Erectile dysfunction

[NickCarraway12]

I'm in my early 40's and have never experienced this until now. I used to (recently) get them all the time. I'd see a hot woman in public, my wife would strip naked to shower, I'd see a hot pic on here, etc. Now, it won't work well (limp as a noodle mostly) and I've tried everything (jerking it, cock ring, etc). I can get a partial but severely lacking in size. I tend to think that it's stress but I'm not sure.

We just got back from a trip and my wife is hinting about sex tonight. I'm afraid she's going to judge me harshly on this.

If you've experienced this, did it go away without going to a doctor and getting pills?

 

[warrior queen]

I'm not a man, but....
If I were, and something was going wrong with such an important piece of equipment, I'd be at the doctor quicker than you can say 'erectile dysfunction'!

 

[parodyluvr75]

You could have some different causes for it, you need to go to doctor.

 

[Super-Surprise]

I'm not a man, but....
If I were, and something was going wrong with such an important piece of equipment, I'd be at the doctor quicker than you can say 'erectile dysfunction'!

You could have some different causes for it, you need to go to doctor.

Don't listen to these people, you should be getting some much better advice here soon from the interwebs doctors.

 

[warrior queen]

Don't listen to these people, you should be getting some much better advice here soon from the interwebs doctors.

I think his problem needs more expert advice than 'apply a mustard and engine oil paultice, and blowdry with hairdryer on highest setting'

 

[girlsmiley]

I'm in my early 40's and have never experienced this until now. I used to (recently) get them all the time. I'd see a hot woman in public, my wife would strip naked to shower, I'd see a hot pic on here, etc. Now, it won't work well (limp as a noodle mostly) and I've tried everything (jerking it, cock ring, etc). I can get a partial but severely lacking in size. I tend to think that it's stress but I'm not sure.

We just got back from a trip and my wife is hinting about sex tonight. I'm afraid she's going to judge me harshly on this.

If you've experienced this, did it go away without going to a doctor and getting pills?

I think you should talk about it with your wife first. I think it's important to have her there to hold your hand. To talk to. I'd imagine it would be quite scary. Plus, it will give her the chance to be understanding about what you're going through. You've nothing to be ashamed of. I heard it's normal for blokes your age.

If you don't say anything she may just think you aren't attracted to her sexually. She'd probably feel very hurt and rejected. Hopefully she'd call me all sad and lonely. And then I'd do her. Do you want me to do your wife?

I'm kidding. Good luck.

 

[Mad_Jack_Rabbit]

Ask Duranman, the lady pleaser.

A person of such good humour, patience and willingness to please and help others, and so wise, should be able to counsel you.

 

[parodyluvr75]

Don't listen to these people, you should be getting some much better advice here soon from the interwebs doctors.

:caning:

 

[Debbie]

I agree with wq and birdie. Go see your dr. Sometimes high blood pressure can cause erectile dysfunction but without medical advice and a check up there isn't much else to suggest.

Sure it's embarrassing but better to tell your wife and go see the quack than ignore the problem.

 

[Hard_Rom]

Did this arise suddenly? Over the years I have noticed it's not near as hard as in teens and twenties. Doubt I could support one wet bath towel with it now! If this problem came on suddenly, the cause might be easier to diagnose and treat. Any major changes in your life to bring on stress? Illness or injury?

I've been rearing to go and had something take the wind out of my sails twice. Couldn't get it back no matter how hard she sucked. Next day was just fine.

I would mention it to your doctor. It could be a sign of internal illness of some sort.

 

[Super-Surprise]

:caning:

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[bronzeage]

I'm in my early 40's and have never experienced this until now. I used to (recently) get them all the time. I'd see a hot woman in public, my wife would strip naked to shower, I'd see a hot pic on here, etc. Now, it won't work well (limp as a noodle mostly) and I've tried everything (jerking it, cock ring, etc). I can get a partial but severely lacking in size. I tend to think that it's stress but I'm not sure.

We just got back from a trip and my wife is hinting about sex tonight. I'm afraid she's going to judge me harshly on this.

If you've experienced this, did it go away without going to a doctor and getting pills?

Don't you watch TV after 10 at night. Every third commercial shows a 40 something man who doesn't let something like erectile dysfunction get in the way of doing what he wants to do. He puts bottled water in an overheated radiator, or starts a fire with a pocket knife and a rock.

Go see your doctor. The first thing he/she will ask about is past sports injuries, or if you are a long distance bicyclist. After a full exam, you'll get your prescription. Problem solved.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunction


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[neci]

check for heart problems.

 

[bronzeage]

check for heart problems.

Good catch.

 

[NickCarraway12]

The night of the post, she was waiting for me on the bed...naked. I still didn't get hard. I talked to her about it while we lay there together. I ended up using a vibrator on her.

I rested fairly well and caught up on sleep....jet lag, exhaustion, etc. And I got back to exercising that next day.

I'm going to brag for a second I got a huge hard-on last night!!!!

I showed it to my wife and we "reconvened!"

Thanks for all of your advice, folks.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

The night of the post, she was waiting for me on the bed...naked. I still didn't get hard. I talked to her about it while we lay there together. I ended up using a vibrator on her.

I rested fairly well and caught up on sleep....jet lag, exhaustion, etc. And I got back to exercising that next day.

I'm going to brag for a second I got a huge hard-on last night!!!!

I showed it to my wife and we "reconvened!"

Thanks for all of your advice, folks.

What do you consider huge?

 

[NickCarraway12]

What do you consider huge?

I PM'ed you with details and I promise that I didn't include pics.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

I PM'ed you with details and I promise that I didn't include pics.

Was that you?...I get so many. Dependability is highly underrated.

 

[miles]

Go see your doctor. The first thing he/she will ask about is past sports injuries, or if you are a long distance bicyclist. After a full exam, you'll get your prescription. Problem solved.

Is that what your bayou witch doctor did?

 

[NOIRTRASH]

Since April (I hadn't been to a MD since 1993) I'm on 7 or 8 meds for high blood pressure and cholesterol and vitamins and shit. I've never had erectile dysfunction but my libido decreased. I got hard but so what. My sugar is normal.

The blood pressure meds made me hornier than a teenager, and the turn-arounds are much sooner. When I was 19 it was an hour, now its much less.