Are we in the same boat ?

[gs84121]

Hi there,
Thank you for taking the time to read my post. I'm a 32 year old married man, happy with my marriage for the most part except that me and the wife are not on the same page any more when it comes to sexual stuff (sex drive being the biggest for now). I would think that there are many others who are in a similar situation as me. Also, I find life's been kind of boring lately. I'm looking for some new people to talk to and maybe make a few friends. A bit about me :
I'm a fit and healthy person and work as an IT professional. I'm quite happy with my life in general and have almost everything I've wanted in life. I like a wide variety of topics like politics, current affairs, spirituality, sports, nature, food, sex of course.. I like to travel a lot. I don't smoke or do any drugs, social drinking is my thing. I one of those who like to try almost everything at least once as I believe 20 years down the line, you would regret the things you did not do rather than the ones you did.
I am open to talk to anyone from any part of the world, from any walk of life and do not care about your religion, colour, gender or sexuality.
If you find yourself somewhat like me, I would love to hear from you.
God bless you all.

 

[perrafuker]

Hi there,
Thank you for taking the time to read my post. I'm a 32 year old married man, happy with my marriage for the most part except that me and the wife are not on the same page any more when it comes to sexual stuff (sex drive being the biggest for now). I would think that there are many others who are in a similar situation as me. Also, I find life's been kind of boring lately. I'm looking for some new people to talk to and maybe make a few friends. A bit about me :
I'm a fit and healthy person and work as an IT professional. I'm quite happy with my life in general and have almost everything I've wanted in life. I like a wide variety of topics like politics, current affairs, spirituality, sports, nature, food, sex of course.. I like to travel a lot. I don't smoke or do any drugs, social drinking is my thing. I one of those who like to try almost everything at least once as I believe 20 years down the line, you would regret the things you did not do rather than the ones you did.
I am open to talk to anyone from any part of the world, from any walk of life and do not care about your religion, colour, gender or sexuality.
If you find yourself somewhat like me, I would love to hear from you.
God bless you all.

why dont you have a frank conversation with her about your needs not being met and actually look for a compromise to your situation.if sex drive is your main prob them you can talk to her about giving you hand jobs or something...i'm not an expert on relationships but communicating can help lots in these types of cases

 

[BadGirl420]

You're welcome to message me
I'm a 26 year old, bisexual, happily married woman.
I love to chat
Let's talk

 

[gs84121]

You're welcome to message me
I'm a 26 year old, bisexual, happily married woman.
I love to chat
Let's talk

Sent you a message.

 

[gs84121]

Hey

Morning bump

 

[L0tus]

Hello my fellow sir. (Isn't that just an odd way to reference you, fellow sir?)

If you must verify that you are in a boat with another person, I recommend tipping it. The results as fast and it's rather simple. Now, if it turns out you were sailing in different vessels well lucky for you! You've got someone to rescue you AND place you in the boat.

So if you aren't in the same boat, you sure enough can put yourself in it.

 

[bicuriouscd]

I would recommend spending some time talking with your wife about the relationship you have and try o find a place where you're both happy , how would you feel if she were on a site like this wanting to talk to guys because she felt unfulfilled by you ?
All the best to you and your wife .

 

[Misshotndeep]

I hate to sound so clique but it sounds to me like a mid life crises. You want some excitement I get. Just be careful not to make a decisions today that could ruin all your tomorrows.

 

[gs84121]

I hate to sound so clique but it sounds to me like a mid life crises. You want some excitement I get. Just be careful not to make a decisions today that could ruin all your tomorrows.

I would like to leave that discussion to another time. Thanks.

 

[gs84121]

I would recommend spending some time talking with your wife about the relationship you have and try o find a place where you're both happy , how would you feel if she were on a site like this wanting to talk to guys because she felt unfulfilled by you ?
All the best to you and your wife .

I appreciate your response but I'm not here to discuss my relationship here. Thank you.

 

[bicuriouscd]

Don't be surprised when she's doing the same thing

 

[gs84121]

Morning Bump

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[gs84121]

Bump

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[scott6251]

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sent you a message - you're not alone by any means

 

[gs84121]

Thanks, I was sure there are a lot of people like me out there.

 

[gs84121]

Bump

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[gs84121]

Thank you for your responses.

While I've got a fair number of pm's, I'm still looking for that right person.. If you find co-relate with me in any way, I'd love to hear from you.
Thank you for reading.

 

[Way2confuzd4u]

Have you had any luck in finding what you are searching for?

 

[ElsieElsewhere]

Thanks, I was sure there are a lot of people like me out there.

A lot it seems. I think the most recurring scenario that I see for older single guys on here are that they are in "loveless/sexless marriages". Sounds like they're just trying to make themselves feel better about fucking around behind their family's back. Good luck though.

 

[Our_Adventure]

A lot it seems. I think the most recurring scenario that I see for older single guys on here are that they are in "loveless/sexless marriages". Sounds like they're just trying to make themselves feel better about fucking around behind their family's back. Good luck though.

She shoots.... She scores!