Finding her "spot"!

[braska2112]

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[Sapphology]

Is it only during sex? Can she make herself orgasm, if she masturbates?

 

[braska2112]

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[aace714]

maybe

Maybe try to give her an assgasm

 

[NOIRTRASH]

Get a new girl friend.

 

[GrrlFriday]

Is she sporty? Good circulation helps!

 

[braska2112]

Well Not sporty

She is not "sporty" but she is in decent shape. Very active Mother of 3.

 

[NextDoorSecret]

She needs to know her own body better. If she can rarely orgasm on her own then the difficulty lies in her not understanding what works for her.
Many women don't experiment, never learn what works for them. I have a friend who at 46 has never had an orgasm. NEVER.
Encourage her to enjoy herself, don't focus so much on the end result, get her relaxed, some wine may help, maybe a fun toy to play with together and see what works.

 

[Privates1stClass]

You might try a Hitachi Magic Wand on her clit. If that doesn't work, I think you're out of options.

 

[NextDoorSecret]

You might try a Hitachi Magic Wand on her clit. If that doesn't work, I think you're out of options.

That doesn't work for everyone, that might be too intense or the wrong type of touch. The focus needs to playing and making it fun. Too much pressure will guarantee it never works.

 

[braska2112]

Hmmm

Well I have suggested toys and she is considering letting me use them on her. She has used many herself. She is a Pure Romance rep. The thing that really was different for me is usually I can feel the "clit" and even more when it is swollen but so far it is undetectable.

 

[NextDoorSecret]

Well I have suggested toys and she is considering letting me use them on her. She has used many herself. She is a Pure Romance rep. The thing that really was different for me is usually I can feel the "clit" and even more when it is swollen but so far it is undetectable.

So you can feel it but it's undetectable? I don't even understand the question anymore.

 

[braska2112]

No No

On every other women I have been with I can feel it especially when the are aroused. With her I can not even detect where it is.

 

[NextDoorSecret]

On every other women I have been with I can feel it especially when the are aroused. With her I can not even detect where it is.

Well it's going to be in the same general area as any other woman. I'm not trying to be condescending but the clit may not be as pronounced, but it should be locate-able.
Is it actually her clit you are trying to find or her g-spot?
http://image.slidesharecdn.com/lecture11anatomy-of-female-genital-tract-1217767502371205-8/95/anatomy-of-female-genital-tract-14-728.jpg?cb=1217742375

 

[braska2112]

Lol

No... I know my way around a woman's body and I know where the clit usually is and yes I know where the G-spot is also. The clit area on her is fleshy but like I said there is no "hard" nub to start or when she is aroused. I even tried hard pressure to see if it may be just below the surface.

 

[TJX]

Has she always been a she?

 

[braska2112]

Yes Dickhead

She has always been a she. She has 3 girls!

 

[TJX]

And what does that prove? If there isn't a clit where did it go? Just a possibility. And I don't need to call names.

 

[tedsbeds]

Well it's going to be in the same general area as any other woman. I'm not trying to be condescending but the clit may not be as pronounced, but it should be locate-able.
Is it actually her clit you are trying to find or her g-spot?
http://image.slidesharecdn.com/lecture11anatomy-of-female-genital-tract-1217767502371205-8/95/anatomy-of-female-genital-tract-14-728.jpg?cb=1217742375

Selfie?

 

[NextDoorSecret]

No... I know my way around a woman's body and I know where the clit usually is and yes I know where the G-spot is also. The clit area on her is fleshy but like I said there is no "hard" nub to start or when she is aroused. I even tried hard pressure to see if it may be just below the surface.

I wasn't trying to be rude, I just was honestly asking. There are a LOT of men (and sadly women too) that don't know a lot about the female body. So if you're checking in the right space, adn there's nothing there, that's odd. Has she spoken with a physician about her anatomy? Is there something "off" or has she never discussed it?

And what does that prove? If there isn't a clit where did it go? Just a possibility. And I don't need to call names.

Yeah.. it doesn't make a lot of sense, so it was honestly a fair question.

Selfie?

No. I wax.

 

[tedsbeds]

I wasn't trying to be rude, I just was honestly asking. There are a LOT of men (and sadly women too) that don't know a lot about the female body. So if you're checking in the right space, adn there's nothing there, that's odd. Has she spoken with a physician about her anatomy? Is there something "off" or has she never discussed it?

Yeah.. it doesn't make a lot of sense, so it was honestly a fair question.

No. I wax.

Good to know!

 

[tedsbeds]

Good to know!

BTW a large portion of the clit is below the surface of the skin. In fact it is shaped like a wishbone and straddles the vaginal opening subcutaneously. A pronounced nub might just not be present.
Also there are some cultures that castrate women (clitoris) so they will not enjoy sex and be unfaithful to their husbands.

 

[EpicurusRex]

There are a LOT of men (and sadly women too) that don't know a lot about the female body.

I was with a girl last winter who was surprised when I pressed her g-spot. She didn't think she had one. I hope I've helped her enjoy things a bit more now...

 

[MR.GGG]

"" ...and I know where the clit usually is … "

I think THAT pretty much explains the OP's knowledge base.

and EPICUREX

""I was with a girl last winter who was surprised when I pressed her g-spot. She didn't think she had one. I hope I've helped her enjoy things a bit more now…"

Ain't that just a BLAST - showing a woman that not only does she have one but "GRIT YOUR TEETH HONEY CUZ THIS IS WHAT IT CAN DO…." (and do and do and do)

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892