Attitudes about sex- what if the world??

[GingerFireFly]

What if the world was different and we treated our NEED for sex the way we did our need for food, water, or sleep?

What if being horny was like being hungry? A way we acknowledged everyone gets? and something everyone obviously needs to take care of?

What if the only standard we judged by was if there was consent? What if there was no shame?

What if we didn't think of people's bodies as possessions and didn't feel threatened when our lovers had other lovers?

Would you tell your co-workers you really need a suck break because you've been craving cock, indulge in the nice "snack" you'd arranged for, then have them nicely let you know you'd missed a spot on your chin when you got back?

Would your wife come home from work and see that you hadn't mowed the lawn and walk in to find you balls deep in a tight ass? Would you say I'm sorry, I just had a craving and have it met with her only being annoyed you hadn't gotten to the lawn?

Would you see something exotic and new to you, race, accent, nationality, body type and go "mmm I always meant to try that kind"?

Would your husband come home and find you getting drilled and say "oh good, I'm horny too" and drop to his knees to add his tongue to the mix?

Would it be bad? Would we start seeing each other as things not people? Would we indulge in lower quality more available sex too often? maybe....

I like to think we'd get more conscious of the need to take care of our beautiful bodies that give us so much pleasure though. I like to think that we'd get to know our neighbors more. Notice when they had needs we could help with.. sexually of course, but not just sexually. I'd like to think we'd be enjoying pleasures rather than inflicting pain.

I think a lot of people crave touch. I think a lot of people crave pleasure. I think a lot of people crave release, and I don't think we have to hurt the people we love when we meet our needs for those things or help people meet there's. I just wish the world would catch up with my thinking on that.

 

[StrongMaster7]

That is a lovely dream.

I had hoped that marriage would be like that. Then reality had to stick its stupid nose in. I guess that's why I come to Literotica.

 

[Justfantasies]

What if the world was different and we treated our NEED for sex the way we did our need for food, water, or sleep?

What if being horny was like being hungry? A way we acknowledged everyone gets? and something everyone obviously needs to take care of?

What if the only standard we judged by was if there was consent? What if there was no shame?

What if we didn't think of people's bodies as possessions and didn't feel threatened when our lovers had other lovers?

Would you tell your co-workers you really need a suck break because you've been craving cock, indulge in the nice "snack" you'd arranged for, then have them nicely let you know you'd missed a spot on your chin when you got back?

Would your wife come home from work and see that you hadn't mowed the lawn and walk in to find you balls deep in a tight ass? Would you say I'm sorry, I just had a craving and have it met with her only being annoyed you hadn't gotten to the lawn?

Would you see something exotic and new to you, race, accent, nationality, body type and go "mmm I always meant to try that kind"?

Would your husband come home and find you getting drilled and say "oh good, I'm horny too" and drop to his knees to add his tongue to the mix?

Would it be bad? Would we start seeing each other as things not people? Would we indulge in lower quality more available sex too often? maybe....

I like to think we'd get more conscious of the need to take care of our beautiful bodies that give us so much pleasure though. I like to think that we'd get to know our neighbors more. Notice when they had needs we could help with.. sexually of course, but not just sexually. I'd like to think we'd be enjoying pleasures rather than inflicting pain.

I think a lot of people crave touch. I think a lot of people crave pleasure. I think a lot of people crave release, and I don't think we have to hurt the people we love when we meet our needs for those things or help people meet there's. I just wish the world would catch up with my thinking on that.

For a brief time -- I had a lover as well as wife and both women knew about the relationship and one (at least) had another lover too. It all felt very right to me and I had a lot of sex. After a few months, both women tired of the relationship, so perhaps I wasn't ding the right thing!

 

[Grandfatherly]

These thoughts (some of them, at least) and others like these have been prominent in my thoughts for some time.

 

[HornyProf]

What if the world was different and we treated our NEED for sex the way we did our need for food, water, or sleep?

What if being horny was like being hungry? A way we acknowledged everyone gets? and something everyone obviously needs to take care of?

What if the only standard we judged by was if there was consent? What if there was no shame?

What if we didn't think of people's bodies as possessions and didn't feel threatened when our lovers had other lovers?

Would you tell your co-workers you really need a suck break because you've been craving cock, indulge in the nice "snack" you'd arranged for, then have them nicely let you know you'd missed a spot on your chin when you got back?

Would your wife come home from work and see that you hadn't mowed the lawn and walk in to find you balls deep in a tight ass? Would you say I'm sorry, I just had a craving and have it met with her only being annoyed you hadn't gotten to the lawn?

Would you see something exotic and new to you, race, accent, nationality, body type and go "mmm I always meant to try that kind"?

Would your husband come home and find you getting drilled and say "oh good, I'm horny too" and drop to his knees to add his tongue to the mix?

Would it be bad? Would we start seeing each other as things not people? Would we indulge in lower quality more available sex too often? maybe....

I like to think we'd get more conscious of the need to take care of our beautiful bodies that give us so much pleasure though. I like to think that we'd get to know our neighbors more. Notice when they had needs we could help with.. sexually of course, but not just sexually. I'd like to think we'd be enjoying pleasures rather than inflicting pain.

I think a lot of people crave touch. I think a lot of people crave pleasure. I think a lot of people crave release, and I don't think we have to hurt the people we love when we meet our needs for those things or help people meet there's. I just wish the world would catch up with my thinking on that.

I do too

 

[UrbanBohemian]

Well unfortunately a lot of people don't include consent in the list of things you're talking about so I think that also needs to be addressed before we can progress in our other attitudes. I don't know about "possessions" as you put it. I think a lot of that is loyalty. People do get territorial for sure but I don't know that it's necessarily always a bad thing. I've encountered many polyamorous people who get VERY preachy about it and think anyone into monogamy is just the scum of the Earth. That really turns me off. I'm not really into telling people my way of thinking is the right way apart from considering consequences to others. For example, I don't like homophobic people because there are real consequences to that and real people are affected. So what we really need to do is think about consequences to people and education about how your views and actions affect others. Too many people are incredibly selfish and that's just not the way adults are supposed to act. That's just how to maintain a cooperative society. That's one of the things that I would say is based on reality so it's fine to have a view on that concerning right and wrong.

So generally I do think we need to progress in our attitudes about sex but there are other things to be considered. When we take care of societal problems like that and become more considerate and mature people we can start on the rest.

 

[GingerFireFly]

I want really thinking poly, but more what b if we were just animalistic about it. I get it isn't realistic, but I'm more thinking I meet you, I check you out, I think licking and sucking you would be a nice way to get to know you. You are ok with that and position yourself so I can have access, and there isn't all the complexity you mentioned brought into it. What if it was simple. Want, mount, fuvk. Again I get not realistic. There will always be other concerns, but it is on my fantasy list.

 

[SussexMan1964]

I think the other thing you are missing out on is intimacy... even a one night stand has that moment of conection, the feeling that no matter how briefly you are sharing something important with someone else.... being animalistic about it would actually be a bit of a turn off! Part of the thrill is in the chase after all!