Unusual "Pinching" Feeling...

The JoZ

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First, happy to find that over 12 years of inactivity and I still have an account I can use. Oh how time flies.

I checked out the rules before posting, and didn't see anything against posting what I'm about to ask, so my apologies if this isn't relevant/allowed/what have you.

I am hoping to find advice, or advice on a good resource, for an issue I've experienced in the past that became bad enough last night that it caused a session of intercourse to cease prematurely. No, not that reason.

A couple of times I felt what I can only describe as an uncomfortable, almost painful sensation on a very specific part of my head while having sex with my wife. I felt almost as if I had hit a "wall"...or had been "pinched" or something. Not quite at the urethra, but very near to it.

This has been an off-and-on issue from time to time, but only last night did it become continuous enough that I wanted her to stop because it was bothering me.

I'm not really sure how to resolve it, what it was, what we could do differently to prevent it, etc. I'm not sure if it's a "his" issue (??) or a "her" issue (??)...IE, I don't know if it really crosses into "Go ask a doctor about it", and if it does, which doctor would I ask? Again, this isn't serious, but I obviously want to be able to enjoy intimacy with her without whatever happened continuing to happen.

I guess the best way to describe it is one moment I feel like I'm pushing into her as per the usual, and the with the next thrust/movement...as if I've hit something solid. It's not as if I am exiting her completely and missing the target, as it were, so...I don't think that's the problem.

So my biggest current confusion is I'm not really sure how to troubleshoot this issue, if it can even be done.

I also did not want to try Googling "Penis being pinched" or some variant thereof, as I'm sure that would return interesting but irrelevant results to my concern.

A tip of the cap to anyone who can point me in the right direction, and again, please accept my apologies if this somehow proceeds past decorum on this board. Cheers.
 
My friend went through that a few years ago, I think it was an infection. And then he got Chlamydia, but that was a few years later, so, probably not related.

He thought originally that it was his gf's contraceptive, but nope. Stay away from LitMD and go see your doc.
 
Don't listen to her. You'll get great medical advice here. :)

What kind of birth control do you guys use? Does she have an IUD, by chance?

The Pill and condoms. Nothing internally implanted, and no plans to do so.
 
The Pill and condoms. Nothing internally implanted, and no plans to do so.

Ah. I was thinking maybe your dick was getting poked. My wife used to have one of those and my junk hit it a time or two. Hurt like a motherfucker.

Go see a doc.
 
Ah. I was thinking maybe your dick was getting poked. My wife used to have one of those and my junk hit it a time or two. Hurt like a motherfucker.

Go see a doc.

That's what Bren thought it was. He put off the doc and then it would hurt to pee and he maybe had a discharge later. I dunno, he's an over-sharer.
 
I certainly appreciate the suggestions of seeing an actual medical doctor here, and don't want to dismiss them. But, I'm not quite sure the utility thereof just yet.

For those who appear to be alluding to the concern being some sort of STI/STD, I am very confident that is not the issue here. There is literally no other problem with my penis at any other time, and this has not been a problem that occurs every time we do it. It was just very pronounced last night.

She shared an article with me that suggested I was hitting her pubic bone, perhaps, and that I should be careful about "not break[ing] my dick" as it were. I'm browsing that now as well.

Again, I do appreciate suggestions to see a Medical Doctor™, but I'm at a loss for how I'd describe it. It's not been what I'd call a "chronic" problem...it's been relatively rare. It's just that it put the kibosh on what had otherwise been an enjoyable interlude last night, and that's why I sought the advice of The Internet...
 
Medical docs are kind of like mechanics. They can take a seemingly incomprehensible set of descriptions/sensations/noises and create a diagnosis.

It might not be worth a special trip to the doc, but bring it up next time you're in with your GP.
 
Denny---<-----that's me! The male half

I sometimes play doctor on Lit. I have a diploma but it's with all of Obama's things on a wall someplace in Chicago.

I used to hit bottom on my wife and it hurt us both. At the time we were both skinny young virgins. So I know the feeling. Stay away from virgins.

There are two experiments you can try before you visit a regular quack.

#1 Fuck a friend and see how she feels.

#2 Let your wife fuck one of your friends and see if his dick hurts.

If neither of you men have any strange penis reactions you probably should Google this and see what the pros have to say.
Take two aspirin and call me tomorrow.;)

Or seriously see your family doctor.
 
I certainly appreciate the suggestions of seeing an actual medical doctor here, and don't want to dismiss them. But, I'm not quite sure the utility thereof just yet.

For those who appear to be alluding to the concern being some sort of STI/STD, I am very confident that is not the issue here. There is literally no other problem with my penis at any other time, and this has not been a problem that occurs every time we do it. It was just very pronounced last night.

She shared an article with me that suggested I was hitting her pubic bone, perhaps, and that I should be careful about "not break[ing] my dick" as it were. I'm browsing that now as well.

Again, I do appreciate suggestions to see a Medical Doctor™, but I'm at a loss for how I'd describe it. It's not been what I'd call a "chronic" problem...it's been relatively rare. It's just that it put the kibosh on what had otherwise been an enjoyable interlude last night, and that's why I sought the advice of The Internet...

No, I'm pretty sure you're dying :( and we were just connecting, you know? You have a whole life ahead of you and to see it get cut down like that saddens me to my core. They don't make sad enough emojis for this, I'm sorry.

You will be missed, sn0g. You brave, brave boy....
 
No, I'm pretty sure you're dying :(

Ah damn it, I was afraid of that.

and we were just connecting, you know? You have a whole life ahead of you and to see it get cut down like that saddens me to my core. They don't make sad enough emojis for this, I'm sorry.

You will be missed, sn0g. You brave, brave boy....

Parting is such sweet sorrow...?
 
Ah damn it, I was afraid of that.



Parting is such sweet sorrow...?
Denny---------- As sweet as Garnate is she hasn't kept up on medical science. Read my post and follow my instructions first.
You may not die unless your friend's husband catches you.
 
Denny---------- As sweet as Garnate is she hasn't kept up on medical science. Read my post and follow my instructions first.
You may not die unless your friend's husband catches you.

Ahh I'm going to have to stop laughing my ass off at your reply before I can follow any of those instructions. :cool:
 
Ah damn it, I was afraid of that.



Parting is such sweet sorrow...?

Don't listen to Denny. Denny WANTS you to die. Denny told me so.
What you want to do is get your affairs in order and let me do the eulogy. It'll be tasteful, I promise. :heart:
 
Don't listen to Denny. Denny WANTS you to die. Denny told me so. What you want to do is get your affairs in order and let me do the eulogy. It'll be tasteful, I promise. :heart:

Tasteful sounds good.


CONSULT THE MIDWIfE.

I'm sorry...? If the suggestion is that she's pregnant, I don't believe that's the case either. This has been a problem on and off for a while, and...she's never been pregnant, so...
 
Denny---<-----that's me! The male half

Ahh I'm going to have to stop laughing my ass off at your reply before I can follow any of those instructions. :cool:
Denny-------------Stop laughing death and sore penis's are not funny. Also don't listen to Garnate. All she wants is you Cadillac and satin pantie collection.
 
Are you hitting her cervix? Although that might hurt her more than you.
 
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Denny---<-----that's me! The male half

Don't come in here trying to get the thread back on track while we plan the funeral, rude. :D
Denny------------- I do have to agree with you on this.
A serious thread on topic is such a waste. Now you'll have to play nurse or plan the cremation. My office is closed.

By the way it's best to wait until the patient dies before burning him.:)
 
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