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I understand it's a practice thing but I don't want to go around practicing on a bunch of different men either. It's a bit difficult because I'm not in a relationship and I don't really have anyone in my personal life I can use solely for that purpose. I'm looking more towards trying to learn from other peoples experiences or anything really. I'm very curious and I really want to learn how to improve my performance.
 
Give him a lot of eye candy, too. A blow job is twice as good if you're both nekkid.
 
curiousella said:
Does anyone have any advice on how to give really good, memorable blow jobs?
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Some thoughts off the top of my head that, honestly, come from my love of eating pussy:

1. Love your "job."
2. Tease and kiss and lick to find out what he likes. Doing less can be doing more. (Oh how this is true in cunnalingus.)
3. Try simultaneous suck-and-stroking. I happen to love that.
4. Direct your tongued attention to the frenulum.
5a. When in doubt, google Nina Hartley for BJ tips.
5b. When still in doubt, redditors are a very thoughtful group of people in certain sub-reddits.
6. Give lots of attention to the huevos (I just hate saying "balls").
7. Last, love that job to the point as if you're one body with your lover.

Again, just off the top of my head (and I won't extend this to a firm and base double entendre).

You'll do great! COMMUNICATE COMMUNICATE COMMUNICATE!

- Sev
 
Remember the sometimes forgotten fact that there is more to a man than his cock, so while you are sucking him, let your hands wander all over his body. Chances are you will find what gets him going and what makes him feel secure and stimulated enough to let go.
 
Primalex said:
Why didn't you do it then?

How about this:

You write the nice helpful post you talk about and I delete mine. Deal?
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You posted before I saw the thread.

All you needed was something like;

There are already a variety of threads that cover subjects like yours. You might find it helpful to view the FAQ located here http://forum.literotica.com/showpost...82&postcount=2

Those who are more experienced here should be more welcoming and helpful to those who are new or looking for help. Especially on the "How to" thread...
 
An FAQ can be helpful - and it's helpful to remind people of them, Primalex, but your dick-pretending-to-be-dom tone can go.

Threads are about conversations and anecdotes and community.
 
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Primalex said:
Yes. Take a look at the FAQ before asking a question
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There may be wealth of good information in the FAQ, but I don't think that anyone should be obligated to read it. I never have. Chastising someone for asking a perfectly legitimate questions in a sex positive discussion form, for no other reason than because there are some answers written down somewhere else stifles discussion and discourages new people from participating.

IMHO everyone should be encouraged to participate, even if they are asking questions that have been asked before. Other new posters who may feel out of their depth answering deeper questions may be encouraged to test the waters of contributing to a discussion, and become the prolific contributors of tomorrow.

The reason that I lurk around here and occasionally answer questions is that I enjoy the personal back and forth here. It's a sex-positive community sharing personal experiences. What someone chose to put in a FAQ is useful, but I am more interested in the thoughts and ideas of the people around me today. We are all free to pick and choose the questions that we answer based on whether the topic is interesting and if we think we have something positive to contribute.

Just my $.02.


To the OP, nothing is sexier than eye contact. A BJ is nothing to me without an intimate connection, and (to me) nothing is more intimate or sexy than making eye contact when giving pleasure.
 
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Primalex said:
And your little rant improved the thread now how? You do realize that you continue to derail this thread or is your dick bigger than your brain? So, do you have enough self-control to keep your fingers from the keyboard?
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Ha. Let's see, I responded to the person who started this thread with some of my suggestions. So that's one contribution. I appreciated your pointing out the FAQ--that's two (and here I should have been clearer that I appreciated your pointing it out, as I do appreciate the FAQ and forgot about it until you'd mentioned it). I stated the purpose of thread is much more than directing people to links. That's three.

So don't spin your shit on me.

This "You do realize..." is a sure way to demonstrate to others you're just a pedant. I've seen nothing but "derailing" tone from you. Your posts here have been nothing been reactionary, impulsive attempts at backlashing against those who called you out as being a dick (you've more to respond to above, by the way, so get to it), and you've yet to own up to it.

Oh the irony of posing your question back to you: "Do you have enough self-control to keep your fingers from the keyboard?" You don't. Shoot away. I don't suffer fools.
 
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Reddit

Anyone know of good sub-Reddits that discuss blowjob techniques, other oral skills, etc.?
 
Where do I start?

*There'll be a list eventually but I need to go through all the files in my head lol
 
If your a guy I think the best thing you could do is just think about what yo like to have done to you when receiving a BJ.
Start there. All cock suckers should pay attention to the verbal and non verbal ques of your lover. Experiment with suction pressure till you find what is right for your lover. Use your multi asking skills. You have more than a mouth. Use your hands to caress and fondle and penetrate where needed. remember that guys like eye contact and play it up. Treat that cock like an object of worship. Use teeth sparingly if at all and pay attention to the verbal and non verbal ques of your lover. I am saying that twice because that is the #1 most important skill you can have.
 
Different advice will pertain to different men. Some like their partners to spit, some to swallow. Some quiet, some noisy. Some deep-throat, some not. Why not... *ask* your sexual partner(s) what they like?
 
Primalex said:
And there you keep feeding me.



I don't think you know what 'reactionary' means. You should look up difficult words before you use them.

I've said to the OP what I wanted to say. So it's no surprise that I now merely react to what people write.



I don't need to. This is the benefit when you don't have to pretend to be nice.
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you are a laughable shit and you should probably know by now that insecure one-upsmanship isn't a great look for a dom.
 
There is some great advice here. Just remember listen to your lovers verbal and non verbal ques and practice makes perfect
 
curiousella said:
Does anyone have any advice on how to give really good, memorable blow jobs?
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If you bite him, he will remember. You have to ask what he likes. Should he ask random strangers on the street how to please you?

Open your mouth, keep your teeth in check, hold the base so you can control his speed and depth. Some men like a lot of wetness, including spiting, some don't, But most don't want a dry mouth. It will be uncomfortable for you as well. Lipbalm isn't a bad idea.

If your popsicle is melting, lick it or suck it. If you can't tell which one he likes by his reaction, you need to get to know him better. I've heard some men like humming because of the vibration. The frenulum is your tongues friend. Get to know it.

https://dilateforeskin.files.wordpress.com/2013/01/foreskin-diagram.png

Some men like their balls involved. Try it and see. Start off gently. Holding them in your mouth or soft licking.

He will most likely be thrilled that you are willing to do it. You being new to it probably adds to the excitement. At the end of the day your mouth is still best used for talking. Asking what he likes, telling him what you like.

Good luck!
 
Graf_Severin said:
All of the above. [What IcePrincess said. :) ]
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Agreed

I like a lot of licking/tongue play, especially around my head and my balls. I also love getting my balls sucked. If a woman ever wants to do anything or agree to anything, all she has to do is lick my balls and/or head because I will be a powerless zombie lol
 
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