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Lit is a world of alts. How many Lit identities have you posted under?

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oh boy.
Honestly? I'd give him til morning unless he initiates a conversation before then.
Maybe once everyone else is in bed, and y'all are tucked in yourselves, tell him how you feel.

If you bought them for your playtime with him, tell him you were hoping to surprise him.

Good luck:rose:
 
oh boy.
Honestly? I'd give him til morning unless he initiates a conversation before then.
Maybe once everyone else is in bed, and y'all are tucked in yourselves, tell him how you feel.

If you bought them for your playtime with him, tell him you were hoping to surprise him.

Good luck:rose:

Thank you. I hope you are right. He is already in bed and asleep. I hope it will be funny tomorrow. It was very not funny tonight.
 
oh boy.
Honestly? I'd give him til morning unless he initiates a conversation before then.
Maybe once everyone else is in bed, and y'all are tucked in yourselves, tell him how you feel.

If you bought them for your playtime with him, tell him you were hoping to surprise him.

Good luck:rose:

^^^this

I hope it all works out....



and you can get tri packs of jeweled butt plugs?!?!? *jealous*
 
There are always three solutions to a problem.

Move forward, go backward or do nothing.

It applies to everything.

With that being said, determine why he's angry. Whenever someone is angry at you, it is about them more than it is about you. Was he embarrassed in front of your parents due to said butt plugs? If so, what was the reason? Were the butt plugs a secret from him? Perhaps that's the bigger issue?

Whatever his reasons are for not being okay with it, he will want to discuss it with you at some point. I've learned the hard way that men need a little bit of space whenever they have to deal with an issue.

Let him know that you are willing to talk to him about it when he's ready to talk about it and leave it at that. This way, he is aware that you're not ignoring the issue and understand that he's needing time to understand it himself.

:rose:
 
^^^this

I hope it all works out....



and you can get tri packs of jeweled butt plugs?!?!? *jealous*

Stainless steal, $15 on amazon for the blue ones. :cool:

There are always three solutions to a problem.

Move forward, go backward or do nothing.

It applies to everything.

With that being said, determine why he's angry. Whenever someone is angry at you, it is about them more than it is about you. Was he embarrassed in front of your parents due to said butt plugs? If so, what was the reason? Were the butt plugs a secret from him? Perhaps that's the bigger issue?

Whatever his reasons are for not being okay with it, he will want to discuss it with you at some point. I've learned the hard way that men need a little bit of space whenever they have to deal with an issue.

Let him know that you are willing to talk to him about it when he's ready to talk about it and leave it at that. This way, he is aware that you're not ignoring the issue and understand that he's needing time to understand it himself.

:rose:

Thank you Sophie. I think mortified was the word he used. He doesnt want my parents knowing he sticks his penis in my tush I guess. I dont think it was about them as much as the folks knowing about them.

I feel like this is an opportunity for a giggle not anger. Tell him to get over himself. Everyone's still breathing and the world is still turning.
:kiss::rose: I did say that at least i got the sparkly ones so it was obvious they were for me, not him. He was not amused.
 
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Thank you. I hope you are right. He is already in bed and asleep. I hope it will be funny tomorrow. It was very not funny tonight.

I'm sorry LS. I know it's not funny, but it is really funny.

*trying really hard not to laugh*

Perhaps just being honest and up front is the best policy.
I think his anger is more a cover for his embarrassment actually.
 
Somehow I've only used Amazon to buy books, not realising they have a vast catalogue, just about everything from anal plugs to zippo lighters. Every week I learn something new through this thread.

While your situation is not ideal, and assuming the parcel was in your name...it was your parcel. I understand the embarrassment and awkwardness of the situation for everyone, but he did neglect to consider your privacy and your intentions. I wouldn't lead with this as a discussion point as you try to make-up for the consequences of his actions, but it's worth noting with him nonetheless.

Somethings just have to be faced bravely and put behind you. What's done is done. I hope it becomes a funny reflection for you both as you make use of your purchase.
 
Somehow I've only used Amazon to buy books, not realising they have a vast catalogue, just about everything from anal plugs to zippo lighters. Every week I learn something new through this thread.

...

I think you need to surf more. There's a whole nother Amazon waiting out there for you! ;)

Amazon, combined with Prime, is an amazing thing indeed. It has saved my life more than once.
 
Ah ha! I think we've stumbled upon the true source of his emotional displays! He thought they were for him. :D
If a man wants to use an anal plug, why can't he use a sparkly one? Calling them Princess Plugs does seem exclusionary.
 
Thank yall. This was just what I need!! Ass slaps and boob grabs (just because Ive been looking for an excuse to grope Rainshine for a while) all around.

Amazon Prime is amazing. They have amazing sex toys and way cheaper than the sex toy store.
 
Thank yall. This was just what I need!! Ass slaps and boob grabs (just because Ive been looking for an excuse to grope Rainshine for a while) all around.

Amazon Prime is amazing. They have amazing sex toys and way cheaper than the sex toy store.

Grabbing ya.....now order up:cool:
 
Amazon Prime is amazing. They have amazing sex toys and way cheaper than the sex toy store.

Thanks for the advice.
I shop locally for as much as I can, but I'm guessing it's less embarrassing online when one needs to return a 'faulty' item...
Good luck tomorrow.

At least Chained can look back now on his thread and see we did discuss matters of importance and interest in his absence and be prepared to host Litequette 4 very soon.
 
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Thanks for the advice.
I shop locally for as much as I can, but I'm guessing it's less embarrassing online when one needs to return a 'faulty' item...
Good luck tomorrow.

At least Chained can look back now on his thread and see we did discuss matters of importance and interest in his absence and be prepared to host Litequette 4 very soon.

LMAO, now that paints a vivid picture. :D
 
LMAO, now that paints a vivid picture. :D

No, it's no good, I have to ask.

Why did you need a triple pack? Are they different colours? Does one light up? Do you have three asses between you? Is there a remote control?

I have serious 'fear of missing out' now.... :eek:
 
For good, not evil. That's the mission statement of this place. ;) Final preparations are underway for Litiquette IV. I know everyone will love what's been done to the space.

While we all await the conclusion of Lil Sister's plug predicament, let's ponder personal space. Everyone has their zone that once invaded makes them uncomfortable but it's not just physical. It can be sounds, it can be sights. So when your space is compromised do you assertively try and stop it from happening or do you passively try and create additional space on your own?
 
If it’s actually my space, space that I legitimately have control over, then expect a fight to the death. My personal space needs might be considered rigid by most people’s standards, but they allow me to be happy and productive. And sane.

Communal space is different of course. Compromise there just leads to further compromise. I move on. How quickly depends on how invasive the breach and how attached I am to the space.
 
When I need space, I tend to retreat. Whether that is physically, mentally, or emotionally, sometimes I just need to back away. And I have found recently, that sometimes that concept is hard to relay online. Thankfully, I have made some friends that have not let me go too far back into my cave. But there are some times I need to put on the porcupine suit, and people need to leave me the hell alone!
 
Wait...There's a conspiracy...Canadian amazon wants to charge me 40 bucks for a Ruby 3 pack *pouts*
 
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