Confessions of an Old Girlfriend

[Justfantasies]

I recently started e-mailing with an old girlfriend who I haven't seen for many years. She is married and admits to being bored. We have started to talk about our old relationship in somewhat explicit terms and at one point she told me that she felt that talking about such things made her feel that she was cheating on her husband.

I asked her if this made her feel guilty and to my surprise she told me that on the contrary it made her feel horny and she loved to talk to me about when we were screwing.

I had to ask -- had she ever actually cheated on her husband and she told me know. But then she added that when we were together she cheated on me three times; three different guys.

I have made her give me all the details and it has been a serious turn on for both of us. She says that she had no idea how exciting confessing was to her, but had always had the urge to contact me and tell me "the truth."

Any other women have a similar urge to get in touch with old boyfriends and tell them about about cheating incidents?

 

[ann21red]

smile

Sounds like challenge

 

[Justfantasies]

Sounds like challenge

Challenge?

 

[ararejewel]

I keep in very close contact with some old boyfriends of mine.

 

[Justfantasies]

I keep in very close contact with some old boyfriends of mine.

And you are married?

 

[ararejewel]

And you are married?

Mm-hm. My husband's away a lot on business, but honestly that doesn't matter. We got married too soon, and it's pretty obvious that there's no real spark there. Would consider a divorce, but there are certain circumstances (that I don't really want to go into) that prevent that at the moment.

 

[Justfantasies]

Mm-hm. My husband's away a lot on business, but honestly that doesn't matter. We got married too soon, and it's pretty obvious that there's no real spark there. Would consider a divorce, but there are certain circumstances (that I don't really want to go into) that prevent that at the moment.

So do you just correspond with these guys or actually fuck them? Care to continue in PM?

 

[ararejewel]

So do you just correspond with these guys or actually fuck them? Care to continue in PM?

I actually fuck them.

And no, thank you. I'm fine with talking here. I got nothin' to hide.

 

[Justfantasies]

I actually fuck them.

And no, thank you. I'm fine with talking here. I got nothin' to hide.

How many of them are there? And does your hubby have any idea?

 

[ararejewel]

How many of them are there? And does your hubby have any idea?

If he does, he doesn't say anything. He still wants sex whenever he is here, so either he doesn't know or doesn't much care. There are two guys I see regularly, and another couple that are more infrequent (good lovers, but so, so clingy!).

 

[Justfantasies]

If he does, he doesn't say anything. He still wants sex whenever he is here, so either he doesn't know or doesn't much care. There are two guys I see regularly, and another couple that are more infrequent (good lovers, but so, so clingy!).

That's interesting -- this old gf of mine that I am corresponding with, said that the reason she cheated on me was because I was too clingy (in my early 20s at the time). I wonder if I am the only bf she is e-mailing with.

Your hubby might actually be excited by the idea that he has a hot wife. Hearing about my lovers' lovers certainly turns me on

 

[rohankapoor987]

I actually fuck them.

And no, thank you. I'm fine with talking here. I got nothin' to hide.

You are a damn hot and sexy young lady...

 

[ararejewel]

That's interesting -- this old gf of mine that I am corresponding with, said that the reason she cheated on me was because I was too clingy (in my early 20s at the time). I wonder if I am the only bf she is e-mailing with.

Your hubby might actually be excited by the idea that he has a hot wife. Hearing about my lovers' lovers certainly turns me on

I'm sure he'd come out and say it if he was interested in that. It'd certainly make my life easier if I knew I could do my thing without having to be so furtive about it. Not to generalise, but a lot of guys are clingy in those tender years; some grow out of it, but a lot don't.

 

[Justfantasies]

I'm sure he'd come out and say it if he was interested in that. It'd certainly make my life easier if I knew I could do my thing without having to be so furtive about it. Not to generalise, but a lot of guys are clingy in those tender years; some grow out of it, but a lot don't.

I grew out of it -- LOL. I have never minded if my girl friends or wives sleep around. The confessions after the fact are always exciting.

But you could be right, your husband doesn't care. Anyway exciting for you!

 

[ararejewel]

I grew out of it -- LOL. I have never minded if my girl friends or wives sleep around. The confessions after the fact are always exciting.

But you could be right, your husband doesn't care. Anyway exciting for you!

I've always had the same view. Sex is something pleasurable, and pleasurable things should be shared, not hoarded.

 

[Justfantasies]

I've always had the same view. Sex is something pleasurable, and pleasurable things should be shared, not hoarded.

I completely agree -- but I don't think guys get to that point of view until they are mature. I lost quite a few gfs being clingy LOL.

Do you find that each of your lovers bring different pleasures for you?

 

[ararejewel]

I completely agree -- but I don't think guys get to that point of view until they are mature. I lost quite a few gfs being clingy LOL.

Do you find that each of your lovers bring different pleasures for you?

Mm-hm. It's another reason for cultivating multiple romantic possibilities: some might be really good at plain ol' sex, some might be really good at oral, some might be a bit more ... kinky.

 

[Justfantasies]

Mm-hm. It's another reason for cultivating multiple romantic possibilities: some might be really good at plain ol' sex, some might be really good at oral, some might be a bit more ... kinky.

The romantic possibilities reason is interesting to me. For a really brief period a couple of years back I was both sleeping with my wife and with another woman. My wife had other partners and the other woman had a serious bf. My wife and the other woman knew about each other and were accepting of the open relationship, although that changed.

I cared about both women a lot and it seemed very natural to have two "wives" in a sense.

 

[Justfantasies]

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[snakeeyes15]

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[Funnbrandy]

I recently started e-mailing with an old girlfriend who I haven't seen for many years. She is married and admits to being bored. We have started to talk about our old relationship in somewhat explicit terms and at one point she told me that she felt that talking about such things made her feel that she was cheating on her husband.

I asked her if this made her feel guilty and to my surprise she told me that on the contrary it made her feel horny and she loved to talk to me about when we were screwing.

I had to ask -- had she ever actually cheated on her husband and she told me know. But then she added that when we were together she cheated on me three times; three different guys.

I have made her give me all the details and it has been a serious turn on for both of us. She says that she had no idea how exciting confessing was to her, but had always had the urge to contact me and tell me "the truth."

Any other women have a similar urge to get in touch with old boyfriends and tell them about about cheating incidents?

Contacting old flames is always exciting, and admitting or discussing things openly of a sexual nature even more so, I think the fact that there's little emotional attachment left and mostly just lust and sexual memories makes it all the more easy to be honest....done it many times, although not too recently

 

[Justfantasies]

Contacting old flames is always exciting, and admitting or discussing things openly of a sexual nature even more so, I think the fact that there's little emotional attachment left and mostly just lust and sexual memories makes it all the more easy to be honest....done it many times, although not too recently

That's very interesting. She got in touch with me, so your post makes me better understand her motivations.

Still it made me very excited that she was doing it with other guys when we were together. I think she enjoyed know that.

 

[Justfantasies]

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[miss22red]

I recently started e-mailing with an old girlfriend who I haven't seen for many years. She is married and admits to being bored. We have started to talk about our old relationship in somewhat explicit terms and at one point she told me that she felt that talking about such things made her feel that she was cheating on her husband.

I asked her if this made her feel guilty and to my surprise she told me that on the contrary it made her feel horny and she loved to talk to me about when we were screwing.

I had to ask -- had she ever actually cheated on her husband and she told me know. But then she added that when we were together she cheated on me three times; three different guys.

I have made her give me all the details and it has been a serious turn on for both of us. She says that she had no idea how exciting confessing was to her, but had always had the urge to contact me and tell me "the truth."

Any other women have a similar urge to get in touch with old boyfriends and tell them about about cheating incidents?

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[BongoGal]

A couple of years ago I struck up a conversation on Facebook with a now-married ex-boyfriend of mine. It was all perfectly innocent until he reluctantly confessed something to me. He said that the first five times we had sex, he was convinced that I was faking orgasms. It was only after he realized that, yes, I really was having orgasms that he truly enjoyed the sex. I noted that he wasn't so put off by what he perceived as fake orgasms that he wouldn't have sex. He admitted that a chance to have his own orgasms with a real live naked girl overcame his disappointment in my 'faking it'.

The next day, he messaged me an apology. He said he was drunk when he 'confessed' the night before.