Who initiates the sex and how do they do it?

[naughtoldperv]

How does your partner let you know that she/he is horny and wants a good fuck?
Mostly, my wife will simply grab my crotch as I walk by to let me know that she needs it.
Altho sometimes I do wish that she would be a little more subtle and flash me or something more imaginative.

 

[justherhusband]

Always me. I honestly can't even remember the last time my wife initiated. We're still good for doing it once or twice a week, but it's probably been on her lead a total of 2 or 3 times in the past 20 years. :-(

 

[sidonie45]

The very first date I went on with this guy, who had been waiting for about 2 months to date me, well the date wasn't anything super magical. So going home, he pulled off into a little lookout, we kissed some, then he said, well are you going to take your dress off or will I. No ifs, butts or maybes about it.

He slipped into the back of his car, which was a shagging wagon complete with mattress, sheets and satin curtains, and undressed.

And I thought to myself, as I was taking my shoes and dress off, I could die here. But that was the start of a very long and wonderful relationship.

So he initiated it, and I was damn happy with the results.

Here at home with hubby, I generally wait for him.

 

[disneynerd10179]

in the past when i wanted to have sex i would start to make out with my partner while i would play or rub his cock .... In the past its about 50 /50 on wither he or intiate sex .In my opinion it does not matter who intiate it the most import thing is that we both cum

 

[VampirTARA]

Well When it comes to my husband Usually he doesn't initiate it because he has more on his dinner plate then he can handle in other words he is usually wore out from us 3 girls. I am the one that initiates it . I just grab his hand and pull him somewhere and then take what I want. now when it comes to my sister wives one of us girls usually starts flirting with the other and getting touchy feely and along with planting some kisses on the back of the neck.

 

[NorCalCumCannon]

I can only think of a few times when it wasn't brought up in a text

First being my first real date with my first actual girlfriend (she was 18, I was 21). We were making out in the front seat of my car when she suggested we move to the back so we have no center console to get in our way. Within 30 seconds of us getting back there she unzips and unbuttons my jeans as we make out. She then pulled out my cock and started stroking me. We broke the kiss and stared into each other's eyes as she slowly jerked me. Without blinking she said "Fuck me with this thick cock" and she pulled a condom out of her pocket. We started making out again as she unrolled the condom on to my cock. After that it was 30 minutes of her screaming, moaning, me grunting and moaning and the sound of my balls slapping against her and her head occasionally hitting the door panel.

Another is when some random girl (also 18, I was 23 at this time) laid her head on my lap at a NYE party. She started rubbing my cock over my pants before straddling me and making out. About 10 minutes later, she whispers "Let's go to the back bedroom, I want to suck your cock." So we went to the bedroom and she wasn't kidding. She sucked my cock twice that night (1 half hour session until I came and she swallowed and then a one hour session until we started to fall asleep, her with my cock in her mouth) and she blew me again when she woke up, which woke me up.

 

[sidonie45]

we started to fall asleep, her with my cock in her mouth) and she blew me again when she woke up, which woke me up.

I kinda like the way she woke you up Cal. Reminds me of, well me. Seems she was skillfully oral.
Silly boy, you should have got her phone number at least.

 

[PattiJolene]

l do....l get playful with him, nibble his neck, invite him to the shower....

 

[rainbowdash30]

It depends on who it is. Some will just grab my arse and say, "Let's fuck." Others'll do a patient build-up with lots of fondling, etc.

When I'm with other women, I tend to fall into the position of being the dominant one (not that I mind one bit) and do a lot of the initiating. There was one unbelievably mousy girl in college who pretty much needed everything sign-posted, though (always asking permission to do stuff, etc).

 

[screwher]

My wife

My wife and I are pretty In tune when it comes to our sex life. We know early in the day that later on we're going to be tearing one off. I generally initiate it. I'll join her on the couch and start making out: touching, caressing, and stripping. When we 're good and hot we head to the bedroom.

 

[NC_OBX80]

It's 50/50 with us. Sometimes she will slip into the shower with me, sometimes I get home. From work and just need her and can't wait to get her clothes off. Last night we got back in from drinks out, she pushed me onto the couch stripped and ride me... Variety and being spontaneous keeps everything new and thrilling

 

[suckonsimon]

Yeah 50/50 with us, though in earlier years it was more often me.
Have to say that there are plenty times when it doesn't need one of us to initiate; the lovey doveyness or else the arousal levels goin on make it inevitable.

Can I link to a thread I host? This one.

 

[Tomahawk26]

I'd say probably 75% of the time my husband physically initiates, but I've usually I've been doing things before that point to hint to him that I want it, like rubbing against him, saying things, bending over in front of him in yoga pants... but the actual physical initiation pretty much always begins and ends in our bed, because we have kids--he usually starts rubbing up on my ass. I miss the days of suddenly being bent over the kitchen table while I'm cooking, or having him lean over and start licking my neck or rubbing my pussy through my clothes. When I initiate, I pretty much ALWAYS do it by stroking or sucking his cock, and a lot of the time he goes to bed earlier than me, so I'm waking him up for a super late-night fuck.