Prostate play-- tips, pics, etc?

[Freya_Gin]

Made a thread on this subject in the BDSM Cafe but it crashed and burned. Maybe it really belongs here anyway.

I've been talking with a guy who's into this and I have only a little experience with it. Not that I'm planning to meet him or anything but I'd like to know more about it. I've looked into the subject via search engine but haven't learned anything helpful. Someday I'd like to try it. Does anyone here have any experience with it? I'd be interested in hearing about it even if you have no tips or instructions to share.

Pics and videos are very welcome too! Seeing it on video is what made me realize that I was into it.

 

[TomBoner]

Made a thread on this subject in the BDSM Cafe but it crashed and burned. Maybe it really belongs here anyway.

I've been talking with a guy who's into this and I have only a little experience with it. Not that I'm planning to meet him or anything but I'd like to know more about it. I've looked into the subject via search engine but haven't learned anything helpful. Someday I'd like to try it. Does anyone here have any experience with it? I'd be interested in hearing about it even if you have no tips or instructions to share.

Pics and videos are very welcome too! Seeing it on video is what made me realize that I was into it.

It can definitely lead to the most mind blowing orgasms a guy will ever have. My wife does it sometimes while giving me a blowjob and I end up producing more hot creamy sperm and semen than she can manage to swallow. You've got to be pretty close and intimate with a person to do it and you want to make sure the guy cleans himself out well ahead of time ... I prefer an enema before we do anything of that nature.

 

[rob_4u2]

I'll echo Tom's comment. It is some of the best orgasms I've had. Receiving a handjob as she's doing this...a geyser it is a strange feeling at first but SO worth it. Cleanliness is key and trimmed fingernails, lube if you use a toy. Have fun!

 

[Freya_Gin]

Yeah, I'd definitely cut my fingernails first. I had a guy once who didn't cut his right and he was always cutting me in the vagina with them. I probably still have scares in there from that. He insisted that he cut them but I never tore with toy or anything so I know he wasn't doing a good job cutting those nails.

But I was thinking that toys would probably feel better anyway. There's a number of them designed specifically for prostate massage. Have any of you guys tried any of those? If so, which ones are best?

 

[TomBoner]

Yeah, I'd definitely cut my fingernails first. I had a guy once who didn't cut his right and he was always cutting me in the vagina with them. I probably still have scares in there from that. He insisted that he cut them but I never tore with toy or anything so I know he wasn't doing a good job cutting those nails.

But I was thinking that toys would probably feel better anyway. There's a number of them designed specifically for prostate massage. Have any of you guys tried any of those? If so, which ones are best?

I've got an Aneros which is probably recognized as one of the best. I use it during masturbation but a finger massage from somebody else is equally as good. You can't effectively do a finger massage on yourself (or at least I can't) but if it's another person you can get your finger in far enough to massage it effectively. The first prostate massage orgasm I had was from a doctor friend of mine and he knew EXACTLY how to massage it with his finger to bring about a massive orgasm.

 

[Freya_Gin]

I've got an Aneros which is probably recognized as one of the best. I use it during masturbation but a finger massage from somebody else is equally as good. You can't effectively do a finger massage on yourself (or at least I can't) but if it's another person you can get your finger in far enough to massage it effectively. The first prostate massage orgasm I had was from a doctor friend of mine and he knew EXACTLY how to massage it with his finger to bring about a massive orgasm.

And Mama told me I should've become a doctor.

Seriously, thanks for the tip on the Aneros.

 

[sandles_nosocks]

Challenge accepted, I let you know how it goes.

I've got an Aneros which is probably recognized as one of the best. I use it during masturbation but a finger massage from somebody else is equally as good. You can't effectively do a finger massage on yourself (or at least I can't).

 

[lucky_guy_49]

Self service

My wife will finger me occasionally, has put three fingers in at once, but she's not looking specifically for prostate stimulation. It feels great anyway!

Today while she was out I got an 8 inch slim curved anal toy we got a long time ago, and even though I hadn't had anything up my ass for awhile, I was able to get the whole thing in easily. Curved toward the back, it's just a nice full feeling. Turn the curve to the front, and it hits my prostate just right, causing me to ooze precum immediately. It's a pretty intense feeling, so I haven't gotten used to how strong the pressure can be. Would love to try an Aneros sometime.

 

[andrewgoogle]

I love prostate play. While my wife will help out occasionally, I generally have my best experiences alone. I have a number of toys that help me out. I started out with just a standard vibrator. I would insert it with lots of lube. I found that I liked the larger ones with stronger vibrations. Still use them, but I discovered a sex toy especially designed for this purpose. It's a Rocks Off Rude Boy - you can buy them on Amazon. They come in different shapes and colors. But, in short, the Rude Boy is absolutely wonderful. Vibrates on the inside and out. Pleasures my prostate, but also gives great sensation to my balls as well.

Here are some pics:

https://www.google.com/url?sa=i&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=images&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=0ahUKEwjv6tbV-L_KAhWEOz4KHai_AUQQjRwIBw&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.bol.com%2Fnl%2Fp%2Frude-boy-zwart-vibrator%2F9200000009427178%2F&psig=AFQjCNH7sTpiyoc5KHywl3t2MSbJkgIQTA&ust=1453638398472081

https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/1/15/Rude_Boy_-_P_Spot_stimulator_-_Flickr_-_stnu.jpg

https://s.s-bol.com/imgbase0/imagebase/large/FC/5/1/8/4/9200000026274815.jpg

https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/I/416m1%2BUJkvL.jpg

 

[skibum75025]

Shower Time

I also enjoy this kind of play. I've tried a selection of toys. I have one of the Anearos (sp?), but found it a bit too small (but handy if I want to have it in while pleasing my wife). Also have a rather large dildo, but a bit too thick. Finally found a med sized dildo that is just right! I've found playing around in the shower is best making clean-up easier. My wife will often join me and take the controls. With the med size one she'll really let me have it and all I can do is moan and mumble. We usually do this as warm up. After I've had my fill w/o cumming we'll quickly dry and head to the bed. By this time she is dripping and swollen to the point I can now do whatever I want with her.

 

[lucky_guy_49]

Better than self service...

My wife will finger me occasionally, has put three fingers in at once, but she's not looking specifically for prostate stimulation. It feels great anyway!

Today while she was out I got an 8 inch slim curved anal toy we got a long time ago, and even though I hadn't had anything up my ass for awhile, I was able to get the whole thing in easily. Curved toward the back, it's just a nice full feeling. Turn the curve to the front, and it hits my prostate just right, causing me to ooze precum immediately. It's a pretty intense feeling, so I haven't gotten used to how strong the pressure can be. Would love to try an Aneros sometime.

Recently we were having sex and after my wife had cum three times, she declared herself done and asked what I wanted her to do for me. I told her about the dildo described above, and she lubed it up real good and slowly slid it up my ass. While she stroked it in and out, she teased me about liking it in my ass, and told me she wanted to use our feeldoe on my so she could fuck my ass good. I slicked up my hard cock with some lube and in no time was shooting a big load over my head. It was fantastic!

 

[IARainman]

You can't effectively do a finger massage on yourself (or at least I can't) but if it's another person you can get your finger in far enough to massage it effectively.

I have been able to stimulate my prostate with my finger, but it's a really awkward configuration, which is why I've only done it twice. Amazing orgasm, and if it were more comfortable/feasible to do alone, I'd probably do it every time.

 

[g08aner]

Just got this one IcicleG08.

 

[Freya_Gin]

Just got this one IcicleG08.

Ooooh... do tell after you've given it a whirl!

 

[bunny4med]

cleanliness, a little bit of lube, short nails, and change things up a lot while edging and massaging, (i.e. ball play, oral, tugging) and he explodes. he can only take it a couple of times a month.

 

[g08aner]

Ooooh... do tell after you've given it a whirl!

Looks like it will be a allot of fun. First glass device I have owned. Will post later.

 

[Iwant2havefun]

cleanliness, a little bit of lube, short nails, and change things up a lot while edging and massaging, (i.e. ball play, oral, tugging) and he explodes. he can only take it a couple of times a month.

Ok....THIS! Lots and lots of this bunny!

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

Made a thread on this subject in the BDSM Cafe but it crashed and burned. Maybe it really belongs here anyway.

I've been talking with a guy who's into this and I have only a little experience with it. Not that I'm planning to meet him or anything but I'd like to know more about it. I've looked into the subject via search engine but haven't learned anything helpful. Someday I'd like to try it. Does anyone here have any experience with it? I'd be interested in hearing about it even if you have no tips or instructions to share.

Pics and videos are very welcome too! Seeing it on video is what made me realize that I was into it.

If you have short nails there is nothing quite so nice as just using your own fingers, Make him hand you the lube and tell you what he needs. As a man that is a bit humbling to have to tell your partner that you want her fingers in you. However it is a needed part of this. Over time work more of your fingers into him until you get most or all of your hand in. Be prepared for him to just empty his cum out as if you turned a faucet on. It will not be a climax for him, just a emptying of a reservoir and again can be humiliating but again something he needs to experience. Following a good session he should not be able to get an arousal for a few days and will be so compliant to your wishes. At least for me that is how it works. Happy times to you and your partner

 

[txfuncouple]

I love prostate play. While my wife will help out occasionally, I generally have my best experiences alone. I have a number of toys that help me out. I started out with just a standard vibrator. I would insert it with lots of lube. I found that I liked the larger ones with stronger vibrations. Still use them, but I discovered a sex toy especially designed for this purpose. It's a Rocks Off Rude Boy - you can buy them on Amazon. They come in different shapes and colors. But, in short, the Rude Boy is absolutely wonderful. Vibrates on the inside and out. Pleasures my prostate, but also gives great sensation to my balls as well.

Here are some pics:

https://www.google.com/url?sa=i&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=images&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=0ahUKEwjv6tbV-L_KAhWEOz4KHai_AUQQjRwIBw&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.bol.com%2Fnl%2Fp%2Frude-boy-zwart-vibrator%2F9200000009427178%2F&psig=AFQjCNH7sTpiyoc5KHywl3t2MSbJkgIQTA&ust=1453638398472081

https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/1/15/Rude_Boy_-_P_Spot_stimulator_-_Flickr_-_stnu.jpg

https://s.s-bol.com/imgbase0/imagebase/large/FC/5/1/8/4/9200000026274815.jpg

https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/I/416m1%2BUJkvL.jpg

Both of these will hit "the spot" in my experience. And they're well worth the investment

 

[Freya_Gin]

If you have short nails there is nothing quite so nice as just using your own fingers,

I usually keep my nails long (the better to scratch you with) but I don't see why I can't cut them short for a while.

Make him hand you the lube and tell you what he needs. As a man that is a bit humbling to have to tell your partner that you want her fingers in you.

Ooooh.

However it is a needed part of this. Over time work more of your fingers into him until you get most or all of your hand in.

Ooooh again.

Be prepared for him to just empty his cum out as if you turned a faucet on. It will not be a climax for him, just a emptying of a reservoir and again can be humiliating but again something he needs to experience.

I've seen this on video. I'll enjoy seeing it in person!

Following a good session he should not be able to get an arousal for a few days and will be so compliant to your wishes.

Oh that sounds wonderful. I'm definitely looking forward to trying this out.

At least for me that is how it works. Happy times to you and your partner

Thanks for the tips!

 

[paulthewetcd]

I usually keep my nails long (the better to scratch you with) but I don't see why I can't cut them short for a while.



Ooooh.



Ooooh again.



I've seen this on video. I'll enjoy seeing it in person!



Oh that sounds wonderful. I'm definitely looking forward to trying this out.



Thanks for the tips!

Oh, Freya Gin....my prostate is yours!

 

[awired50]

I love prostate play. While my wife will help out occasionally, I generally have my best experiences alone. I have a number of toys that help me out. I started out with just a standard vibrator. I would insert it with lots of lube. I found that I liked the larger ones with stronger vibrations. Still use them, but I discovered a sex toy especially designed for this purpose. It's a Rocks Off Rude Boy - you can buy them on Amazon. They come in different shapes and colors. But, in short, the Rude Boy is absolutely wonderful. Vibrates on the inside and out. Pleasures my prostate, but also gives great sensation to my balls as well.

Here are some pics:

https://www.google.com/url?sa=i&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=images&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=0ahUKEwjv6tbV-L_KAhWEOz4KHai_AUQQjRwIBw&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.bol.com%2Fnl%2Fp%2Frude-boy-zwart-vibrator%2F9200000009427178%2F&psig=AFQjCNH7sTpiyoc5KHywl3t2MSbJkgIQTA&ust=1453638398472081

https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/1/15/Rude_Boy_-_P_Spot_stimulator_-_Flickr_-_stnu.jpg

https://s.s-bol.com/imgbase0/imagebase/large/FC/5/1/8/4/9200000026274815.jpg

https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/I/416m1%2BUJkvL.jpg

I have the Rocks Off Big Boy. It is huge. Too big in my opinion.
http://i.ebayimg.com/00/s/NTAwWDUwMA==/z/LukAAOxyDEVScrb1/$(KGrHqRHJE0FJj9KS,j(BScrb1eliw~~60_35.JPG