swinger club/ adult theater etiquette

[Pretty_kitty169]

We have visited both, both are fun! Although the theatre was a bit creepy until we got to couple only room. Had a couple sit next to us and keep playing and watching us play, but they never talked to us and being new didn't say anything to them. Also at the club we had sex in front of a group but didn't really meet anyone to play with. Everyone we talked to was friendly but wasn't sure how to ask the few we connected with if they wanted to play. So, a couple questions
1. What's the best story you got for either a club or theatre
2. How do you break the ice with others at these place? I mean, you don't want to say hey, let's go screw?

 

[CindyCD478]

Didn't know there was such a thing as etiquette at a swingers club. Rules just get in the way of fun!!

 

[KillerTom]

We have visited both, both are fun! Although the theatre was a bit creepy until we got to couple only room. Had a couple sit next to us and keep playing and watching us play, but they never talked to us and being new didn't say anything to them. Also at the club we had sex in front of a group but didn't really meet anyone to play with. Everyone we talked to was friendly but wasn't sure how to ask the few we connected with if they wanted to play. So, a couple questions
1. What's the best story you got for either a club or theatre
2. How do you break the ice with others at these place? I mean, you don't want to say hey, let's go screw?

One of the places - well, it's become THE place - we go to for such meetings is the Onyx Theatre in Las Vegas, which itself is located in a rectangle of bars and fetish stores where swingers go to find a hook up. Another place is the dance club at Hooters (next to Tropicana) and there are a couple others. We have had 5 swinger experiences in over 3 years; 3 of them soft, one full and another weird.

2. How do you break the ice with others at these place? I mean, you don't want to say hey, let's go screw?

90% of the time what happens is that after a few minutes of both couples making it obvious to one another they MAY be interested, one woman separates herself from her man and through eye contact invites the other woman to go to where she is, so for a few minutes you have each guy by himself at the table he sat down at originally and the two women together talking for a while. Should things seem good between the women, they signal to their respective men who leave their alone-ness and join that table and the 4 of you have a talk.

If there is a nervousness or non-certainty, the two women would return to their men and there would be a discussion between couples by themselves before the group table meeting.