Anal Sex

[happyamy]

I love anal sex. It's actually my preferred method of sex. It feels amazing to me. I know many other women don't enjoy it. I was wondering if any could explain why. Seriously, I don't do emotional relationships, with anyone, so I don't have friends to have this kind of a discussion with. I just wondered if any of you could tell me why you don't enjoy it. I can say that it does usually, hurt (especially at first each time as I have to stretch to handle girth), but it also feels so pleasurably amazing deep inside me that the pleasure overwhelms the pain in waves of ecstasy for me.

 

[Frank1540]

I love anal sex. It's actually my preferred method of sex. It feels amazing to me. I know many other women don't enjoy it. I was wondering if any could explain why. Seriously, I don't do emotional relationships, with anyone, so I don't have friends to have this kind of a discussion with. I just wondered if any of you could tell me why you don't enjoy it. I can say that it does usually, hurt (especially at first each time as I have to stretch to handle girth), but it also feels so pleasurably amazing deep inside me that the pleasure overwhelms the pain in waves of ecstasy for me.

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My ex-wife hated anal sex but I just LOVED fucking her sweet ass! It was such a thrill to enter her and fill her bung hole with my cum ... and then watch it ooze out! I'm getting hard just thinking about it!

 

[JustbeingRandy]

As a guy, who enjoys a sweet tight ass, I've had this discussion with more than a few partners. What the common thing has been is as you said. The initial discomfort, that is a turn off for a lot of ladies. Has helped me to really learn to be extra patient. And by simply going slower, more slow fingering and licking her ass. Anal became much more enjoyable for both of us.

 

[SelfPleasure]

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[roc23]

I don't think I could be in a relationship without any kind of anal play. Like others have said,especially for the first time,patience,patience,patience.Take it as slow as possible. Follow her lead. And if you think she's still a little hesitant just stop and try some other time. And a little red wine beforehand can't hurt.

 

[sarahbear85]

I was against it in the beginning put off by the taboo and the initial discomfort but after some negotiation now I take it in the ass fairly regularly like a good girl and have even cum on a few occasions

 

[rustywilliams]

I was against it in the beginning put off by the taboo and the initial discomfort but after some negotiation now I take it in the ass fairly regularly like a good girl and have even cum on a few occasions

You make it sound so damn sexy.
Do you come, just from the cock in your ass? Or are you rubbing your clit at the same time?

 

[sarahbear85]

You make it sound so damn sexy.
Do you come, just from the cock in your ass? Or are you rubbing your clit at the same time?

Once was friction from the position and the second time was from playing with myself

 

[rustywilliams]

Nice to finally hear the female perspective as per the op's request.

I think anal is definitely more of a learned experience for both parties and requires patience and practice to get it right. Unlike vaginal sex I don't think it really comes naturally to most people, and its not as easy as the porn industry would have us believe.

Neither is it as boring as porn portrays it to be!

 

[NorCalCumCannon]

I love fucking ass. It's my second favorite thing after getting head if I'm being honest. That's not to say I don't love fucking pussy too but there's something about the tightness of the ass and seeing my cock slide in and out.

 

[NorCalCumCannon]

So true! I actually almost added that to my post. I find it sensual and exciting. The porn industry manages to make it look ordinary and boring. What's with that?

Amateur anal is the way to go... or if it floats your boat, transsexual

 

[ararejewel]

I enjoy it. Especially when it is a bit more painful. I'm weird like that.

 

[ararejewel]

That's not weird at all. The right kind of pain releases all sorts of interesting pleasure chemicals into the body which can make the pleasurable even more pleasurable.

Is the whole experience painful for you, or just the initial entry?

The whole thing. I usually ask people to go easy on the lube; they're always sceptical about it at first, but I really do enjoy the sensations.

 

[rustywilliams]

I enjoy it. Especially when it is a bit more painful. I'm weird like that.

Well, for me there is erotic pain, and there is simple physical pain. Probably different draw the lines in different places.
There is a real danger of actually causing injury when you fuck a woman in the ass, and that is a turn off for me.
Having said that, there have been times when, as I entered her, slowly going deeper and deeper inside, I would watch her closely, listening carefully to make sure I wasn't hurting her. All the while warning her that there comes a point at which I am so aroused, especially once I am buried so deep inside her that my groin is pressed up against her cheeks, her ass gripping my cock so tight, that I lose control and can't stop even if I wanted to.

 

[UrbanBohemian]

Once was friction from the position and the second time was from playing with myself

I think the anal/clitoral thing does it for a lot of women. The first time I ever tried anal (which SHE talked ME into, believe it or not) I rubbed her clit and she literally came within ten seconds. Probably within five seconds. It was the fastest I've ever seen anyone cum in my life. She'd never tried it before so maybe that's part of why it happened so fast but whatever the reason it drove her fucking crazy. Since then I've tried it a few more times and yeah, it works. It works very well.

So from having been with someone who was really into anal, I think if you try more lube you might have an easier time cumming. I mean like excessive lube. Like more than you'd ever need. Don't use the "warming" shit though. I've been told that can burn from time to time. But you might also want to try having him pinch your nipples when he's inside you. I've noticed that really works too most of the time. Or neck kissing. Essentially the idea is to stimulate you as much as possible and that enhances the main sensation. Masturbating anally, I've been told, also helps because you can kind of find your rhythm and the exact pleasure spots at your own speed.

So anyway I hope that helps a bit.

 

[happyamy]

I was against it in the beginning put off by the taboo and the initial discomfort but after some negotiation now I take it in the ass fairly regularly like a good girl and have even cum on a few occasions

Thank you for responding. I appreciate it.

 

[happyamy]

The whole thing. I usually ask people to go easy on the lube; they're always sceptical about it at first, but I really do enjoy the sensations.

That's interesting. It hurts me every time too, but only my anus. Deep inside it feels amazingly wonderful. The best feeling ever. But the stretching of my anus is painful each and every time. For me, that's just always been part of it and I don't mind it at all. In fact, I don't know what I'd do if it didn't feel that way. The only lube I typically use is spit. Some guys prefer to use some. But I prefer just spit.

 

[NorCalCumCannon]

That's interesting. It hurts me every time too, but only my anus. Deep inside it feels amazingly wonderful. The best feeling ever. But the stretching of my anus is painful each and every time. For me, that's just always been part of it and I don't mind it at all. In fact, I don't know what I'd do if it didn't feel that way. The only lube I typically use is spit. Some guys prefer to use some. But I prefer just spit.

That's what I've done the past times. Spit on the asshole, spit on my dick and then go for it

 

[sexywriterfla]

Combination of saliva, precum, and fluids from her aroused pussy makes an excellent lube.

 

[Blakely123]

That's interesting. It hurts me every time too, but only my anus. Deep inside it feels amazingly wonderful. The best feeling ever. But the stretching of my anus is painful each and every time. For me, that's just always been part of it and I don't mind it at all. In fact, I don't know what I'd do if it didn't feel that way. The only lube I typically use is spit. Some guys prefer to use some. But I prefer just spit.

I prefer to lick it and stick my tongue as deeply inside as possible before I slide my throbbing cock in... No lube is needed with assholes taste so good and make your mouth water so badly

 

[AlwaysSoaked]

I prefer to lick it and stick my tongue as deeply inside as possible before I slide my throbbing cock in... No lube is needed with assholes taste so good and make your mouth water so badly

Umm, Blakely...kidnap me???

 

[sexymanlick69]

mmm

I love anal givING and receiving love rimming fingering toys I cum atleast 8 times a day and will fuck till I drop I'm a freak and very sexual. Lick lick lick ladies

 

[Blakely123]

Umm, Blakely...kidnap me???

Do I need a gag or can you be quietly kidnapped?

 

[Ilovetoeatsperm]

I love anal sex

For me. My wife and I worked slowly. First she would use a finger then a small vibrator. Lots and lots of lube. So much that it is almost a mess. You can't have enough lube. I'm into having my asshole stretched and over the years I can now be fisted and have had a 3.5 inch thick dildo up me. For me it guess it is the endorphins running through me as my ass opens wide to accept a huge object. All in all it takes time and patience to have great anal sex.

 

[Raingirl85]

I too love anal sex. Often when I am receiving vaginal sex and I feel like I want to come but can't quite get there I ask my partner to switch to anal and it makes me cum every time, especially coupled with friction against my clit.

Here's what I think about women not liking it.. Do you remember the first time you had vaginal sex? For most of us, it didn't feel good. It hurt. It was uncomfortable. I wanted it to be over. I couldn't do it again for a few days. I remember thinking "THIS is what all the fuss is about?" But due to all that fuss, you keep trying, plus you're a horny teenager..and at some point it starts to feel good. Really good. IMO anal is actually the same. Vaginal first times could be WAYYYYY better than they are for us, but most of us lose our virginity to guys that have no idea how to make it a pleasant experience. And again, same with anal. With the average ignorant guy it WILL hurt the first time. And the second time. And the third time. But even with an unskilled partner, like with vaginal sex, once your body adjusts and you've done it regularly a few times, it starts to feel AMAZING. Problem is, I don't think most women wait long enough to figure that out. It hurts the first few times they try it so they conclude that anal hurts and they are not into anal.

Now ALL OF THIS could be SOOOO different if guys could get a fucking clue about how to introduce sex to any virgin hole, whether it is ass, pussy, mouth or wherever!