Ladies help please

Ktownmale63

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I was wondering what things ladies do not like when they're having sex men seem to want to do the things they seen in porn and I was just wondering what you ladies think and what you dislike.
 
Oh please. Sit, watch and take notes while you watch porn. List what the men do.
Then throw the fucking list away!
Make love to me and make me feel as if you would die for me and then screw my brains out.
 
I was wondering what things ladies do not like when they're having sex men seem to want to do the things they seen in porn and I was just wondering what you ladies think and what you dislike.

Hey I love to make fantasies come true for a guy. I don't mind requests as long as it is not too rough or anal. I find most men want to cum on a certain part of your body, face tits, feet.
 
I almost think this might be generational.

Quite a few younger women grew up watching online porn almost as much their guy friends. Some of them crave some of the odd things you see in porn these days.

I'm guessing you'll find few women over 40 who want you to spit on their pussy, jizz in their eye, or fist-fuck their ass or throat.
 
Being pushed into something to fast.
Not so much what we don't want, but more what we want. Communication & being able to share your deepest fantasies is key. It sure seems a lot of guys have the fantasy of sharing, my husband included. The worst thing is keeping fantasies to yourself. Everyone is different, but these 3 links might help, It's a little different direction than what you were asking but finding out what she likes is a better angle to go imo.

http://www.lovepanky.com/sensual-tea...n-up-about-sex
http://www.lovepanky.com/sensual-tea...talking-in-bed
http://www.lovepanky.com/sensual-tea...t-someone-else

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When it comes to porn movies, They're made by men And geared to entertain what mens likes are, Every woman is different In her likes and dislikes. Example most women Do not like you to grab their hair, And RAM your dick Down her throat Gagging her And fucking her face with no abandon. We don't like to be treated Like a Blow up rubber doll, you must show us that you care for us that we were the only thing that matters. Then men must get through There head if a woman doesn't like something sexually, you just to not go do it anyways. me personally sometimes I like it rough and sometimes I like it soft tender passionate . but you show no compassion, grabbing me by the hair smacking me on the ass yelling who's your daddy. and then just fucking me like I was a your play toy that doesn't work for me. I want romance along with a good fucking. porn does not portray reality.
 
I think a big problem with relationships between the sexes is that a lot of men view "women" like math equations. A+B=C. There is no silver bullet, Spanish Fly or magic move that "all women" like. Every woman is as different in what gets them knee trembling wet as men are in what gets them hard.

So simple, yet so hard to truly grasp.

I.E. I've known a few women that truly liked a hard hair pulling, tears streaming, throat bruising face fuck. VT doesn't like it, but that's just her. Shit there's some guys out there who really don't like blowjobs. We're all individuals. Discovering what a particular partner likes is half the fun!
 
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Excellent question! As the other ladies said, it's a very individual thing. Sometimes I like it rough, sometimes slow and sensual. I like variety and trying new things. What I dislike most is being rushed through sex without enough foreplay. Most guys are too eager for fucking to get me fully primed. Foreplay can start with holding a door for me and giving me an appreciative look. Dirty talk, letting me know he's really into me. Necking, finger fucking, etc. If I have enough foreplay my pussy will be dripping wet, but most guys don't give me long enough. What else dont I like? I don't like a guy with poor personal hygiene. I don't like a guy who wants me to give his dick some oral attention but he won't go down on me. I don't like my nipples or clit being bit hard. I don't like it when a guy tries to slide a finger or his dick in my ass without any warning. Contrary to pornos, spit is not a good lubricant for anything. I don't like jizz in my eye, it burns, but jizz anywhere else is a real turn on. And fucking for hours is best left in fantasy, because in reality when it goes on too long it can become uncomfortable, or even painful or boring.
 
Definitely different for different people. I hate insults or dominating behavior, but some women think those are hot.
 
Well thank you for all the input I would love to hear some more it's great to see the ladies are open about what they enjoy and what they dislike I'm sure other men will benefit from this conversation
 
I have had lovers try to emulate things they have seen or heard about......

It doesn't really matter where she gets her appetite as long as she gets her meals here. ;)
 
So true....

When it comes to porn movies, They're made by men And geared to entertain what mens likes are, Every woman is different In her likes and dislikes. Example most women Do not like you to grab their hair, And RAM your dick Down her throat Gagging her And fucking her face with no abandon. We don't like to be treated Like a Blow up rubber doll, you must show us that you care for us that we were the only thing that matters. Then men must get through There head if a woman doesn't like something sexually, you just to not go do it anyways. me personally sometimes I like it rough and sometimes I like it soft tender passionate . but you show no compassion, grabbing me by the hair smacking me on the ass yelling who's your daddy. and then just fucking me like I was a your play toy that doesn't work for me. I want romance along with a good fucking. porn does not portray reality.

I don't like seeing porn like this either and then I really hate how they spit on the dick they are going to suck... That is such a turn off for me. I would much rather savour that head... Suck on his balls and run my tongue all along underneath his shaft all the way to that gorgeous cockhead to taste his precum
 
It flows the other way too, a lot of women learn & emulate their BJ technique watching porn. Personally there's nothing worse than an hour of teasing foreplay, and then a slobbering gagging head bouncing throat gagging blowjob. Yecht.
 
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So I'm gathering that the ladies do not enjoy "porn sex ". They do however enjoy things their way and I was wondering how men feel about using the techniques seen in porn. I personally enjoy a woman who will talk to me tell me what she wants durning sex , encouragemet and direction do you ladies enjoy that
 
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