Help me with rough sex

[Gingersnap1971]

My man is into rough sex and likes dominant women.
He has scars from such sex.
I don't know what he means or what he wants me to do. He ask says he's open to a little ass play on him.
Help me rock his world!!
Any ideas, as I've never been the rough and tumble kinda girl, I'd like to start small but still make a big impression.

 

[cookiecat]

He wants to be ass fucked?

Do what he does to you.

 

[Swinky]

Have him guide you the first couple of times. Once you feel a little more comfortable with what he's looking for, you can put the spurs to him yourself. My girl too was a little unsure with the role reversal, still is frankly but she likes to be made to do what I want.

 

[Gingersnap1971]

Thanks Swinky.
That's what I was thinking too.
Wish me luck.

 

[PantyGentleman]

I think you should just take him by surprise and get a strap on. That sounds like what he wants. If he has to tell you what to do, it wont be the same for him

 

[Swinky]

You're right it won't be the same for him, initially. The reality is that it's not just about him. Both partners need to grow into this. My experience has been that you go the speed of the slowest person in the room if you want repeat performances.

 

[ElliottEden]

I think you should just take him by surprise and get a strap on. That sounds like what he wants. If he has to tell you what to do, it wont be the same for him

You're right it won't be the same for him, initially. The reality is that it's not just about him. Both partners need to grow into this. My experience has been that you go the speed of the slowest person in the room if you want repeat performances.

Sounds like you are both right. I'd say go with the strap on as a surprise but then tell him you want him to pick the next dildo to fit into the harness - he will probably have preferences.

And get a lot of lube, read up on prostate massage. That should help!

 

[tmmmbrrr]

My man is into rough sex and likes dominant women.
He has scars from such sex.
I don't know what he means or what he wants me to do. He ask says he's open to a little ass play on him.
Help me rock his world!!
Any ideas, as I've never been the rough and tumble kinda girl, I'd like to start small but still make a big impression.

So, if he has scars from rough sex how did he come by those and is that something you're willing to do to him?

90% of sex is mental, so why surprise him with a strap-on. Let him be part of the buying decision and he'll spend the next minutes, hours or days imagining getting fucked by you and getting off in his head. By the time you're actually lubing him up, he'll be a quivering blob of jelly. Fuck him good, G-snap, and let us know how it goes.

 

[live4thebj]

My man is into rough sex and likes dominant women.
He has scars from such sex.
I don't know what he means or what he wants me to do. He ask says he's open to a little ass play on him.
Help me rock his world!!
Any ideas, as I've never been the rough and tumble kinda girl, I'd like to start small but still make a big impression.

Bring in a well hung black guy fresh from prison and then see what happens after that.

 

[sunandshadow]

It seems like pushing someone onto a bed, spanking them, tugging on their pubes or head hair, and scratching/biting a bit during the penetrative part, are all things that are rough but starting small.

 

[live4thebj]

You know, I do remember being someone that is 99% dominant I did become a sub for one time with this woman. Man she brought the freak on.

Tied my ankles and wrists to the best posts.
Sucked me
Penetrated my back-door with a toy, finger(s), and probably more (no male participation)
Rode me
Sat on my face
Made me suck her tits
and finished me off with backdoor action and suction at the same time

FUCKING LOVED IT!