why are horny women looked down upon?

monanympho

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I am always horny and often go pantiless to my offices. I have had to change many offices due to some employers raising a fuss and finding excuses to fire me. Nobody ever mentions the lack of panties- ever!!!) I am horny all the time and like to make people around happy by showing off. (no pics on the internet though- it goes out of control i think)

Doesnt a girl have the right to be horny? WTF?

I joined here so that i can keep talking to like minded men and women and share sexy/horny/teasing experiences. Hit me and let us be connected. Glad to be here- wish i knew about this like 5-7 years ago.:)

Go on judge me!
 
Good question.

Despite the sexual revolution, woman are still judged differently than men. And a woman will always judge another woman more harshly than a man judging a woman.

That, and throw in the fact, I don't want that slut here, she just might take off with my husband!

We all accept that statement. Yes?

How about. I’m going to the party tonight, and your staying home. I don't trust you around so and so, you might just run off with her!

It’s all about how we view the same scenario, but through different eyes, and different conditioning, and different expectations.
 
that is the reson i prefer to be single- i do what I want, when I want and no MALE tells me what to do ever
 
I don't think you will find anyone on Lit complaining about a girl being horny!
Welcome to the pleasure dome ...
 
that is the reson i prefer to be single- i do what I want, when I want and no MALE tells me what to do ever

Well I guess I'm lucky. Sort of. My husband doesn't tell me what to do. But we've reached that stage in our relationship where I'm hornier more times than he is.

I know I'm not the only married woman in this situation.

But I sure do feel like I am!
 
I'd like to look down on you, but not in the way you meant in the title!

A highly sexed, strong woman is a wonderful thing.
 
Those who do the looking down upon horny women are I guess enmeshed in a massive double take. Within their imaginations they are absolutely loving having this nickerless gal breezing along giving an eyeful of hip sway. One of their worries is that they might say her name while cumming in their wives and that thought is scaring them!

... and welcome, Mona! xx
 
Those who do the looking down upon horny women are I guess enmeshed in a massive double take. Within their imaginations they are absolutely loving having this nickerless gal breezing along giving an eyeful of hip sway. One of their worries is that they might say her name while cumming in their wives and that thought is scaring them!

... and welcome, Mona! xx

That's one theory (and not a bad idea for a RP? 😜)

I think, generally , your sexual confidence intimidates a lot of people... But that's their problem, not yours 😊
 
i already like being here- this is the only place where I find acceptance.

I love teasing men and girls ( rarely) all the time and have a huge sex drive. I dont have sex that often- i tease people - and get a kick out of it- isnt it my choice....to be happy...and still have sex with whom I want... why do people find it so strange?
 
Childhood thing

The one area we are most drawn to instinctually,is the one area all of society tries to tell us is bad
until we start watching tv and advertizing tries to sell us its products through sex

It's easy to get very confused about the whole thing and feel and inner psychological push-pull about every aspect of it
 
Those who do the looking down upon horny women are I guess enmeshed in a massive double take. Within their imaginations they are absolutely loving having this nickerless gal breezing along giving an eyeful of hip sway. One of their worries is that they might say her name while cumming in their wives and that thought is scaring them!

... and welcome, Mona! xx

Guess you are right- thanks for the welcome
 
I'll judge you & it's a um..10!!! from me.
Welcome to Lit Mona & I'm sure you will light up threads were ever to go.
 
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especially if you are kneeling

Looking down can be quite erotic if its to see your lips surrounding my throbbing tip.
 
It's an awful double standard.
A guy like that is just being a guy, but a girl like that is a slut or a whore.

Personally I feel that, if that's who you are, be you.
High five if you're an openly horny woman around me. :D
(Or a better action if you can think of one. ;))
 
I am always horny and often go pantiless to my offices. I have had to change many offices due to some employers raising a fuss and finding excuses to fire me. Nobody ever mentions the lack of panties- ever!!!) I am horny all the time and like to make people around happy by showing off. (no pics on the internet though- it goes out of control i think)

I don't know what you mean by showing off. If you mean that you are flashing your privates to people of either gender, then you're not being discriminated against because you are a woman. A man would be fired immediately for doing the same thing.

Of course you have the right to be horny and to act on those desires, but not all professional businesses are in a position to tolerate certain things. If you're working for an auto repair shop owned by a couple buddies, then they'd be much more accepting of things than if you're working for a public accounting firm.

But I think the gender double standard is dying. That doesn't mean that some women won't judge women who they view as being slutty, but that's not the same thing.
 
Because women who 'want it' and aren't shy about scare 'real men'. Men are supposed to be the aggressors and seduce women because they are so irresistible. :rolleyes:

So it messes with the 'how it should be' of that type.

Men with low self esteem fear and look down upon women who have the gall to know what they want and how to get it.
 
It is ok to be horny..... man or woman. I have found that most people are not as horny as me and not as kinky. But i still have to be true to me. I have finally found a lover that is as horny if not hornier than myself. Yay!
 
Only by other women I'd think or men who are bible thumping imbeciles.
 
Because women who 'want it' and aren't shy about scare 'real men'. Men are supposed to be the aggressors and seduce women because they are so irresistible. :rolleyes:

So it messes with the 'how it should be' of that type.

Men with low self esteem fear and look down upon women who have the gall to know what they want and how to get it.

completely agree....
 
I've never bought into the double standard either. I've always respected and appreciated women who weren't afraid to allow their sexuality and drive to be an integral part of how they lived. Horny women rock!
 
I've never bought into the double standard either. I've always respected and appreciated women who weren't afraid to allow their sexuality and drive to be an integral part of how they lived. Horny women rock!

Thanks Blue Guy. You rock:kiss:
 
I am always horny and often go pantiless to my offices. I have had to change many offices due to some employers raising a fuss and finding excuses to fire me. Nobody ever mentions the lack of panties- ever!!!) I am horny all the time and like to make people around happy by showing off. (no pics on the internet though- it goes out of control i think)

It's hard to tell who's serious on this board and who's just looking for attention. If you really are getting fired for your sexuality at work then I don't think that you're experiencing a double standard. Managers are terrified of sexual harassment claims and will do whatever it takes to make that kind of problem go away quickly and quietly. It doesn't matter if you are man or a woman; your job is worth nothing compared their own so out you go.

If you think that your sexual urges are interfering with your ability to hold a job and advance your career, then you may want to seek professional help. There is a time and a place for everything. Learning when and where it's appropriate to express your sexuality is important.
 
It's hard to tell who's serious on this board and who's just looking for attention. If you really are getting fired for your sexuality at work then I don't think that you're experiencing a double standard. Managers are terrified of sexual harassment claims and will do whatever it takes to make that kind of problem go away quickly and quietly. It doesn't matter if you are man or a woman; your job is worth nothing compared their own so out you go.

If you think that your sexual urges are interfering with your ability to hold a job and advance your career, then you may want to seek professional help. There is a time and a place for everything. Learning when and where it's appropriate to express your sexuality is important.

Completely appreciate your point of view. Thanks for a divergent view.
 
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