One last try.

[marriedbutlooking1989]

I've been on this site for a while and still haven't found anyone to chat with from time to time. I'm Stan... I'm 27 from the US. I'm 5'10, 150lbs, athletic build, brown hair, hazel eyes, a goatee, and have tattoos. I'm married but my wife stays busy with school and work...and yes she knows i come here but not who i talk to or what we talk about. If anyones interested feel free to message me and we'll see where it goes. If you see this and think id never be interested in you try me.

 

[shadow_anon2u]

I'm sorry sweetie. I used to hang out here a lot, like 100 years ago, lol. Doesn't sound like much has changed since then!

 

[marriedbutlooking1989]

I'm sorry sweetie. I used to hang out here a lot, like 100 years ago, lol. Doesn't sound like much has changed since then!

Thank you. So it's always been this hard meeting someome here?

 

[marriedbutlooking1989]

Moving to top.

 

[Penuche]

Thank you. So it's always been this hard meeting someome here?

Possibly, but I think you've overlooked something very important:

When selecting chat buddies (unless this is with a view to camming) you'll tend to find that people are less interested your appearance than in your personality and writing style - that elusive bit of chemistry which makes people either immediately rule you out or pick you.

Which is why I'll tell you what I'd tell anyone else - spend some time in the playground, give people a chance to get to know you and get to know them. Then read the profile before sending a PM.

Basic manners go a very long way: No "me so horny" or dick pics (or requests for boobs etc) until requested and a bit better acquainted; don't take a litser's time or energy for granted; last but not least, take the trouble to sign off properly at the end of a chat session instead of suddenly falling silent.

These little things will get litsers almost falling over themselves to chat with you more than once - good luck and have fun.

BTW you're far too scarily young for me - you were born the year before I graduated!

 

[marriedbutlooking1989]

Thank you for your advice.

 

[Chris_Michael]

You can take this advice with a grain of salt.

I think your username is just not that... uhm.... not great? I guess. A lot of times, people suggest filling out profiles. However, the very first impression somebody gets from you is 1. The content of your posting, and 2. Your username. Now, admittedly my username sucks balls but I run around with my fabulousness and snap my fingers and women run to me... or men... yeah...

But if I saw a woman with the username "TakenButLooking," I would be like "Mmmmm.... hmmm....." It's just not something or somebody I would approach.

And my best friend from Lit is married and mother fucking amazing. We talk every day for hours and she's just awesome. So yeah, maybe change up the username and fill out your profile to make yourself unique and then post again.

Don't get me wrong. You can say you're married, but do it in the profile and explain the situation in detail so women aren't thinking you're fucking around. Hope this helps

 

[shadow_anon2u]

Yep, what they said. I made a few really good friends on here before that I kept in touch with for a long time. As far as actually meeting anyone - no. There was never anyone close enough that I wanted to actually meet.

 

[marriedbutlooking1989]

Bumping