orgasm denial and ruined orgasms

[tobyttt]

Hi, I seem to be in the minority here, but I adore the idea of a woman taking pleasure in ruining a man's orgasms - working him up to the point of no return, and then releasing him just as he starts to come, draining the pleasure from him. I guess it all comes down to control. I also love male chastity for the same reason. There are a number of videos on the net that cover the theme, but not as many as I would have expected. Am I alone, or does anyone else enjoy this sort of thing?

 

[secretlover1]

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=773784

 

[Boundlife]

I would have some trouble doing that, it just seem rude to me. (insert polite Canadian joke here)
The first part is true though

 

[twister947]

You are not alone. Hawt.

 

[koalakutie]

love it!

.....

 

[Cruel2BKind]

virgin...

So I gotta do it to myself.

I torment myself until I reach the edge, and then I stop.

When I get just to the sweaty brink, I have a system. Rub for five seconds, pause for ten. Sometimes, I can get stuck in that little cycle for ten minutes. It ends when I'm so horny that I can get off in just five seconds. I am such a sadistic little bitch to myself!

 

[spyhooked]

Sounds awesome! I would get in so much trouble if I did that though, the punishment would be swift and brutal.

 

[CandiCame]

I'm a fan.

 

[tobyttt]

Love denying orgasms!

How lovely! Is love to hear more! Do you take him to the edge and ruin his orgasms, or prevent him cumming at all? And how doh you stop him cumming behind your back ( so to speak!).? Thinking about this gives me the horn...

 

[Opedia]

You lost me on this one? What is the point?

 

[tobyttt]

You lost me on this one? What is the point?

It's all about control. I love the fact that a woman takes pleasure out of controlling a man, and that denial is ultimate control. There is a log of pleasure in the build up - and anticipation. And a great need when that anticipation isn't fulfilled. Also for me its about putting the woman first - what better demonstration of that than her gaining sexual pleasure at your loss?

 

[CandiCame]

You lost me on this one? What is the point?

Also, the longer you can put it off, the more intense the orgasm is.

 

[Kinkster101]

Every orgasm is mind blowing since you've been torturing yourself by getting to the edge but not letting yourself climax. Point being this is not a wham bham thank you maam instant gratifying situation but drawn out where you can enjoy every moment of the pleasure in the agony.

 

[twister947]

Edging, though, is not orgasm denial, strictly speaking. The OP was asking about true denial, as in chastity, or ruined orgasms, which don't provide the release we crave.

I'm intrigued with prostate draining, or milking as a tool in enforced chastity...no hard on, no direct stimulation, no orgasm, just a trickle. From what I read on the net, it sounds like it's mostly male fantasy, and is rare irl. Any real world experiences?

 

[OpenMouth]

I love denying myself.

Last night I worked myself up for six hours then went to bed (I'm staying in a hotel) with aching balls, dressed in panties and holdups to ensure I'd wake up in the night feeling slutty, and start the whole thing off again!

I can go several days like this; all I think about is sex. My wife plays along sometimes; at bedtime she wanks me 'til I'm almost there and stops, then does it all again 2-3 times, before turning over & going to sleep.

I'm not so much into the ruined orgasm thing, though... When I'm ready to cum I like her to watch me spurt spunk, and that really gets her aroused.

 

[tobyttt]

Every orgasm is mind blowing since you've been torturing yourself by getting to the edge but not letting yourself climax. Point being this is not a wham bham thank you maam instant gratifying situation but drawn out where you can enjoy every moment of the pleasure in the agony.

I give up. This thread has nothing to do with edging or masturbation - those are wholey different topics. I am not sure how you deny yourself, or spoil your own orgasm, because by definition, if you deliberately deny yourself, you are not actually denying yourself anything, and by the same token, if you spoil your own orgasm, you haven't, because that is what you intended. Edging, on the other hand, is putting off your orgasm, and building yourself to to a greater orgasm - it has nothing to do with this thread.

 

[PegMeKatePlease]

Bring this thread back to life

She laughed... he dribbled his seed onto the floor... Oh no, no orgasm for you she chuckled...

It's only fair she muses... the lube is a desensitizing cream... "If you do start to cum..." the sleeve will be removed long before that possibility...

She brought him to the brink... her hand removed as his cock trembled... the initial spurt caught in the glass... his sperm collected but his cum ruined... she milked his cock to get the rest...

Good boy she breathed... his jerking cock erupted... his face contorted with frustration... all that cum... he'd be safe for another week...

She wanted to chuckle... in fact she did after the first spurt... "Oh, did I stop playing with your pathetic cock?" she cooed...

"Higher" she demanded ... her hand on the base of his cock didn't move... he wanted to cry out... the smile on her face mocked him...

He stood in front of her... ashamed... he had dreamed of this moment for years... his cock engorged and she... laughed...

"No, god no don't stop..." no matter... she'd removed her hand and grinned... his sperm released but god he didn't orgasm... "I'm a bitch. I warned you" was all she said...

 

[mindswirler]

She laughed... he dribbled his seed onto the floor... Oh no, no orgasm for you she chuckled...

It's only fair she muses... the lube is a desensitizing cream... "If you do start to cum..." the sleeve will be removed long before that possibility...

She brought him to the brink... her hand removed as his cock trembled... the initial spurt caught in the glass... his sperm collected but his cum ruined... she milked his cock to get the rest...

Good boy she breathed... his jerking cock erupted... his face contorted with frustration... all that cum... he'd be safe for another week...

She wanted to chuckle... in fact she did after the first spurt... "Oh, did I stop playing with your pathetic cock?" she cooed...

"Higher" she demanded ... her hand on the base of his cock didn't move... he wanted to cry out... the smile on her face mocked him...

He stood in front of her... ashamed... he had dreamed of this moment for years... his cock engorged and she... laughed...

"No, god no don't stop..." no matter... she'd removed her hand and grinned... his sperm released but god he didn't orgasm... "I'm a bitch. I warned you" was all she said...

I'm ashamed to admit how wonderful those are -blushes-. My Goddess has recently been making me do this. She will watch me on cam and make me give myself multiple ruined orgasms. It's just as tormenting as everyone said it would be, but She loves to watch it. I know She thinks I'm a little slutty for loving doing it for her.

 

[irishblade]

This is pretty hot!

 

[Steve5511]

Bumping

 

[someguy992]

control

giving up the control is great and it keeps you horny.

 

[TomPal]

Orhasm deniala are one of my favorite fetishes.

 

[LegsOpenedWide]

They need a female version of this ....

 

[Dreamer110]

They need a female version of this ....

Hmm. Interesting thought.

 

[AlwaysTooWet]

Hmm. Interesting thought.

It's very hard to find. Apparently ...