When you cum? A few questions

clarissaj1982

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Hi guys, its me, Clarissa.

A couple of times since I began writing here at literotica.com I’ve tried to write like a guy. I asked you readers how I did and some folks actually replied. I want to thank them very much for that. When I read the replies they made my nipples tingle and if my tits had been big enough for me to suck them myself, I would have. OK, maybe my nips didn’t really tingle but it did make me hot knowing that people cared enough to respond.

The jist of the feedback I got was, for the most part, that I had done a pretty good job but hadn’t quite gotten there. I’ve been thinking about this and I understand. I mean, I'm a girl. I’ve always been a girl. My perspective is distinctly feminine. But most of all - I don’t have a dick.

I know what it feels like to receive a dick but I really don’t know what it feels like to stick that dick in. I don’t know what it feels like to pump that dick in and out or to spurt liquid love from the end, and if I don’t understand this better, I think I’ll never be able to write, convincingly, from the masculine perspective. This would cut my potential for stories in half.

If I were going to try and learn what it feels like to ejaculate I think I would take a poll. Problem is that I can’t just go down to the beach, or the mall, and start quizzing guys. I have to be a bit discreet so, if I could I would ask you, since you are taking the time to read this, these questions:

“Excuse me sir, I’m doing some research and I want you to describe for me, as accurately as possible what you feel, both emotionally and physically, when you ejaculate?”

“Uh huh, and would you compare those feelings and describe the differences between whether you happen to be spurting into a mouth, a pussy, or an ass? Is there a difference?”

“Ok this is good, really good. What about hand jobs?”

“Masturbation?”

“Really, I would never have guessed that.”

“OK, maybe some multiple choice questions.”

“If you are having sex with a girl where would you prefer to deposit your seed?”
A. In her cunt
B. In her ass
C. In her mouth
D. On her face
E. On her tits
F. I don’t care, I just want to spurt
G. Other


“If you are having sex with a boy?”
A. On his face
B. In his mouth
C. In his ass
D. On his back / ass
E. On his belly
F. I don’t care, I just want to spurt
G. Other

“What are you thinking about when the first drop of jizz erupts from the head of your cock?”
A. Nothing, I can’t think then
B. This girl/guy is really lucky to have me
C. I can’t believe he/she is really letting me do this
D. I should be taking pictures.
E. What’s your name again?

“Are you up for a few ‘True or False’ questions?””OK, Great.”

“Sometimes, I cry when I cum. True or False?”

“True or False, my balls pull in tight right before I begin to ejaculate and sometimes my toes curl up.”

“I couldn’t talk while I was ejaculating, even if I wanted to. T or F?”

“T or F? I can get it up almost immediately after cumming the first time. I'm ready to go again.”

“T or F? I need to cuddle awhile or watch a hockey game between rounds of fucking.”

“I’m more of a wham bam thank you ma’am kind of guy. Once and I'm off. T or F?”

“Simple answers now…”

“Do you think about the one you are with, or do you fantasize about another partner when you are making love?”

“If so, who? Why?”

“Do you need to be in control of your own pleasure? Or are you comfortable surrendering that task to your lover?”

“Are you noisy when you make love?”

“Do you like your partner to be noisy?”

“What is your favourite sexual position? If you don’t have a name for it; describe it to me.”

“In twenty five words or less describe your last climax. Not what you were doing… rather, what you felt.”

Thanks guys, I love you all and appreciate the feedback. I’ll try to come up with some really good stories using the information you have provided me here.
 
“If you are having sex with a girl where would you prefer to deposit your seed?”
A. In her cunt as the most deeply fulfilling kind of climax
B. In her ass
C. In her mouth
D. On her face
E. On her tits
F. I don’t care, I just want to spurt
G. Other but occasionally to see my spunk on her belly or breasts and we play with it some.


“If you are having sex with a boy?” I don't
A. On his face
B. In his mouth
C. In his ass
D. On his back / ass
E. On his belly
F. I don’t care, I just want to spurt
G. Other

“What are you thinking about when the first drop of jizz erupts from the head of your cock?”
A. Nothing, I can’t think then
B. This girl is really lucky to have me and it's totally fabulous for me to be fucking her and filling her again
C. I can’t believe he/she is really letting me do this
D. I should be taking pictures.
E. What’s your name again?

“Are you up for a few ‘True or False’ questions?””OK, Great.”

“Sometimes, I cry when I cum. True or False?” - but only very occasionally

True or False, my balls pull in tight right before I begin to ejaculate and sometimes my toes curl up.” Especially the toes bit!!!

“I couldn’t talk while I was ejaculating, even if I wanted to. T or F?” True and I really have tried! Can't be done!

“T or F? I can get it up almost immediately after cumming the first time. I'm ready to go again.” For me totally false, and it was false even in my twenties.

“T or F? I need to cuddle awhile or watch a hockey game between rounds of fucking.” Excuse me I'm British. We have a cup of tea quite often!

“I’m more of a wham bam thank you ma’am kind of guy. Once and I'm off. T or F?” Totally false. Complete sex is about getting the gal orgasmic and taking huge pleasure in that, way before I am. oops I read that again and need to answer differently - I'm a 'more than 4,000 times with the same gal' kind of guy, and extremely happy with that.

“Simple answers now…”

“Do you think about the one you are with, or do you fantasize about another partner when you are making love?” I've never thought about another woman while I am fucking my wife. But just occasionally I have thought about some guy who is a friend on Lit and we have discussed our sexpertise, and I have imagined myself being him. I think I may be really unusual in that respect but I have this deep sense of a solidarity of studs goin' on in me.

“If so, who? Why?” kinda answered above

“Do you need to be in control of your own pleasure? Or are you comfortable surrendering that task to your lover?” My choice is to be in control most of the time and my woman seems to thrive on that. The exception I guess is oral as foreplay - me receiving - when I love her to get it all sorted the way she wants to play

“Are you noisy when you make love?” Yes! I love to give my woman a commentary on her sexiness and her responses to what I'm doing. And when things get raucous I growl and yell and shout a few obscenities.

“Do you like your partner to be noisy?” DAMN Yesss! but it's gotta be for real! Absolutely no faked stuff ever ever ever ever - got that clear enough? Absolutely no pretend noises from the gal! Please!!!

“What is your favourite sexual position? If you don’t have a name for it; describe it to me.” Wheelbarrow, her lying on the bed, her butt on the corner, me standing, her legs on my elbows or up my shoulders - wild!

“In twenty five words or less describe your last climax. Not what you were doing… rather, what you felt.”
My woman was riding me facing me, me lying on the bed. She had had a long build to a magnificent 'high orbit' orgasm in which I took huge pleasure, maintaining it with meeting her gyrations with short sharp upward movements of my hips and lots of caressing of her breasts with one hand and her lower belly with the other, pressing deeply there to increase her g-spot contact with my helmet ridge inside her. Just as she came down a little I got much more violent with my upward thrusts, sending her into a real bounce on my cock while she started crying out about me spurting deep in her, and so I did! I resisted the huge instinct to freeze and kept shoving up into my own spunk which I totally adore doing when I can! Then it was deep groans and my legs jerking out of control as she came forward and slumped onto my chest, me groping at the sides of her breasts and at her ass, loving the bigness of me still deep in her, our wetness mingling.
 
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Thanks

Thanks suckonsimon, most helpful, as you are British I should probably say, "Ta very much!"
Did I get that right?
 
My but you ask a lot of personal questions. I might answer after you have posted for a while.
 
Every gal is different, and every gal is the same; they generally let you know whats up before every encounter, if you pay attention. All of them want something for the joy you get, so the wise man makes all the right stops along the way. Find something about her that truly appeals to you...could be anything. Eliminate her regrets where possible. If you don't send her to paradise, you may do well enough to be her Plan B if her other lover isn't available. Leave her with something to think about.
 
“If you are having sex with a girl where would you prefer to deposit your seed?”
A. In her cunt
B. In her ass
C. In her mouth
D. On her face
E. On her tits
F. I don’t care, I just want to spurt
G. Other

Yes.

(Also, my "others" would be her lower stomach, when my cock is sandwiched between us both, on her feet, or all over her fingers.)
 
If you are having sex with a girl where would you prefer to deposit your seed?”
A. In her cunt as the most deeply fulfilling kind of climax
B. In her ass
C. In her mouth
D. On her face
E. On her tits
F. I don’t care, I just want to spurt
G. Other but occasionally to see my spunk on her belly or breasts and we play with it some.
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A C D E and not in the particular order sometimes :)
 
Are you
Currently
Keeping
Cleaver's brain
In a jar?

Your posts.
Read.
Like
William Shatner
On meth.

You read that? Im only here because I saw you posted. lol

Few questions? Looks like a lot of questions. I skipped it all of course cuz thats how I roll.
 
Are you
Currently
Keeping
Cleaver's brain
In a jar?

Your posts.
Read.
Like
William Shatner
On meth.

anything that is
important
should fit on
a 3x5 card.

how you read
what i say
is not a function
of what i say.

try reading it as
graeme edge.

sure,
you have no idea who that is.
it's ok, tho.
 
“If you are having sex with a girl where would you prefer to deposit your seed?”

In the urn with her grandmother's ashes.

“If you are having sex with a boy?”

On his face. I don't have sex with boys, because that's gross and I ain't no freakin' homo, but jizzin' on a dude's face seems a good way of showing my disdain for his lusting after my cock. Take that, you sick little monkey!

“What are you thinking about when the first drop of jizz erupts from the head of your cock?”

Clowns, mostly.

“Sometimes, I cry when I cum. True or False?”

True, but only because I'm laughing so hard at the look at furious disappointment she gives me because I prematurely ejaculated all over the turkey during Thanksgiving dinner with her parents.


Your survey has become tiresome.
 
Hey, Clarissa! You begin to perceive no doubt that your survey is on the wrong board! How about you try over again on Fetish and Sexuality Central!
 
Are you
Currently
Keeping
Cleaver's brain
In a jar?

Your posts.
Read.
Like
William Shatner
On meth.

Can't help but replying...

Spock; Can't Take... over... my mind.... (struggles)

Spock: I cannot help you Captain. Your brain waves are trapped in an intergalactic time wave.

Bones to captain--

I have just created multi spatial with avarier that will cure everyone. I call it Tums.
 
That questions has many answers. With my girl that was different. Into the cunt, ass, mouth, on the body. But where should I cum to when I have no girl and just hang out at the page?:) That is more interesting question, isn't it?xD
 
I think it's really sweet that you guys are too shy to talk about your own orgasms. Girls talk about orgasms all the time. Yours a bit, but mostly we talk about our own.
That's the reason I want to know about yours. I want to understand them. I want you to help me understand what it feels like to spunk!
 
Thanks Guys, I really needed to laugh.
It's weird, tears are still running down my face.
I was starting to get amused by the Bert channeling Cleaver stuff, but when I read in "In the urn with her grandmother's ashes" I started to laugh.
 
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