The NEW UK Kink Thread

[StrangeView]

Hello all, just popping in for a nightcap. I am tired from a vigorous dance class

I am excited that I might get to meet Belle this week

Hello new folk, welcome to the comfy chairs of the UK kink thread!

Hi Lucy, hi everyone. Comfy chairs? What about the one with the straps in the corner?

But I didn't mention the Spanish Inquisition!!

 

[Mindfondler]

The music and word games are fairly innocuous, but if you join in some of the other playground threads, just be prepared for an onslaught of PMs

*listens patiently for rumbling in the tunnels,, but hears nothing*

I am excited that I might get to meet Belle this week

I was puzzled at first when I read that, because I thought that you and Master met Belle at LAM at the same time as my wife and I did. Then I recalled that we met you and Master at the London Munch a couple of days before that. *slaps self around head with pet halibut*

I do hope that you get to meet Belle. As has been widely trailed here, she's lovely (as is Malich -- I can't resist the urge to embarrass him with that statement at every opportunity!).

Hi Lucy, hi everyone. Comfy chairs? What about the one with the straps in the corner?

Don't forget the soft cushions! Make sure that you've got all the stuffing up one end.

But I didn't mention the Spanish Inquisition!!

Very wise.
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[LucyBee01]

Hi Lucy, hi everyone. Comfy chairs? What about the one with the straps in the corner?

But I didn't mention the Spanish Inquisition!!

Mmm, straps sound fun

MF - hahaha! Yeah, definitely got to meet Belle now

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Mindfondler]

She's very sweet. ( belle).

Hey! Lucybee is very sweet too!

I'm currently in the uncomfortable and unfamiliar territory of self-promotion. As well as bumping my postings in the Lit Personals threads, I've been re-vamping my CV, creating a LinkedIn profile and making approaches about new employment. I haven't had to do that for many years.
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[Oldenburg]

Someone cheer me up!! Having such a shit day ( explained on the fuck you cancer thread)

 

[StrangeView]

Someone cheer me up!! Having such a shit day ( explained on the fuck you cancer thread)

Hi Oldenburg, just checked that out, and sending lots of support hugs News like that is always a shock, but there is a plan, and a target to aim at, so dig in, focus that belief, and don't let that damn disease win. I doubt that there's anyone on here that won't be with you all the way, don't be afraid to call on us

 

[Oldenburg]

Hi Oldenburg, just checked that out, and sending lots of support hugs News like that is always a shock, but there is a plan, and a target to aim at, so dig in, focus that belief, and don't let that damn disease win. I doubt that there's anyone on here that won't be with you all the way, don't be afraid to call on us

I'm 80% trying to be positive about it like you say, but there is that 20% niggerling doubt, I've had it in my head all evening, even when speaking to my dad keeping him positive it's there ( not showing it) fucking sucks big style.. He finds it hard to understand, since having his surgery he's changed.. Still my dad but he's not the same person that went in 4 weeks ago, he's getting better massively long road we still have ahead...

Thank you StrangeView I've not been on here long (well a year but lurked) I can see people on here are like a little Lit family...

Next 3 months are going to be awful, not to even think about my poor mom having to drive 90 mile round trip to the hospital 5 days a week for 3 months. I'm not wishing life or time away but I can not wait to see the back of 2016 it's already been a fucker...

Sorry for the moan..

G xx

 

[StrangeView]

I'm 80% trying to be positive about it like you say, but there is that 20% niggerling doubt, I've had it in my head all evening, even when speaking to my dad keeping him positive it's there ( not showing it) fucking sucks big style.. He finds it hard to understand, since having his surgery he's changed.. Still my dad but he's not the same person that went in 4 weeks ago, he's getting better massively long road we still have ahead...

Thank you StrangeView I've not been on here long (well a year but lurked) I can see people on here are like a little Lit family...

Next 3 months are going to be awful, not to even think about my poor mom having to drive 90 mile round trip to the hospital 5 days a week for 3 months. I'm not wishing life or time away but I can not wait to see the back of 2016 it's already been a fucker...

Sorry for the moan..

G xx

Sorry I couldn't get back sooner, it's been a crazy day here. Don't worry about the moan, you've always got an ear here, just get stuff off your chest. And don't bottle things up, it'll do you no good, trust me, I'm an expert

 

[Belle_SS]

Got to meet Lucybee and MasterNick last night at the Kilburn Munch ^^ lovely couple, super friendly! 10/10 would talk to again!

 

[Malich]

So today I sent an e-mail which might (Might, capital M) lead to a move down south!

I'm a Northern boy! WTF am I contemplating?

 

[Oldenburg]

Sorry I couldn't get back sooner, it's been a crazy day here. Don't worry about the moan, you've always got an ear here, just get stuff off your chest. And don't bottle things up, it'll do you no good, trust me, I'm an expert

It's oaky I've only just come on here myself, had the day from hell had to rush my dad to the doctors due to him being in so much pain..

It's never bloody ending..

Anyway how's everyone's day been??

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Oldenburg]

So today I sent an e-mail which might (Might, capital M) lead to a move down south!

I'm a Northern boy! WTF am I contemplating?

Well they say change is as good as a rest...

Fingers crossed, good luck

G x

 

[StrangeView]

It's oaky I've only just come on here myself, had the day from hell had to rush my dad to the doctors due to him being in so much pain..

It's never bloody ending..

Anyway how's everyone's day been??

Hi Oldenburg, busy day here, not helped by the little fella throwing up half the night last night, poor thing. A lot better now though. Got a week off now, but will get on when I can . Hang in there Lady, you'll get through, and I'll catch you soon

 

[LallyH]

I'm 80% trying to be positive about it like you say, but there is that 20% niggerling doubt, I've had it in my head all evening, even when speaking to my dad keeping him positive it's there ( not showing it) fucking sucks big style.. He finds it hard to understand, since having his surgery he's changed.. Still my dad but he's not the same person that went in 4 weeks ago, he's getting better massively long road we still have ahead...

Thank you StrangeView I've not been on here long (well a year but lurked) I can see people on here are like a little Lit family...

Next 3 months are going to be awful, not to even think about my poor mom having to drive 90 mile round trip to the hospital 5 days a week for 3 months. I'm not wishing life or time away but I can not wait to see the back of 2016 it's already been a fucker...

Sorry for the moan..

G xx

I'm sorry you're having such a tough time of it - reminds me of my life a few years ago.

So don't ever hold back from having a vent on here or the blurt thread of the cancer thread - you can say all those things you can't say in real life, and there will always be support from your friends here

 

[LucyBee01]

Got to meet Lucybee and MasterNick last night at the Kilburn Munch ^^ lovely couple, super friendly! 10/10 would talk to again!

Hee! And I didn't even have to pay you to say that
Was lovely to meet you. Malich is definitely a lucky guy.

So today I sent an e-mail which might (Might, capital M) lead to a move down south!

I'm a Northern boy! WTF am I contemplating?

Oooo, fingers crossed Then we might be more likely to meet you!
And it's fine down south. Really. They have McDonalds and everything

 

[LucyBee01]

It's oaky I've only just come on here myself, had the day from hell had to rush my dad to the doctors due to him being in so much pain..

It's never bloody ending..

Anyway how's everyone's day been??

It is so hard to see those we love in pain. Hang in there x

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Malich]

McDonalds is NOT REAL FOOD!

The amount of wrk I am doing in London is getting higher and higher and its killing me in travel time and costs. I did the maths and I can afford to pay for rent somewhere outside the M25 and a season ticket to the city centre and still make slightly more than I do now... and I've managed to wangle a not insignificant increase in my day rate as well.

It's looking more likely today as I got a mail back saying what I had suggested was ok in principal so potentially in 4-8 weeks I'll be moving down. Going to have a chat with the guy on Tuesday and iron out the details but I need to start looking at fine details now.

So while the South is terrifying as a Northerner, I spend enough time there already and it will benefit me financially, socially, physically and mentally. It will be a shame to leave some of the remaining friends I have up here... but I will make new ones easily enough especially if i'm working something close to regular hours.

 

[Mindfondler]

So while the South is terrifying as a Northerner, I spend enough time there already and it will benefit me financially, socially, physically and mentally. It will be a shame to leave some of the remaining friends I have up here... but I will make new ones easily enough especially if i'm working something close to regular hours.

Don't worry! The South isn't so terrifying, as long as you stay away from the M25, the London Tube, and arguments about whether dinner is the same as lunch or tea.
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[Oldenburg]

I'm sorry you're having such a tough time of it - reminds me of my life a few years ago.

So don't ever hold back from having a vent on here or the blurt thread of the cancer thread - you can say all those things you can't say in real life, and there will always be support from your friends here

It is so hard to see those we love in pain. Hang in there x

Thank you both it's so hard, I was soo frighten yesterday as I had to rush dad to the doctors he was in soo much pain it was awful... The worst thing there was absolutely nothing I could do to help him... hate seeing him like this... I'm so sorry if you have been through similar LallyH it's bloody awful... I suffer with depression so at the moment it's not very good, but I'm trying to stay as positive as I can for my dad and Mom as my poor mom is taking it hard..

Anyway hope everyone has a fabulous bank holiday, I have a horse show to look forward too, hopefully try and take my mind of things for half a day... Thank you your all so lovely.

G xx

 

[Malich]

Don't worry! The South isn't so terrifying, as long as you stay away from the M25, the London Tube, and arguments about whether dinner is the same as lunch or tea.
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The Tube and M25 will be constants in my days I think... And Dinner is the main meal of the day, to be taken at any time. Lunch is the meal at the middle of the day, tea is the meal at the end of the day. Either can be dinner depending on which is the bigger.

Argument ended!

Now wait until you spend 2 hour listening to a discussion about which is the correct order for the items on a cream scone! that can get heated

 

[Belle_SS]

And Dinner is the main meal of the day, to be taken at any time. Lunch is the meal at the middle of the day, tea is the meal at the end of the day. Either can be dinner depending on which is the bigger.

Argument ended!

Now wait until you spend 2 hour listening to a discussion about which is the correct order for the items on a cream scone! that can get heated

Ummm excuse me, it's
Breakfast, Lunch, and Dinner(Tea)
Also cream and then jam ^^

 

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