Wife sick to her stomach with my semen

[hpavsys]

My wife of 10+ years has had a problem with semen ... from the beginning. We have been together for 15+ years.
Anyway, during sex I have always ejaculated inside her warm pussy, no problems, we are both happy. Sometimes she complains of a slight odor from her vagina but most of the time, no problems.
The other day, After asking her numerous times if I could pull out and cum/ejaculate on her pussy, belly, butt, boobs, etc... she finally let me pull out and cum on her pussy. I enjoyed the visual part, but she had problems almost right away.
She tells me her stomach gots upset right away and feels like she needs to throw up, a minute later she took and shower and said she threw up a little bit in the shower.
Please note, she is not swallowing the semen, in fact the other day she did not even look at it and felt sick.
She seems to have a problem with my semen/ejaculate, Any advice on how to proceed and getting her used to semen/ejaculate and not have such a negative experience with it? I am fine with cumming inside the pussy but once in a while, I like to pull out and would love it if this wasn't such a bad experience.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I wish I had something supportive to say. I don't, I hate the stuff, too!

 

[Green_Knight]

It almost sounds as if she's having an allergic reaction to it. Presumably her internal secretions deal with it when you cum inside her but her skin is sensitive to it. The taste of a man's cum is affected by what he eats and drinks and maybe it is something like that that is causing the reaction.

 

[JamesRTickit]

My guess

Is she just doesn't like the idea.
If you have to ask numerous times then she is not wanting it to happen.
You need to talk to her.

 

[lovecraft68]

Easy enough to prove if this is a physical allergic reaction. Does she get a rash, swelling, redness anything like that on the area you cum?

If not....

I'm thinking this is some type of mental issue, triggering a physical response.

Was she ever sexually abused, assaulted?

Have you asked those questions?

If there is a serious issue behind it then maybe this is not worth pushing.

 

[PantyGentleman]

I was with a girl for a little while that would not let me ejaculate anywhere on her body because she would get ill and it was due to abuse when she was younger. I could only cum inside her vagina.

 

[tnhardon]

It sounds like it is all mental. I highly doubt skin contact would cause her to immediately feel sick if it was an allergic reaction.

The reasons behind it being mental could be any variety of things. Some have mentioned past sexual assault or some sort of abuse. She could be adverse to the feeling of the cum on her skin or the smell of it. She may just find cum gross. It is a bodily fluid, so it would make sense that she might not be into it. Just like some people wouldn't want urine or blood on them.

Suggestion would be to ask her about why it bothers her. It may not be something that she wants to discuss, in which case I wouldn't force the issue. If she does divulge why, you all could try to find a way to work through whatever mental obstacle she has to being cummed on. However, I would not force the issue if she is not comfortable or willing.

As fun as it can be to cum on someone and have the visual satisfaction, it is not worth making your partner uncomfortable or sick. Best solution is to just keep it inside and pump your cum inside her.

 

[Arianne6947]

Only time that has happened to me was cause I had swallowed to many loads

 

[vibes]

Only time that has happened to me was cause I had swallowed to many loads

I am almost afraid to ask how many is too many

 

[7LivesManyFaces]

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[HesterP]

For those who would like to allow their man to cum in their mouth but have trouble with it, I have a solution that I thought was nice. We used Bailey's Irish Cream but I am sure other cordials would work as well. Sip the liquor while giving a blow job and even apply some to his penis. For me it takes care of any taste of his cum. I do not mind the taste of cum but a little flavor never hurts. It also works well on my nipples or private parts.

 

[Kantarii]

Great sex isn't about being one sided with your sexual desires. It's about respecting the sexual boundaries of who you are with. Ask yourself this: is it really that important to you to do the things sexually you want without consideration of you wife/partner/ lover etc.?

If you are willing to put your sexual needs and desires ahead of the other person, then chances are you are with the wrong person - or something to that effect. Kant

 

[hadruprider]

What Kantari says. Stop and think. You are making her physically sick. Just because, after 10+ years of good sex, you have suddenly decided that you want to copy what you see in porn videos.

 

[7LivesManyFaces]

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[sunandshadow]

Cum smells like bleach or ammonia to me too. It really doesn't smell like something edible; reminds me of when I had to drink barium "milkshake" before getting an MRI. But getting cum on my skin isn't any worse than, say, scrubbing out the bathtub, and that doesn't make me anywhere near puking.

 

[ArnaldoBC]

My wife of 10+ years (...) such a bad experience.

Do you take any medications that could be expelled by the semen? Do you eat frequently something that she is allergic to?

Quick advice, since you asked: I would go see a doctor if I were you (her). It may or not be also psychological, but her mind wouldn't produce strange odors inside of her...

 

[hpavsys]

Thank you

Thank you all for the feedback, greatly appreciated.
To answer some of the questions, no I don't take any medications. And no she does not get any skin reactions or anything.
Also, I do my best to drink a lot of water throughout the day.

Its most likely a mental thing, but not sure what.

I took the suggestions and talked to her. Overall, she isn't sure why she feels the way she does but seems willing to work on it,

And yes, you are right. Its because I saw it in a porn video, I want to do it. And you got a really good point, why make her experience terrible for my own gratification.

Regardless, she agreed to work on it with me.

 

[newhere2learn]

I was with a girl for a little while that would not let me ejaculate anywhere on her body because she would get ill and it was due to abuse when she was younger. I could only cum inside her vagina.

My wife is the same. It's in her. Or in a condom.

Anywhere else makes her retch, as she detests textures that are oily/slimy.

Same reason she won't touch raw meat, fish, or liquids that are gooey