Tenderness

[IrisAtNight]

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[EctoJohn]

Being a hopeless romantic, I have a thing for being tender as well.

It's a great feeling being in bed with someone and just enjoying them.
Holding them close, snuggling, the sweet kisses, feeling their warmth.

 

[IrisAtNight]

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[KingCuddle]

Agreed. I think it's the basis for such great trust and intimacy

You're tapping on the door of my WheelHouse!

Come on over to Nashville.

You'll always remember my hands.

My hands were made for love.

 

[FelicityJohns]

In a sexual atmosphere of fetish and kink where the trend seems to be the meaner the better (broad generalization, I realize ) I loved reading this thread.

In my experience, it is that basis of tenderness, the capacity for gentleness, that takes where you wish to go from there to a different plane.

Not knocking kink and fetish. But it starts down here, with a kindness and real human connection. Maybe not the cool stance to take it, but it is mine, and I'll own it

 

[JamesRTickit]

So lovely

I can't help it. It's what turns me on. Intense eyes looking into mine. A strong hand with fingers entwined with mine. Cupping my face in your hands, your thumb stroking my cheek before your lips touch mine. Warm. Firm. Yet still soft. Arms around me pulling me close. Safe. Cozy.

It's the things like this that get me going. Bring me closer. Make me want more.

I'm a mid-forties woman with plenty of tenderness to offer in return.

Sitting down with your head leaning on my shoulder. No need to really speak, we know which way we are going. The fire casts shadows round the room and we are snug and warm, winter has been left outside.

The clock strikes and brings us out of our contemplation, time for bed.

 

[LostBabygirl3489]

I love it!! Very hard to find a tender guy like this but they are out there.

 

[FelicityJohns]

Sitting down with your head leaning on my shoulder. No need to really speak, we know which way we are going. The fire casts shadows round the room and we are snug and warm, winter has been left outside.

The clock strikes and brings us out of our contemplation, time for bed.

^^^He's good.

 

[englishgent73]

In a sexual atmosphere of fetish and kink where the trend seems to be the meaner the better (broad generalization, I realize ) I loved reading this thread.

In my experience, it is that basis of tenderness, the capacity for gentleness, that takes where you wish to go from there to a different plane.

Not knocking kink and fetish. But it starts down here, with a kindness and real human connection. Maybe not the cool stance to take it, but it is mine, and I'll own it

Well said!

I love the slightest touch - brushing the skin, barely touching it...

 

[FelicityJohns]

Well said!

I love the slightest touch - brushing the skin, barely touching it...

Heaven.

A man who can't show tenderness has no business being rough. But when one who can is rough? Holy f***.

*fans self* It's a trust thing.

 

[fieldmeister68]

Trust and Honesty - the basis of all things sexually fulfilling.

 

[BiTodd]

I love and crave, giving and recieving tender romantic sentiments. And even better when she still wants to strap it on and fuck me.

 

[EctoJohn]

I love it!! Very hard to find a tender guy like this but they are out there.

*raises hand*

I'm right here if there are ladies that want me.

 

[JamesRTickit]

Can you

I love and crave, giving and recieving tender romantic sentiments. And even better when she still wants to strap it on and fuck me.

Is there a dynamic in being bi that would allow you to be tender and kind with a couple and still be pegged?, what would the guy do during.

I might write another story!!

 

[LaOrca]

Very nicely written, Iris. Romance is a beautiful thing.

 

[IrisAtNight]

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[EctoJohn]

Um...am I chopped liver????

Not at all.
I did reply to this thread first, that wasn't a mistake.

 

[IrisAtNight]

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[EctoJohn]

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"Ladies" was to any lady who wanted.
I would gladly be tender with you if you took me.