Somnophilia?

[ReadingExcitesMe]

By definition, it's when an individual becomes sexually aroused by someone who is unconscious or sleeping.

Would that term also work if you like to be the one used when sleeping? If not, what do you call that?

 

[EctoJohn]

I don't know, but it's an interesting concept.
It could be really fun to wake up and find a woman using my body.

 

[ReadingExcitesMe]

I don't know, but it's an interesting concept.
It could be really fun to wake up and find a woman using my body.

I think it's hot for my husband to do so, but those times have been few and far between.

 

[EctoJohn]

I think it's hot for my husband to do so, but those times have been few and far between.

Have you expressed to him that you enjoy waking up to find him playing with you?

 

[TalkToMeInSB]

By definition, it's when an individual becomes sexually aroused by someone who is unconscious or sleeping.

Would that term also work if you like to be the one used when sleeping? If not, what do you call that?

Not sure what that is called but I enjoy doing that! Feeling her shift and move as I play with her body. Feeling her nipples harden, hearing her moan... Sliding my fingers down and finding out just how wet she is!

 

[ReadingExcitesMe]

Have you expressed to him that you enjoy waking up to find him playing with you?

I have told him before but he does not like to talk about sex!

 

[ReadingExcitesMe]

Not sure what that is called but I enjoy doing that! Feeling her shift and move as I play with her body. Feeling her nipples harden, hearing her moan... Sliding my fingers down and finding out just how wet she is!

Yum

 

[joshua_bends]

I totally love this...miss this with the wifey, but like your husband, she HATES talking about sex...
Probably why I am always on the lookout for a side girl.

 

[EctoJohn]

I have told him before but he does not like to talk about sex!

What guy doesn't like to talk about sex?

 

[Redhill123]

Somnophilia

Wow. Never knew there was a clinical deffination for this, Somnophlia? We've just called it sleepy sex. LOL.

 

[IARainman]

Cum to think of it, my first sexual experience was with a sleeping girl

 

[Freya_Gin]

I never knew this was a thing until it happened to me, which led to this interesting conversation with my (then-)BF:

Me: And I don't know why he'd want to nail me in my sleep. I mean, I'm just lying there. I can't grip with my vaginal muscles like when I'm awake.

BF: Oh, you still do some.

Yeah, it's apparently more common than I would've imagined. Also, he needed to think more before speaking.

 

[asthecrowflies]

Sounds like something made up to try to use in court to get away with date rape

 

[ReadingExcitesMe]

What guy doesn't like to talk about sex?

My thoughts exactly. It wasn't always like this.

 

[ReadingExcitesMe]

Sounds like something made up to try to use in court to get away with date rape

I see how one would think that.

 

[JustAnotherMarylander]

.....

 

[ReadingExcitesMe]

Yeah, this makes me uncomfortable. Absent explicit affirmative consent for this to take place prior to the individual going to sleep, it's not okay, even in a relationship. Outside of a relationship, without prearranged affirmative consent, it's rape.

If someone wants to watch porn of this, there's plenty. But that porn is made because of acting and consent.

True. My husband has an open invitation and I'm talking about this from my p.o.v., the person giving the consent.

Now with that in mind, what do you think of the somnophile (?) if they act on it?

Interested to see what you guys think.

 

[prdigy666]

I love waking up and taking the woman in laying with...

 

[IARainman]

And I had a girlfriend once, with whom we had a mutual standing agreement that unless one of us asked not to have our sleep interrupted, it was always welcome to wake each other in sexually aggressive ways. So, it's an interest, not necessarily surreptitious or illegal.

 

[ReadingExcitesMe]

I love waking up and taking the woman in laying with...

It's a great way to start the day!

 

[ReadingExcitesMe]

And I had a girlfriend once, with whom we had a mutual standing agreement that unless one of us asked not to have our sleep interrupted, it was always welcome to wake each other in sexually aggressive ways. So, it's an interest, not necessarily surreptitious or illegal.

Exactly. I wasn't thinking of it in a sketchy way until these comments ^^.

 

[prdigy666]

It's a great way to start the day!

It's a great way to break up the night

 

[Bampire]

I have told him before but he does not like to talk about sex!

Your husband and my wife should go bowling together.

 

[Bampire]

By definition, it's when an individual becomes sexually aroused by someone who is unconscious or sleeping.

Would that term also work if you like to be the one used when sleeping? If not, what do you call that?

There was a movie in 2011 called "Sleeping Beauty" that delved into this. You might enjoy it if you haven't already seen it.

 

[ReadingExcitesMe]

There was a movie in 2011 called "Sleeping Beauty" that delved into this. You might enjoy it if you haven't already seen it.

I have seen it and I love it.