleman that know how to show respect to the Ladies of Lit...

At least some of us still know how to show respect around here.

Any women care to first time meet, chat and we get to know each other better?

With Kind Regards

Dev

This is exactly the sort of conversation I prefer here. Love it! Wish there were more like you on this site!

 

[bluetardis1017924]

i have to admit

In the past i have been guilty of just wanting to get off really quick.... how EVER i must say that the best orgasm were after a LONG time of teasing and a good conversation .

 

[shmily]

Beings we are on a adult site. Who else wants once in a while, enjoys a good naughty chat with someone. No not a oh baby, oh baby want to fuck on cam and get each other off? Wanna see my cock or pussy? Wanna cyber sex and orgasm together? Lets trade pics? Nothing like that.

I see nothing wrong with just chatting first and then slowly if it happens, good naughty fun that will put a smile on face with the opposite sex once in a while. Sometimes just getting to know the person can be stimulating without getting naughty...

No cam, no pics or anything like that... I mean just a erotic, sensual, mind stimulating safe naughty fun chat on here or using a im's, pm's, skype, kik, yahoo or what client/software you choose to use...

Just asking if any Ladies interested in that kind of chat to the Gentleman of Lit or Gentleman that know how to show respect to the Ladies of Lit...

At least some of us still know how to show respect around here.

Any women care to first time meet, chat and we get to know each other better?

With Kind Regards

Dev

You are one of the sweethearts here. I love to chat and visit, knowing that it doesn't have to go to sex..... but if it does it is fun at the right time.

Hugs cutie.