Edging - and getting too tight?

[LegsOpenedWide]

So ... I've been trying the whole edging thing a bit more lately as I tend to orgasm too quickly usually, and seems that I'm usually a 'one and done' I've been trying to make myself go for longer. I must say I do enjoy it!

The only problem is that I find that if I wait too long I end up becoming really tight. As in too tight. Sometimes it's a good tight as in that fine line between pleasure and pain but other times it's just plain uncomfortable and unpleasant and penetration starts to hurt.

I read about people on here edging for hours. I'm doing nothing like that (at all!) so not sure why this is happening. I could give in earlier I guess but that defeats the whole purpose of what I'm wanting to do.

Do I keep persevering? Other suggestions??

 

[thespiceoflife]

If you are doing this with a partner, could you not just ask him/her to withdraw til you can take it again. Mind you if you are that tight I expect a male would be very reluctant to miss out on that muscle dragging his cream from him.

Alternative a well trained finger might work

 

[the_bibliophile]

If penetration is hurting, you need to stop. Whether that means trying something different instead until you're ready again or stopping altogether is up to you. Forcing penetration when you're that tight can cause damage to the sensitive tissue (regardless of how well lubricated you are).

 

[Eilan]

I read about people on here edging for hours.

Yeah, stop listening to other Litsters.