Seeking male 40+ with some rough edges

[KimGordon67]

I posted this ad over a year ago, and had an outcome that exceeded my expectations and then some ... so fingers crossed:

"'Success' for me doesn't involve instant gratification, but rather something that develops over a bit of time, and is based on some sort of mutual connection ... and then leads to hot sex. Real life is not an option. I'm (very happily) married, and don't want to be sorting out other people's unhappy marriages - sorry.
I'm 47 [actually 49 now], professional, but still have a bit of the punk girl around. I tend to get on best with guys in a similar vein.
PM me with a bit about yourself ... see how things go."

I think it would be fair to say I'm not right at the vanilla end of the spectrum, but have chosen to avoid the BDSM personals because ... well, because.
I've posted around the place a bit - it would probably make sense to have a look at some of those and see if you think we're likely to click, rather than waste everyone's time. Let's assume if you own every Nickelback album ever made, or hope that Trump becomes president, it's probably not going to work out.

 

[grandprix1041]

Good Morning young lady

I knew there was a reason I shouldn't vote for Trump and you're it.

 

[KimGordon67]

Ah ha ha - that's a big responsibility

I knew there was a reason I shouldn't vote for Trump and you're it.

 

[grandprix1041]

rough edges

How rough do you like it?

 

[KimGordon67]

How rough do you like it?

That depends on a whole range of variables

 

[KimGordon67]

Apologies for lack of response to PMs. Only have phone access at present and can't type properly on this.

 

[grandprix1041]

Good evening

I'm 70 and a widower, I may be a little out of your age range, but if not and you'd care to chat, by all means send a PM
Have a great evening

 

[KimGordon67]

Little bump for the American evening.

 

[tigerstorm07]

How's it going? Seems like a slow night...

 

[Prince Albert]

Would love to talk to you.

 

[KimGordon67]

Not so much. Which is fine - quality over quantity

I bet your PM inbox is toast.

 

[kace53]

Hi Kim. Interesting post. If you fancy chatting with an Aussie who is on dom side, drop me a line

 

[Joesback]

Found what your looking for

Not so much. Which is fine - quality over quantity

So how's the search going? What would you like to know about me?

 

[KimGordon67]

So how's the search going? What would you like to know about me?

Didn't you PM me?

 

[MattWolf]

I posted this ad over a year ago, and had an outcome that exceeded my expectations and then some ... so fingers crossed:

"'Success' for me doesn't involve instant gratification, but rather something that develops over a bit of time, and is based on some sort of mutual connection ... and then leads to hot sex. Real life is not an option. I'm (very happily) married, and don't want to be sorting out other people's unhappy marriages - sorry.
I'm 47 [actually 49 now], professional, but still have a bit of the punk girl around. I tend to get on best with guys in a similar vein.
PM me with a bit about yourself ... see how things go."

I think it would be fair to say I'm not right at the vanilla end of the spectrum, but have chosen to avoid the BDSM personals because ... well, because.
I've posted around the place a bit - it would probably make sense to have a look at some of those and see if you think we're likely to click, rather than waste everyone's time. Let's assume if you own every Nickelback album ever made, or hope that Trump becomes president, it's probably not going to work out.

An appealing message, I've sent you a PM.

 

[IM1469]

52 soon to be 53 yr old attractive guy who loves to live life on the edge. Free spirited and thinks 95% of life isnt serious, or at least not in my eys its not. Id rather be dead than not laugh!

 

[KimGordon67]

52 soon to be 53 yr old attractive guy who loves to live life on the edge. Free spirited and thinks 95% of life isnt serious, or at least not in my eys its not. Id rather be dead than not laugh!

Based on the small amount I can see about you on here, I really don't think I'm your type. But thanks.

 

[FrankMcMahon691]

Hi Kim

I know what you mean - I am married, 60 and have a really great life. My only ‘vice’ is that I like to message or email ladies to talk about those things that mutually turn us on - usually ending with the two of us masturbating to a climax. It can be such a turn on, describing fantasies and what we desire but knowing there is never a chance of them being played out in reality.

I describe myself as a gentleman with a filthy mind! Professional man, enjoying reading, sport and even a little running - I used to do a lot. I also admit to writing erotica which can be very stimulating especially with a willing correspondent. Could that be you, I wonder?

Do let me know!

Frank

 

[FrankMcMahon691]

Kim

Are you online now?

Email chat?

Frank

 

[palmharbordiver]

Nice to see.....

Hello Kim,

Very cool to see the request out there, and the thoughts. Looks like you are getting alot of good response, so I won't feel too bad if I don't hear back.

Quick snap shot here;

41 married guy, ex Navy officer (diver) - thus the 'edges', blond hair, blue eyes, light beard

Very playful, witty, open minded, and looking to explore with other married folks as well. Not looking to change anything at home, love the sex life with the wife, but also understand that I need to be sharing a little more regarding my fantasies/thoughts, etc.

Would love to let you know more if you'd like to hear, and certainly would like to hear more about you.

Have a good one!

 

[KimGordon67]

One last bump ...

 

[8PointSika]

One last bump ...

I had to laugh at your job responsibilities on your profile and saw the irony in you venturing into the interweb and onto Lit in particular....

Maybe you will, maybe you won't..... who knows what will strike the fancy of a woman such as yourself. If you want to discover anything further - PM me, I will answer in kind.

 

[KimGordon67]

Bump for a rainy weekend (here, anyway ... the rest of the world probably has sun).

 

[KimGordon67]

The diametrically opposed music taste might be a bit of an issue.

I'm up for a chat sometime if you like. I am 41/m/also married. Feel free to check out my profile and say hi if you like.

 

[KimGordon67]

No one likes ALL kinds of music ... that's just not possible.

I like all kinds of music honestly....just some more than others...