As personal as personal gets (personally)

[TheLastShadow]

I have been on and off these forums for the better part of 8 years now. I've met some wonderful people in that time, had some laughs, some tears, and many orgasms (are you surprised?) But as we all know, nothing lasts forever. People have come and gone, and I find myself at a point where my social interactions are at an all time low. So I thought I'd wipe the slate clean here and attempt to find something that seems to be almost impossible these days.

What I'm after is someone who wants to take the time to get to know another person and grow with them. Someone who wants to talk, laugh, question, share, etc. A person who can easily talk about her day one minute, then talk about all the naughty things filling her mind the next. Yes, this is Literotica. Yes, I am hoping discussions about sex, mutual playtime, etc. will be a part of all this. But I want to find so much more. I want someone who will stimulate my mind and my heart as much as they would my genitals. Someone who can spend days just writing back and forth without realizing how much time has passed, because they are too lost in conversation to care. While I don't like to put a label on things, I guess I'm looking for a "relationship". However, it's not a relationship in the traditional sense. I'm not looking to "claim" you, "own" you, make you mine, etc. I don't plan on meeting anyone offline unless things were to reach that point one day. The sort of relationship I'm after consists of all the "fun" things, and none of the mess that almost always comes between two people who decide to take such a plunge.

I'm not sure if what I've written has made any sense or not (I blame it on lack of sleep). I should point out that I am looking for a woman. Ideally you are single, but it's not a deal breaker if you aren't. You're over 18, in the US (as I would like to eventually move on to texting and such), love to laugh, talk, think, share, explore, and so much more. If this sounds like you, my messages are open and waiting.

 

[ashesatwork]

I have been on and off these forums for the better part of 8 years now. I've met some wonderful people in that time, had some laughs, some tears, and many orgasms (are you surprised?) But as we all know, nothing lasts forever. People have come and gone, and I find myself at a point where my social interactions are at an all time low. So I thought I'd wipe the slate clean here and attempt to find something that seems to be almost impossible these days.

What I'm after is someone who wants to take the time to get to know another person and grow with them. Someone who wants to talk, laugh, question, share, etc. A person who can easily talk about her day one minute, then talk about all the naughty things filling her mind the next. Yes, this is Literotica. Yes, I am hoping discussions about sex, mutual playtime, etc. will be a part of all this. But I want to find so much more. I want someone who will stimulate my mind and my heart as much as they would my genitals. Someone who can spend days just writing back and forth without realizing how much time has passed, because they are too lost in conversation to care. While I don't like to put a label on things, I guess I'm looking for a "relationship". However, it's not a relationship in the traditional sense. I'm not looking to "claim" you, "own" you, make you mine, etc. I don't plan on meeting anyone offline unless things were to reach that point one day. The sort of relationship I'm after consists of all the "fun" things, and none of the mess that almost always comes between two people who decide to take such a plunge.

I'm not sure if what I've written has made any sense or not (I blame it on lack of sleep). I should point out that I am looking for a woman. Ideally you are single, but it's not a deal breaker if you aren't. You're over 18, in the US (as I would like to eventually move on to texting and such), love to laugh, talk, think, share, explore, and so much more. If this sounds like you, my messages are open and waiting.

I wish you could *love* posts here.

 

[TheLastShadow]

I wish you could *love* posts here.

Thank you. It's nice just to be noticed.

 

[JaneRose65]

I have been on and off these forums for the better part of 8 years now. I've met some wonderful people in that time, had some laughs, some tears, and many orgasms (are you surprised?) But as we all know, nothing lasts forever. People have come and gone, and I find myself at a point where my social interactions are at an all time low. So I thought I'd wipe the slate clean here and attempt to find something that seems to be almost impossible these days.

What I'm after is someone who wants to take the time to get to know another person and grow with them. Someone who wants to talk, laugh, question, share, etc. A person who can easily talk about her day one minute, then talk about all the naughty things filling her mind the next. Yes, this is Literotica. Yes, I am hoping discussions about sex, mutual playtime, etc. will be a part of all this. But I want to find so much more. I want someone who will stimulate my mind and my heart as much as they would my genitals. Someone who can spend days just writing back and forth without realizing how much time has passed, because they are too lost in conversation to care. While I don't like to put a label on things, I guess I'm looking for a "relationship". However, it's not a relationship in the traditional sense. I'm not looking to "claim" you, "own" you, make you mine, etc. I don't plan on meeting anyone offline unless things were to reach that point one day. The sort of relationship I'm after consists of all the "fun" things, and none of the mess that almost always comes between two people who decide to take such a plunge.

I'm not sure if what I've written has made any sense or not (I blame it on lack of sleep). I should point out that I am looking for a woman. Ideally you are single, but it's not a deal breaker if you aren't. You're over 18, in the US (as I would like to eventually move on to texting and such), love to laugh, talk, think, share, explore, and so much more. If this sounds like you, my messages are open and waiting.

Made perfect sense to me. I think we all want that sort of connection, but it can be tough

 

[ashesatwork]

Thank you. It's nice just to be noticed.

I notice lots around here. I just pick and choose on what should be noted so

most want something just like this. some can find it and some can't.

it's hard.

 

[purplerosecrab]

Lovely ad.

 

[DevilKitty]

Made perfect sense to me. I think we all want that sort of connection, but it can be tough

I agree with this. I hope you can find this.

 

[Iceprincess12]

Cheer!

Awesome ad! Restores my faith in men on lit

Happy Wednesday.

 

[TheLastShadow]

Made perfect sense to me. I think we all want that sort of connection, but it can be tough

I notice lots around here. I just pick and choose on what should be noted so

most want something just like this. some can find it and some can't.

it's hard.

I recently got into a discussion with someone about relationships, and brought up something similar to what I posted here. Their response was, "Why? Why do you want something that isn't real?" What is "real" though? I have been in real flesh and blood relationships before. We swore our never ending love for one another, promised to always be there through everything, and so on. But in the end, the last five women who professed their love for me are now married or dating other men, and all I'm left with are fuzzy memories of happier times. I have tried online dating. Dating isn't an appropriate term here. It was more like online, "I won't date you, but I'll have sex with you the first night we meet." Or, "I'm not looking for a relationship right now. But thanks for spending a small fortune on me during what you thought were dates these past few weeks." To many, a relationship like the one I'm seeking may not seem real or as satisfying as a physical one. But at this point in my life I'm past games. I'm past playing the field and thinking, "The right one will be along any minute now." This way, I can build something with someone. I won't have to fear rejection because I don't have the right look, the right amount of money, etc. I can, for lack of a better term, hide behind a wall and slowly reveal myself over time. Sometimes I wonder if such a thing will ever come along though.

 

[TheLastShadow]

Lovely ad.

Thank you

I agree with this. I hope you can find this.

Thank you. That means a lot to me.

Cheer!

Awesome ad! Restores my faith in men on lit

Happy Wednesday.

Wow, that is quite a bold statement! Makes me happy to see that

Happy Wednesday to you.

 

[oceanterra]

Truly I wish you the best in what you are looking for.

 

[ashesatwork]

I recently got into a discussion with someone about relationships, and brought up something similar to what I posted here. Their response was, "Why? Why do you want something that isn't real?" What is "real" though? I have been in real flesh and blood relationships before. We swore our never ending love for one another, promised to always be there through everything, and so on. But in the end, the last five women who professed their love for me are now married or dating other men, and all I'm left with are fuzzy memories of happier times. I have tried online dating. Dating isn't an appropriate term here. It was more like online, "I won't date you, but I'll have sex with you the first night we meet." Or, "I'm not looking for a relationship right now. But thanks for spending a small fortune on me during what you thought were dates these past few weeks." To many, a relationship like the one I'm seeking may not seem real or as satisfying as a physical one. But at this point in my life I'm past games. I'm past playing the field and thinking, "The right one will be along any minute now." This way, I can build something with someone. I won't have to fear rejection because I don't have the right look, the right amount of money, etc. I can, for lack of a better term, hide behind a wall and slowly reveal myself over time. Sometimes I wonder if such a thing will ever come along though.

walls are fantastic. mine is huge. so few have ever taken the time to chip at it I am thankful for those who have.

 

[shadow_anon2u]

Good luck sweetheart. I also have found a few people on here that I care about quite a bit. Knowing nothing will ever come of it, I still like having that connection with someone.

I sincerely hope you find the person you are looking for!!

 

[TheLastShadow]

Truly I wish you the best in what you are looking for.

Thank you.

walls are fantastic. mine is huge. so few have ever taken the time to chip at it I am thankful for those who have.

Walls are a wonderful thing. I have only found a select few people willing to chip away and climb those walls, and I am thankful for them. Others just seem to look for the front door, which isn't there.

Good luck sweetheart. I also have found a few people on here that I care about quite a bit. Knowing nothing will ever come of it, I still like having that connection with someone.

I sincerely hope you find the person you are looking for!!

Thank you. That connection is truly the most important thing for me.

 

[Sugarfoot10]

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[ashesatwork]

Thank you.




Walls are a wonderful thing. I have only found a select few people willing to chip away and climb those walls, and I am thankful for them. Others just seem to look for the front door, which isn't there.





Thank you. That connection is truly the most important thing for me.

lol some get so worried they climb out the window cause it's the closes exit

 

[LaurenLacey]

This is such a sweet ad! I hope the women of Lit are taking a chance on a guy like you. You deserve it.

 

[LonelyLittleRed]

I've been looking for twenty years, we'll the most part of twenty years since I knew what love was. I've been looking for what you are, a connection. No not just physical, emotional and mental more than anything. If you get this reference I'm looking for the Edward Louis to my Vivian. (Pretty woman) I want the fairytale, a love that's as beautiful and loving as the people in it. I've saved this person a heart of gold and somewhere he has the key to it. Luke you I'm just waiting for that day

 

[anwen]

I know I do not meet what you are looking for because I live in Wales UK, unhappily married to a drunk. I just wanted to say what a lovely post you wrote and it touched many things within me . I do hope very much you find what you are looking for in this jungle

 

[TheLastShadow]

I've been looking for twenty years, we'll the most part of twenty years since I knew what love was. I've been looking for what you are, a connection. No not just physical, emotional and mental more than anything. If you get this reference I'm looking for the Edward Louis to my Vivian. (Pretty woman) I want the fairytale, a love that's as beautiful and loving as the people in it. I've saved this person a heart of gold and somewhere he has the key to it. Luke you I'm just waiting for that day

Sometimes you have to wonder if the fairytale exists for everyone. You know the old expression, "Always a bridesmaid, never a bride"? Whatever the male equivalent of that is seems to be the story of my life. I guess as long as you hold on to hope - no matter how much it fades - there's a chance for all of us.

I really do understand how you feel man. I've been trying to find somebody I can talk with about anything and everything, but it always seems to go wrong either cause of my job and other things it they just stop talking to me for some reason I can't be that annoying lol. I know it may seem horrible of me to try and find something like what your looking for when I have a better half, but we've been through some really crazy crap and I've lost all physical and some emotional connection with her. I know that all that can be worked on and the emotional parts can be fixed but the physical may never come back, and to have that person who You can talk to about anything and everything, who likes who you are, wants to be around you, and just smiles when you just say hi is the best feeling. You may never meet but knowing that you can talk and be happy is amazing, and I may be horrible for looking for something like this too but I really miss thoes feelings and just being wanted. Not sure if anybody else understands that but I'd be more than happy to talk about if anybody cares to know. Good luck man I hope you find what you want!

Exactly. I miss those feelings more than I can ever put into words. I realize the cyber/long distance relationship is passé in today's instant gratification society. Touch, physical encounters, etc. are a necessity. And as much as I would love to find that, just having someone there who understands me - even if she's thousands of miles away - would be satisfying.

 

[NextDoorSecret]

I feel like yelling " I volunteer as tribute!" In response to this ad, but you really should hold out for that single woman you really are hoping for! Good luck!