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LostBabygirl3489

LostBabygirl3489

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I'm not sure why I'm posting a personal on here again but I guess I've been very lonely and aching to have a connection with someone. Not just sexually but emotionally as well. I'm not looking for a one night stand. I'm trying to find someone (man or woman) who will help me accept myself and mentor me as my dominant/mistress. I've never had this sort of relationship and I am aware of how much trust it takes on both sides, which makes it scarier for me because I find myself not wanting to trust anyone at all, especially with my emotional side.

I could write an essay but I'm currently zonked out on my anti-anxiety pill and having five hours of sleep. I'm about to crash. Like I mentioned before, I am an hour away from NYC in upstate NY and I have no problem traveling, whether by car or train/bus. It turns me off when a dom calls me demeaning things like cunt right away when we are first talking, I like to hear that sort of talk later after we've established some trust/connection and while we are intimate or roleplaying. I much prefer doms/mistresses that are in touch with their gentle side.

There is a big chance I am moving to Boston at the end of the year so I wouldn't mind talking to someone from there. I'm sorry but I can't do anything online only. It feels empty for me. I'd much prefer that you be single but it seems that all the good ones are taken so that doesn't seem like a possibility.

I'm just looking for one person, not a couple. If you're interested at all please feel free to message me. I'm trying to get a second job so I may be a little busy but I will promise to reply.
 
Lovely post. Wish I didn't have the Atlantic Ocean in the way!

Good luck with your search x
 
Thank you everyone for the warm wishes. It seems that everyone lovely is far away. :( That's usually the case. Who knows I may have to expand my search...
 
I hope you find what you're looking for. Like englishgent, I too have the Atlantic in the way but I'm.betting you'll soon find someone who can treat you like you deserve!

Take care.
Ritch.
 
LostBabygirl3489 said:
Aw :( All the good ones are taken for a reason...because they are lovely. :) Part of the reason why I'm not too hopeful about this...
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Dollie------------- Don't ever give up but please be careful. Most of the good ones are taken. Regretably many bad ones are preying on other good ones.
 
LIVINRFANTASIES said:
Dollie------------- Don't ever give up but please be careful. Most of the good ones are taken. Regretably many bad ones are preying on other good ones.
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:( It makes me so weary. I don't want to hurt anyone, but I know many people could care less about my feelings. That's why I'm being so careful.
 
_Ritch_ said:
I hope you find what you're looking for. Like englishgent, I too have the Atlantic in the way but I'm.betting you'll soon find someone who can treat you like you deserve!

Take care.
Ritch.
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Aw thank you. If not now then in the future. :)
 
LostBabygirl3489 said:
Thank you dear. Maybe when I move, more opportunities will arise...
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That may well be your best bet. I'm from the Boston area (Likewise taken) and there's definitely a good community to be found, but it'll be really hard to find good people without being here and getting out and about first.
 
jpayinboston said:
That may well be your best bet. I'm from the Boston area (Likewise taken) and there's definitely a good community to be found, but it'll be really hard to find good people without being here and getting out and about first.
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I look forward to it. :) It will help me heal from my divorce. I went out to the mall the other day and I came across my ex-husband. It's a small town. I'm ready to move on.
 
LostBabygirl3489 said:
I look forward to it. :) It will help me heal from my divorce. I went out to the mall the other day and I came across my ex-husband. It's a small town. I'm ready to move on.
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As you well should! Boston's a great place to be single (Or married, either way). It's particularly a great escape from small town life.
 
jpayinboston said:
As you well should! Boston's a great place to be single (Or married, either way). It's particularly a great escape from small town life.
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It definitely is appealing to me. :) I am going to visit it soon. Perhaps spend a weekend there. I can't wait.
 
LostBabygirl3489 said:
I'm not sure why I'm posting a personal on here again but I guess I've been very lonely and aching to have a connection with someone. Not just sexually but emotionally as well. I'm not looking for a one night stand. I'm trying to find someone (man or woman) who will help me accept myself and mentor me as my dominant/mistress. I've never had this sort of relationship and I am aware of how much trust it takes on both sides, which makes it scarier for me because I find myself not wanting to trust anyone at all, especially with my emotional side.

I could write an essay but I'm currently zonked out on my anti-anxiety pill and having five hours of sleep. I'm about to crash. Like I mentioned before, I am an hour away from NYC in upstate NY and I have no problem traveling, whether by car or train/bus. It turns me off when a dom calls me demeaning things like cunt right away when we are first talking, I like to hear that sort of talk later after we've established some trust/connection and while we are intimate or roleplaying. I much prefer doms/mistresses that are in touch with their gentle side.

There is a big chance I am moving to Boston at the end of the year so I wouldn't mind talking to someone from there. I'm sorry but I can't do anything online only. It feels empty for me. I'd much prefer that you be single but it seems that all the good ones are taken so that doesn't seem like a possibility.

I'm just looking for one person, not a couple. If you're interested at all please feel free to message me. I'm trying to get a second job so I may be a little busy but I will promise to reply.
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I'm guessing it's not Boston in the UK? ;) Oh well all the good ones are half a world away it seems :D Good luck in your search.
 
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