RANT! I didnt join Lit to take abuse from strangers.

Jennitalia

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I posted a "hello" and I get the worse and MEANEST responses on my thread!
What upsets me is ADULTS bullying complete strangers. What the fuck did I do to deserve this kind of treatment?!
I joined Lit to make friends NOT enemies.
Thanks for making me feel like a worthless piece of shit! Pretty fucked up.
I post tons of my pics and my stories and never had a problem til now.
 
I posted a "hello" and I get the worse and MEANEST responses on my thread!
What upsets me is ADULTS bullying complete strangers. What the fuck did I do to deserve this kind of treatment?!
I joined Lit to make friends NOT enemies.
Thanks for making me feel like a worthless piece of shit! Pretty fucked up.
I post tons of my pics and my stories and never had a problem til now.

You seem like you need a hug.
Or a plug.
 
I've just a look at what those morons wrote. You certainly have done nothing to justify their remarks.
PS I think you are lovely xx:heart::heart:
 
Reach out to Aella and StateandMain. They too were not welcomed or well received, and have started a support group / group hug thingy.

They meet Tuesday nights I believe.


Welcome to the GB. :rose:
 
I am sorry you got such a horrible response, but I am not surprised.
Posting a personal on the General board is never a good idea.

The inhabitants of the general board can be like circus lions who haven't been fed in a while, don't want to perform and are working out ways to make their tamer mess up so they can eat him.

I would not take it personally and/or seriously, it is just a gut level reaction.
Kind of like when you have the stomach flu and try to eat, you stomach doesn't care if it's chocolate, cavier or graham crackers, it's going to spit it right back up.
If I were to post such a thing here, I would fully expect all sorts of unpleasant reactions.

A personal does much better in the personals section of lit. You could probably take the same opening post there and get lovely reactions.:rose:
 
They may not even think badly of you, we have a lot of people here that are stuck in the dip the pigtails in the inkwell phase of social interactions with the opposite sex.
 
I posted a "hello" and I get the worse and MEANEST responses on my thread!
What upsets me is ADULTS bullying complete strangers. What the fuck did I do to deserve this kind of treatment?!
I joined Lit to make friends NOT enemies.
Thanks for making me feel like a worthless piece of shit! Pretty fucked up.
I post tons of my pics and my stories and never had a problem til now.

Some of my best friends are bullies.
 
I am sorry you got such a horrible response, but I am not surprised.
Posting a personal on the General board is never a good idea.......

.....A personal does much better in the personals section of lit. You could probably take the same opening post there and get lovely reactions.:rose:

You're such a sweetheart, really, I mean it.
 
When posting as a newcomer on a forum such as this one, it would benefit you greatly if you would take a few weeks or months to take a look at the forums to figure out which is the best fit. You wouldn't walk into a new job and start dishing with your coworkers about who is a slag, right? First, you take a look around, get a feel for who really is a slag, then go from there. Online forums are pretty similar in construction.

It seems you picked the wrong forum. I don't think the posts in your other thread are all that toxic compared to some of the stuff I have seen posted here. In fact, many of the people in that thread were downright pleasant.
 
The GB has a strange sense of humor. For example, calling someone a cunt is just another way of saying, "I think you are super awesome!"

Unless you're being really cunty, in that case, you should be less cunty. :)
 
The GB has a strange sense of humor. For example, calling someone a cunt is just another way of saying, "I think you are super awesome!"

Unless you're being really cunty, in that case, you should be less cunty. :)

#truth
 
Having re-read the thread, apparently this wasn't a personal but a hey what are you doing for Valentine's Day ? thread with a come on line and picture.

In that case, the playground might be a better place.
 
Thank you

Some of you cheered me up and made me laugh. Thank you! I do appreciate the advice you have given me and will definitely look into that to prevent any more issues.
Definitely some brutal people out there and it's extremely hurtful. I tend to stay away from negativity but in a place where people can be themselves, it took me surprise that people degraded others on this site.....I was not prepare for that. Those types of people need serious help.
 
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I posted a "hello" and I get the worse and MEANEST responses on my thread!
What upsets me is ADULTS bullying complete strangers. What the fuck did I do to deserve this kind of treatment?!
I joined Lit to make friends NOT enemies.
Thanks for making me feel like a worthless piece of shit! Pretty fucked up.
I post tons of my pics and my stories and never had a problem til now.

Oh, fgs. Every single person on the General Board thinks EVERY SINGLE PERSON who joins, is a made up nic, of another regular poster ON THE GENERAL BOARD. I don't know if you are one or not. Doesn't matter to me. if you are new that is why they are asses..or is it ass? Questioning you or belittling you or just being the losers who pull the braids of the cute girl in front of them. They will berate you, make fun of you, humiliate you and bring you to the point where you have to stand up for yourself. What's funny about that is when you start cussing and calling them names they feed on your anger and become more abusive. Consider it childish hazing. So dumb.
 
I posted a "hello" and I get the worse and MEANEST responses on my thread!
What upsets me is ADULTS bullying complete strangers. What the fuck did I do to deserve this kind of treatment?!
I joined Lit to make friends NOT enemies.
Thanks for making me feel like a worthless piece of shit! Pretty fucked up.
I post tons of my pics and my stories and never had a problem til now.

When you're down and troubled and you need a helping hand and nothing, whoa, nothing is going right. Close your eyes and think of me and soon I will be there to brighten up even your darkest nights. You just call out my name, and you know where ever I am I'll come running to see you again. Winter, spring, summer, or fall, all you have to do is call and I'll be there, yeah, yeah, you've got a friend.
 
Oh, fgs. Every single person on the General Board thinks EVERY SINGLE PERSON who joins, is a made up nic, of another regular poster ON THE GENERAL BOARD. I don't know if you are one or not. Doesn't matter to me. if you are new that is why they are asses..or is it ass? Questioning you or belittling you or just being the losers who pull the braids of the cute girl in front of them. They will berate you, make fun of you, humiliate you and bring you to the point where you have to stand up for yourself. What's funny about that is when you start cussing and calling them names they feed on your anger and become more abusive. Consider it childish hazing. So dumb.
You are right....a lot of belittling, insults towards other strangers.....childish behaviors on an adult website. I'm upset because I expect people to have some respect for others but that juvenile, right? Plus, there's always gotta be someone that has to voice their opinion, prance around, puff their chest out when it has nothing to do with them. Enjoy the ego boost.
 
When you're down and troubled and you need a helping hand and nothing, whoa, nothing is going right. Close your eyes and think of me and soon I will be there to brighten up even your darkest nights. You just call out my name, and you know where ever I am I'll come running to see you again. Winter, spring, summer, or fall, all you have to do is call and I'll be there, yeah, yeah, you've got a friend.

The sad thing is I actually sang that instead of reading it...I need a life, sigh...
 
Some of you cheered me up and made me laugh. Thank you! I do appreciate the advice you have given me and will definitely look into that to prevent any more issues.
Definitely some brutal people out there and it's extremely hurtful. I tend to stay away from negativity but in a place where people can be themselves, it took me surprise that people degraded others on this site.....I was not prepare for that. Those types of people need serious help.

Don't fret none about anyone here being beastly to you, Jenni. It's the standard hazing done outta either love or spite or boredom. Don't take it too personally. But seriously, all you gotta do is clap back.

Besides, more importantly...you gots some big ol' tittays. Noice, lussshush, ripe, hangin' swangin' dairy farms. Them's the lingua franca in this prurient-interest world of our'n. Supreme currency accepted in over 500 countries worldwide. The holy Rosetta Stones made of mooshable mammary marshmallow that mitigates all malice. No matter what they say about you or to you, you already done won the war! :D
 
You are right....a lot of belittling, insults towards other strangers.....childish behaviors on an adult website. I'm upset because I expect people to have some respect for others but that juvenile, right? Plus, there's always gotta be someone that has to voice their opinion, prance around, puff their chest out when it has nothing to do with them. Enjoy the ego boost.

Oh, I promise you, there is no respect on the general board....(unless you're in the IN group). It's an elite, special, judgmental, threaten your real life, type of people. (Hard to believe, I know). But if you are buds with the cool oldies, you got it made.

I have come to like, adore many general board posters. Others need to dissipate only b/c of their vile personalities. You know the type. Those who never ever have anything nice to say, EVER. Put those who kill your mood on ignore. Not worth wasting your time responding to negative comments.
 
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