Help! Would you date a lit user?

[lingophilia]

Hi everyone.

I'm new here and I have a problem:

To those of you who are interested in serious relationships (like, ever, not necessarily right now) or are in one, would it be a no-go for you if the person you were with had been on lit before? Have you had people break up with you because they found out you were on here?

Cause my ex was super upset when I created an account and said he would never ever want to be in a relationship with someone who had done that.

Also I'm female.

 

[RoryN]

RUN....

 

[Liar]

Not sure if Lit is the place to ask if people would date a Lit user.

I for one only date fellow perverts.

 

[Liar]

RUN....

That's another way to put it.

 

[Sean]

Never. You'd have to be insane to date anyone from here.

 

[lingophilia]

Well being kinky doesn't have THAT much to do with it does it?
I mean. This particular guy was kinky as fuck. He still wouldn't have dated anyone who was openly sexual. The kink needs to be locked up and only talked about within the relationship, you know?

 

[Penuche]

Hi everyone.

I'm new here; I had an account a while back but quickly shut it down again because it upset my boyfriend at the time. Which is the root of a worry I have about being here that won't leave me alone.

I'm very curious and talkative and pretty fascinated with sexuality even beyond my own sexual arousal, on an intellectual level. It's such a wide open field with such energy and creativity to it! So, this forum is gold for me and I'm so glad I found it. But.

My ex had pretty clear ideas of what kind of sexual behavior he could and couldn't get behind in a (potential) romantic partner. Within a committed relationship, basically everything was ok for him, but he sincerely says that he would never date a woman who had already had many different relationships (unless, like, she'd been dumped every time), and much less a woman who had been sexual with anyone she wasn't dating at the time. He said he doesn't even like that he has this "rule" in his mind, but he can't get over it no matter how hard he tries; if he finds out a girl is "impure" by this definition, she's out no matter how great she might be otherwise. And I'm pretty sure that he wouldn't have started dating me in the first place if I'd been active on a forum like this before. <snip>

There's a good reason that man is your ex - you were wrong for each other.

There are plenty of men out there who won't care what you've done before meeting them, some might even be glad that you've put some thought into what makes you (and others) tick sexually.

Really seriously stop worrying.

 

[Liar]

Well being kinky doesn't have THAT much to do with it does it?
I mean. This particular guy was kinky as fuck. He still wouldn't have dated anyone who was openly sexual. The kink needs to be locked up and only talked about within the relationship, you know?

And do you think people who post on a porn board share that mindset?

 

[lingophilia]

Wow! So then ... Do all of you who answered No consider yourselves undateable as well?? No offense, please, I'm just baffled!

 

[lingophilia]

And do you think people who post on a porn board share that mindset?

Um ... from the tone of your question I would guess not? ^^ But I don't know which is why I asked.

 

[loquere]

I'm currently in a relationship with a Lit user.

 

[miles]

This is some really, really stewpid shit.

Nobody is that dumb.

 

[loquere]

I'm currently in a relationship with a Lit user.

Since no one asked the person i'm dating goes by the name Ereuqol

 

[Emerson40]

http://65.media.tumblr.com/b60234023e0efe36c42bbf2860536560/tumblr_o8eoyluYB31qdvatvo1_500.jpg

 

[bronzeage]

I haven't actually dated a lit user, but I've been asked plenty of times. Sometimes by women.

 

[lovetoread]

Well everyone who posts on here are male.

Even the ones pretending to be women.

I for one would never date a lister.

Sex them, marry them maybe.

But never date.

 

[loquere]

Since no one asked the person i'm dating goes by the name Ereuqol

Come on no one responded. Ereuqol is Loquere backwards.

 

[loquere]

It's me.

 

[loquere]

I'm dating myself!...................................................LOQUERE OUT!!!

 

[loquere]

I'd date Loquere but he's already taken.

Thank you kind lady! LOL XD! Yeah I laughed in real life!



I'm done for the evening, i'm going to go get dinner at McDonald's now..... PEACE! [Hashtag McNuggets]

 

[RobDownSouth]

Well everyone who posts on here are male.

Even the ones pretending to be women.

I for one would never date a lister.

Sex them, marry them maybe.

But never date.

It is good that you have standards.
*nods*

 

[loquere]

See. No wonder he's taken. He takes his dates to McDonalds.

Hey not cool! We'd go on an endless adventure together. To only the very best eateries.

 

[Emerson40]

Happy Meal?



http://40.media.tumblr.com/fa8c0dd3d6e3d8d0ddd1cc9da77d8530/tumblr_nd708m8S4p1t345fco1_500.jpg

 

[Noor]

First of all, you have a right to your sexuality, don't let anyone ever tell you otherwise.

Your ex had issues, I am so glad he is your ex. A man who only wants sexually experienced women as long as they have been dumped sounds like a guy with a sexual inferiority complex and is probably lousy in bed.

As far as dirty, all of us are tainted with the shame of "original sin" if you wish to believe such things, but being active on the Lit forum should not be a deal breaker and if it is, there are plenty of fish in the sea, "NEXT!"

Any guy I am serious about knows that I am on Lit. It usually makes them more intrigued than less. Some have accounts here.

I promised to keep a fellow Lit user forever, way better than dating.

 

[Farrah]

Well everyone who posts on here are male.

Even the ones pretending to be women.

I for one would never date a lister.

Sex them, marry them maybe.

But never date.

What LTR said. I'll add that I would also have their baby.

But never date.