Is there something wrong with me??

[sammy2012]

I am married and have been for awhile now. But I still dream of exs that have hurt me so bad I shouldn't want to see them again. It's to the point to where I seek out guys who look similar to them and I don't want to sleep in bed with hubby because I'm afraid I may moan their names while in bed with him.

 

[stiv837]

I am married and have been for awhile now. But I still dream of exs that have hurt me so bad I shouldn't want to see them again. It's to the point to where I seek out guys who look similar to them and I don't want to sleep in bed with hubby because I'm afraid I may moan their names while in bed with him.

I think of ex girlfriends all the time, no matter how bad they treated me. I still desire them after all these years of being married.

 

[teacher78]

Dunno... I guess nothing is wrong, but to think of them to the point of fearing telling their name, it's definitely strange.

I think my wife is so far better than all my exs that I could never think of them while I have sex with her But of course it happens to think of some other woman... just not to the point of risking to speak their name.

 

[Prince Albert]

You have solmeting "stable" right now, but someway enjoyed the "bad boys"!!!!

 

[islandjoe2]

I am married and have been for awhile now. But I still dream of exs that have hurt me so bad I shouldn't want to see them again. It's to the point to where I seek out guys who look similar to them and I don't want to sleep in bed with hubby because I'm afraid I may moan their names while in bed with him.

I don't think there is anything wrong with you. Everyone, whether consciously or not, has thoughts about being with someone other than their betrothed. it's part of our animal physiology, the need to spread our seed and be fertilized by as many as possible in order to procreate and pass on our genes.

Your exes, to you, represent an easy way to procreate. You've already had them, making it easier to have them again. Regardless of how they treated you, subconsciously you know they are able and willing to fertilize you.

It's not "you", it's in our genes. As for the moaning...try to find a celebrity with the same first name, and if you accidentally drop an exes name, just tell hubby you were fantasizing about the celebrity.