Any bi guys not like anal?

[goud21]

For most of my sexual life, I've considered myself orally bi. I'd say I'm mostly attracted to women and really only want relationships with women. I'm attracted to women's bodies and women's facial features. Basically, I'm not really attracted to guys. What I mean is, I'm really just interested in sexual interactions and their manhood. I'm not looking for a relationship with a guy the way I'd look for a relationship with a woman. With me, I like to stroke and be stroked. I love giving blowjobs and will gladly swallow a nice load from a guy. I also will never turn down a blowjob from anyone I know is clean and safe, male or female.

So far, I've had pretty good situations with similar guys. Had a buddy in college that I lived with and we used to watch porn together and jerk off together. It lead to trading hand jobs and eventually blow jobs but nothing else. After college, through personal ads, I've found a couple other friends with similar interests. We aren't looking for relationships, but we just enjoy playing with a nice cock from time to time. I'm always careful with casual hook-ups and have stayed clean and disease free my whole life and plan to stay that way.

About a year ago, my last buddy moved out of town for a new job and I haven't been with another guy since (I tend to be picky about being safe, guys being clean, guys not being bed hoppers...I'd like an ongoing sexual relationship). I've traded e-mails with a handful of guys but it always seems to come back to one thing. Every time we end up talking about meeting up, the guys seem to want anal (either giving or receiving). I'm also not interested in kissing or cuddling or things like that. Maybe I'm talking to the wrong guys? Maybe I've just been really lucky with the guys I've met in the past?

Is it really that hard to find guys interested in getting together, watching porn, jerking off, trading blowjobs and handjobs and then going our separate ways? I'd even be up for getting to know the guy better and hanging out for a drink or to watch a football game or something. I'm just not looking for a true relationship with a man and I'm not looking to give or receive anal.

 

[LincolnDuncan]

I'll suck your cock but I'm almost phobic about anyone male or female going to my butt.

 

[mtsnowrider]

For most of my sexual life, I've considered myself orally bi. I'd say I'm mostly attracted to women and really only want relationships with women. I'm attracted to women's bodies and women's facial features. Basically, I'm not really attracted to guys. What I mean is, I'm really just interested in sexual interactions and their manhood. I'm not looking for a relationship with a guy the way I'd look for a relationship with a woman. With me, I like to stroke and be stroked. I love giving blowjobs and will gladly swallow a nice load from a guy. I also will never turn down a blowjob from anyone I know is clean and safe, male or female.

So far, I've had pretty good situations with similar guys. Had a buddy in college that I lived with and we used to watch porn together and jerk off together. It lead to trading hand jobs and eventually blow jobs but nothing else. After college, through personal ads, I've found a couple other friends with similar interests. We aren't looking for relationships, but we just enjoy playing with a nice cock from time to time. I'm always careful with casual hook-ups and have stayed clean and disease free my whole life and plan to stay that way.

About a year ago, my last buddy moved out of town for a new job and I haven't been with another guy since (I tend to be picky about being safe, guys being clean, guys not being bed hoppers...I'd like an ongoing sexual relationship). I've traded e-mails with a handful of guys but it always seems to come back to one thing. Every time we end up talking about meeting up, the guys seem to want anal (either giving or receiving). I'm also not interested in kissing or cuddling or things like that. Maybe I'm talking to the wrong guys? Maybe I've just been really lucky with the guys I've met in the past?

Is it really that hard to find guys interested in getting together, watching porn, jerking off, trading blowjobs and handjobs and then going our separate ways? I'd even be up for getting to know the guy better and hanging out for a drink or to watch a football game or something. I'm just not looking for a true relationship with a man and I'm not looking to give or receive anal.

Rimming feels great. Getting fucked hurts. The idea seems hot, the reality not so much

 

[Jake1945]

I love to suck a cock or eat a pussy. I have fucked a few guys that wanted it but it is not something I crave. I have no interest in being fucked. So I am one who is quite content to just get together and suck each other off.

 

[ragginrik]

I feel the same way I love women and how sexy they are.I don't find men sexy at all, but stroking and sucking a big thick cock turns me on so much, I want my face covered with cum, but I don't want my ass fucked nor do I want to fuck some dude in the ass

 

[Confuzzeled]

Yeah, blow jobs/hand jobs are a turn on. Anal giving/receiving is a turn off.

 

[CJontherocks]

I was never really into anal in the past, but I find myself desiring it more and more lately. I only tried receiving once, and it didn't work, mostly because I didn't really know what to expect, and the guy was a little impatient. I didn't really know how to relax and let him enter me. He didn't seem interested in taking it slowly and allowing me to enjoy it. It may have been my fault when I told him "Fuck me now!" he probably thought that meant I wanted it hard. I found out quickly that for a first-timer, hard and fast isn't the way to go.

I've fucked a few guys. The first guy wasn't too clean, and it was kinda icky. That probably turned me off to it more than anything. That was also a time long before I embraced my sexuality, so while it was one thing to experiment with a guy by exchanging blow jobs, it was entirely another to fuck him.

The second guy was a good friend who asked me to when we spent the night together. That was very nice. It was our second time together, a couple years later than that first surreal experience, and we ended up in his bed. I've regretted not asking him to fuck me since that day. And then the third guy was just a hotel get-together when I was out of town once. He was great fun because he really wanted it, enjoyed it immensely, and let me fuck him seventeen different ways. I envied that guy for enjoying it so much. He just wanted to bottom, though. Barely got hard enough for me to suck his cock, and he never did cum.

Since that first guy, I've practiced quite a bit, and I'm sure I'd enjoy it a lot more as long as it started slow and was clean and safe. I do want it now. I think about it a lot, and the idea gets me really worked up. In fact, I'm a little worked up right now.

 

[hardhorn]

I was never into getting fucked but I did have a lover that used to enjoy sliding his cock between my ass cheeks just not in my ass. I know it's not the same but it was so much fun

 

[NorCalCumCannon]

I enjoy giving anal. I have to be in a rare mood to want to receive it

 

[Riley69]

Anal sex is not a one way street

My experience with anal sex has been mostly wonderful over the years. I've discovered that anal sex is really only as good as the receiver allows it to be. I feel the receiver really has to be the one to take control of the experience and make things happen to his (or her) comfort levels. I've always been told that communication is a two-way street, and I've always found that communication is vitally important in any sexual encounter, but even more so when it comes to anal sex.

For me, I'm always tight back there because I just don't do it all the time. So, if I am with a male lover (or a female with a strap on) I take the time to let them know I am TIGHT and will need some pre-game warmups before something is just rammed inside me... If someone isn't willing to take the time to lube me up properly and loosen me a bit, then game over. On the other hand, if someone is willing to use some lube and his or her fingers to get things ready back there, it will be GREATLY worth their while.

For me, having something in my ass has never hurt UNLESS the person I was with decided to just ram things in without proper preparation. That has only happened a couple of times and, of course, the offending person was never invited back. That is the penalty for not listening to my wishes and not taking my wishes to heart.

Proper anal sex done correctly is a wonderful thing and can lead to the most explosive, mind-shattering orgasms I've ever experienced.

 

[TomBoner]

Proper anal sex done correctly is a wonderful thing and can lead to the most explosive, mind-shattering orgasms I've ever experienced.

Gotta agree ... both on the giving and receiving end. Having a guy pump me full of his cum while pressing his hard throbbing cock head against my prostate gland will inevitably lead to a massive orgasm of my own. Giving it to somebody and knowing how much they're enjoying receiving it is just as special. Fantastic experience all the way around.

 

[willbethere]

would like

to try and be able to give a better comment!

 

[Size10]

I enjoy receiving if his cock is not too big. The best I've ever had is a buddy who is about 5 inches and average thickness. I've had "big" which is fun to admire, hold, stroke and suck but not for back door fun. I just wanted him to cum and get out already.

 

[Joel_Mcphee]

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[none2_none2]

I admit I don't like to get fucked. Last time was about 1986. However, I did give it a good try before that. I guess I simply crave men, but not their penises inside me. A lesbian is more likely to enjoy a penis inside her than I ever would. That is how much it just does nothing for me.

That being said, except for the fact that I currently have erection problems, I would love to fuck again. (I was lucky and was able to fuck my guy New Years Eve. Before that it has been months simply because I cannot get very hard and stay that way.)

Problems aside, I'll never understand this craving of a guy just to do mutual j/o or oral. Nobody can jack off a cock like the owner can because he knows exactly what he needs to do to get off. The presure, the length of the stroke, the speed, and a host of other variables. No two guys have the same technique. Some yank, some touch like a feather. Some squeeze their balls. Others, have too sensitive balls to mess with...

As to oral it is WAY over rated. Sure cum in a guy's mouth looks hot, but most guys cannot suck more than 15-25 minutes without either giving you a hicky, chocking, giving you teeth, or rubbing you raw from the combo of hand assistance and the acidity of their spit. Most also cannot handle deep throat for more than a few seconds on a stroke. Now perhaps if a guy hasn't come in a month, then maybe he doesn't take that long to get off. That was never me.

Now on the other hand, sinking into a clean, beafy ass is to die for. If you treat the guy and his ass like the true priviledge that it is to be allowed that intimately inside him, then it should be wonderful for both. Having a masculine man stare straight in your eyes as he begs you to shoot inside you in a manly voice. Knowing he is turned on regardless if he is hard. Hearing his breathing caught up in your own motions as you slide in and out. These are all things that make the act of making love to a man's ass the closest thing to heaven on earth.

Oral is at best a pleasant sensation. Anal is simply out of this world. I'd make a better 100% straight man than trying to get any enjoyment with a guy who has an anal phobia.

 

[jackofthedawn]

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Now on the other hand, sinking into a clean, beafy ass is to die for. If you treat the guy and his ass like the true priviledge that it is to be allowed that intimately inside him, then it should be wonderful for both. Having a masculine man stare straight in your eyes as he begs you to shoot inside you in a manly voice. Knowing he is turned on regardless if he is hard. Hearing his breathing caught up in your own motions as you slide in and out. These are all things that make the act of making love to a man's ass the closest thing to heaven on earth.
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Man, you are a bottom's wet dream. I wish there were more men who shared your attitude.

 

[michelle3]

bi guys

I love to stroke and suck the guys cock til he is really hard and wanting more, then I love to take his cock while on all fours doggie style. I am a crossdresser so I also like to have my feet on his shoulders while he really fucks me, I love the feel of a pair of big balls slapping on my hot ass while being fucked. Of course I also love to be called names while fucking, like bitch and slut and as my wife says your such a good girl the way your mouth looks wrapped around a nice hard cock.

 

[cf23430]

I love to stroke and suck the guys cock til he is really hard and wanting more, then I love to take his cock while on all fours doggie style. I am a crossdresser so I also like to have my feet on his shoulders while he really fucks me, I love the feel of a pair of big balls slapping on my hot ass while being fucked. Of course I also love to be called names while fucking, like bitch and slut and as my wife says your such a good girl the way your mouth looks wrapped around a nice hard cock.

Damn that sounds hot

 

[Epifanio]

My ass is an exit not an entrance. Oral and hand jobs are good enough to give and receive. Making out gets me worked up. If my partner wants anal, then that's fine, no problem. But I like feel his/her mouth engulfing my cock.

 

[photobuff56]

I haven't tried yet but want to.

 

[Gods_Favorite]

I am very bisexual but I only suck cock, I don't have Sex with men and I really don't even want them sucking me. I normally just take off my clothes, get down between your legs and fuck your cock with my mouth, I always swallow. Sucking cock is just my favorite sexual act, I don't know why it's just how it is.

 

[interwebs]

as a bi man i find women much more attrative and i prefer women in bed but when i do have sex with a man which is quite rare i am submissive i do like a nice hard cock in my mouth but when it comes to anal it is soo good especially when he is really balls deep

 

[klippert]

I'll top for you. Rimming, finger or Mrs K with a strap-on...

 

[2wayroad]

I love women and when I fuck, I prefer a woman on the receiving end of my cock. However, when I'm with a man, I prefer to be on the receiving end. I want the cock and cum in my mouth and I enjoy being fucked by an experienced top who knows how to fuck a man's ass. I absolutley love having a huge load released inside my ass. I'd like to find a regular dedicated fuck bud who I could meet wih every few weeks to fuck me bareback and breed me deep.

Now, I wouldn't be interested in a relationship with a man, just a mutual understanding that we are using each other to get off. A closeted or married man would be best for me. I fact, I would hate to lead on a gay man who is looking for love.

 

[interwebs]

I love women and when I fuck, I prefer a woman on the receiving end of my cock. However, when I'm with a man, I prefer to be on the receiving end. I want the cock and cum in my mouth and I enjoy being fucked by an experienced top who knows how to fuck a man's ass. I absolutley love having a huge load released inside my ass. I'd like to find a regular dedicated fuck bud who I could meet wih every few weeks to fuck me bareback and breed me deep.

Now, I wouldn't be interested in a relationship with a man, just a mutual understanding that we are using each other to get off. A closeted or married man would be best for me. I fact, I would hate to lead on a gay man who is looking for love.

i am glade all the guys i have been with just wanted sex