The pleasures of sharing your wife

[PantyGentleman]

What pleasures do you get from another man fucking your wife? Especially if you are not there when it happens? Has it ever ruined your sex life once you realize you cant perform as good as him and your wife doesn't enjoy having sex with you anymore.

 

[Wendylooking4Bbc]

Fiancé thought he wanted it

For two years all he talked about was watching me with a Blackman.
He bought black on white sex dvd's he brought home blackcock dildos we would play with while watching the dvd's. He said I would look so hot with a Blackman between my spread legs taking a big blackcock would feel so good, on and on.
So I said ok let's do it only if we find the right guy. Well we did, just as I was starting to pant and moan, because this man knew how to drive a woman wild in bed, my fiancé gets up walks out slamming the door, leaving me behind with an orgasim building and I CAMEand it was sooooo good, that I came again!

Well I am no longer engaged but I am a blackcock slut, and I love it!

 

[gregy70]

For two years all he talked about was watching me with a Blackman.
He bought black on white sex dvd's he brought home blackcock dildos we would play with while watching the dvd's. He said I would look so hot with a Blackman between my spread legs taking a big blackcock would feel so good, on and on.
So I said ok let's do it only if we find the right guy. Well we did, just as I was starting to pant and moan, because this man knew how to drive a woman wild in bed, my fiancé gets up walks out slamming the door, leaving me behind with an orgasim building and I CAMEand it was sooooo good, that I came again!

Well I am no longer engaged but I am a blackcock slut, and I love it!

Wow how powerful

 

[screwher]

For two years all he talked about was watching me with a Blackman.
He bought black on white sex dvd's he brought home blackcock dildos we would play with while watching the dvd's. He said I would look so hot with a Blackman between my spread legs taking a big blackcock would feel so good, on and on.
So I said ok let's do it only if we find the right guy. Well we did, just as I was starting to pant and moan, because this man knew how to drive a woman wild in bed, my fiancé gets up walks out slamming the door, leaving me behind with an orgasim building and I CAMEand it was sooooo good, that I came again!

Well I am no longer engaged but I am a blackcock slut, and I love it!

Sounds like her fiancé was selfish. He wanted his carnal visual desires fulfilled, not thinking his wife-to- be might actually enjoy getting laid. When it wasn't all about him he bolted. There's a lesson here, be sure you know what you're getting into.

 

[PantyGentleman]

Sometimes sexual desires or fantasies take over your life and take you from reality. Once reality sets in, things can change quick.

 

[PantyGentleman]

For two years all he talked about was watching me with a Blackman.
He bought black on white sex dvd's he brought home blackcock dildos we would play with while watching the dvd's. He said I would look so hot with a Blackman between my spread legs taking a big blackcock would feel so good, on and on.
So I said ok let's do it only if we find the right guy. Well we did, just as I was starting to pant and moan, because this man knew how to drive a woman wild in bed, my fiancé gets up walks out slamming the door, leaving me behind with an orgasim building and I CAMEand it was sooooo good, that I came again!

Well I am no longer engaged but I am a blackcock slut, and I love it!

And this was kind of my point. It seems like it would happen more often. What I read on Lit is only the good things that men get from sharing their wife. Whether it is knowing she is pleased, sloppy seconds, etc...Since most ppl on here have a fetish, it is more normal to see the "good" things about sharing. But I would think it is more common for men to feel a way about their wife with someone when its really comes down to it. Especially with the man's ego thing. Most men want to be able to please a woman, and don't want someone else to do anything better than you.

 

[Sweepup50]

Me too

I only once had a threesome and it made me horny as hell once my friend saw my wife naked and when I watched him fuck her it's a memory that I will never forget it was fantastic. Only shame was she was never up for it again even though she admitted to enjoying it too. But if asked why I enjoyed watching my wife being screwed by another guy, I don't know the answer I just know it is awesome.

 

[Swgopro]

I want my wife to be totally satisfied and experience mind blowing sex and pleasure. I derive huge pleasure from the knowledge she is experiencing that. We have good sex and I please her in many ways, but if she can get even greater pleasure from another partner I'm all for it. Of course I'm also very secure in our relationship and have no fear that she is going to run off with him because he gives her a better orgasm.

This is 100% how I feel (though in full disclosure she hasn't been with another person yet.) We've been together 20 years and have survived things WAY worse than someone else being better in bed than I am. I wouldn't be worried about her leaving me in the slightest. I'm a giver and get my most intense pleasure by seeing her completely satisfied. I don't care what makes her happy...just that she IS happy.

 

[mikendel]

Watch her body move, hearing her sound knowing what those sounds mean, knowing what the guy is feeling her blowing him or him buried in her pussy, that look on her face when the guy unloads his cum in her or on her. I don't mind if she goes without me just as long as she brings back sloppy seconds.

 

[Twalter22]

It is the not knowing that is the greatest rush

Personally I get off more not being physically present. An other room yes but not watching. Knowing that she is wildly loving the experience. Hearing her some times guilty sometimes romantic. The fear that this time I will lose her totally.
And then the look on her face when she sees I have lost myself

 

[Chuck Darwin]

For two years all he talked about was watching me with a Blackman.
He bought black on white sex dvd's he brought home blackcock dildos we would play with while watching the dvd's. He said I would look so hot with a Blackman between my spread legs taking a big blackcock would feel so good, on and on.
So I said ok let's do it only if we find the right guy. Well we did, just as I was starting to pant and moan, because this man knew how to drive a woman wild in bed, my fiancé gets up walks out slamming the door, leaving me behind with an orgasim building and I CAMEand it was sooooo good, that I came again!

Well I am no longer engaged but I am a blackcock slut, and I love it!

Ha Ha! woo!

 

[Chuck Darwin]

Never "shared" my wife per se but once on vacation in France we went to a nude beach for the first time. My wife is quite modest (bless her), but I convinced her to remove her top and let the girls get some sun...the ole French men were walking by having a little peek. I loved it...and I think she did too.

 

[PantyGentleman]

Never "shared" my wife per se but once on vacation in France we went to a nude beach for the first time. My wife is quite modest (bless her), but I convinced her to remove her top and let the girls get some sun...the ole French men were walking by having a little peek. I loved it...and I think she did too.

Are you wanting/fantasizing about sharing your wife? would she be down for it?

 

[SCcouple1990]

The pleasure is seeing her freedom and confidence. It is fun joining in if we are in a MFM or FFM, or catching an occasional glimpse if we are swapping with another couple. The sights and sounds of the action is exciting.

As far he last part, I have no concerns about that. Sex is always good when we are finished with anyone else After so long together we know the right buttons to push to make sure the other person is satisfied, plus we have an emotional connection. That's not there with someone we are meeting just for sex.

 

[PantyGentleman]

The pleasure is seeing her freedom and confidence. It is fun joining in if we are in a MFM or FFM, or catching an occasional glimpse if we are swapping with another couple. The sights and sounds of the action is exciting.

As far he last part, I have no concerns about that. Sex is always good when we are finished with anyone else After so long together we know the right buttons to push to make sure the other person is satisfied, plus we have an emotional connection. That's not there with someone we are meeting just for sex.

Very true about the emotional part. You must have to have a strong emotional connection to be ok on both sides. Although a lot of relationships today don't have the deep emotional connection.

 

[Chuck Darwin]

Are you wanting/fantasizing about sharing your wife? would she be down for it?

She flirts with other men sometimes, but I've never asked her if she would want to have sex with another man. It's a great fantasy though. Makes me wonder what she would be into if she said yes. Would she want me there in the room? What positions would she want to fuck in?

Some day I will bring it up to get a better sense.

 

[Km450rx]

Aaaaa

 

[Chuck Darwin]

For her, I think it would need to be someone she knows, as she would never take the risk of meeting a stranger through an internet ad or hookup. but then you have the situation afterwards of seeing that person around or in other settings which might make her feel awkward. It's something I'd need to put a great deal more thought into before I would ever bring it up.

 

[Km450rx]

Aaaaa

 

[CindyCD478]

The pleasure is seeing her freedom and confidence. It is fun joining in if we are in a MFM or FFM, or catching an occasional glimpse if we are swapping with another couple. The sights and sounds of the action is exciting.

As far he last part, I have no concerns about that. Sex is always good when we are finished with anyone else After so long together we know the right buttons to push to make sure the other person is satisfied, plus we have an emotional connection. That's not there with someone we are meeting just for sex.

I agree 100%. We are both bi and have been swinging and swapping since before we were married. It has never affected our sex with each other, in fact it has probably made it better.

 

[Km450rx]

Aaaaa

 

[Km450rx]

Aaaaa

 

[bigray13]

Life long thrill

What pleasures do you get from another man fucking your wife? Especially if you are not there when it happens? Has it ever ruined your sex life once you realize you cant perform as good as him and your wife doesn't enjoy having sex with you anymore.

We have both enjoyed watching each other fuck other people since we got married, ( and before ), We only do it with , what we consider to be , close friends. We only do it while the other of us is present in the room. I guess , in our minds, that makes it OK. Any way, we still do it today. At 70 + , my wife still gets loud when one of our friends is fucking her. And I still get hard watching.

 

[bryan09]

My wife

It's been 3 years watching my wife with her FWB and it never gets boring. Yes, I think she enjoys sex with him on a different level than with me, but seeing and hearing her pleasure is a major turn on. I have never questioned my ability as her lover and husband to please her, as we still have an active sex life, but he takes her to a different level and I'm glad she can experience that with him.

 

[maxwellq]

We had a similar experience at a nude beach. I convinced my wife to remove the top of her bathing suit while I stripped completely. Initially she was lying on her stomach, but eventually turned over, exposing her large, full breasts with their perky nipples. It was so exciting as guys walked by, ogling her lovely naked tits. Pretty tame, I know, but it has inspired many hot fantasies for us both.