cascadiabound
MrTs barmaid
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BDSM crayons!!! I want some!!!!
and the spanking, too, of course!


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This is exactly what I want...![]()
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This is exactly what I want...![]()
http://67.media.tumblr.com/81ce73c2cf3efd2422ab08c0d4ff87d5/tumblr_o7z38sv6py1relb87o1_500.jpg
This is exactly what I want...![]()

wow!!!if she is your woman,
then you must take
pride in that.
learn her like no one
else has before and
you will know her
like no other, that
i promise.
go ahead. blow her
mind and shatter
her fears.
i fucking dare you.
THIS. exactly this.
I feel like I've walked into a library in a foreign-speaking country. I'm curious but unable to translate anything. When it comes to communicating with people here, there's literally nothing I've spent more time trying to understand than the dominant/submissive subculture. It's just so prevalent among people here, some of whom I've been curious about, that it felt lazy not to try.
I wish I could say the efforts had paid off up to this point; they haven't. I'd like to think it's a language that I can learn if I immerse myself in it. But every indication points to my never being able to understand what others feel when they talk about it. That's frustrating to me, in particular, because the lack of a solution eats at me. Especially so because I've been told by a couple people that I already speak it. But I'll keep trying actually understand it.
For what it's worth, this all seems to be an enveloping secret language as an onlooker. I'm glad that those who understand it never seem to take it for granted.
I saw this post yesterday in passing and I wanted to comment (I've been trying to peek into lots of the threads to see what's in what) but didn't have the opportunity until now.
I find this fascinating. The dynamic is beautiful to watch and one that also feels like a foreign language to me as well. I'm intrigued, I admit it's likely that I've never had that level of trust with another person. Again, it's something I find so beautiful.
I hope no one minds me peeking in from time to time or asking stupid questions in my quest for understanding.
