BlondeSub18
Virgin
- Joined
- Nov 28, 2015
- Posts
- 4
Hi! BDSM community,
I have read BDSM stories and have been a "lurker" on different BDSM sites for quite some time. I have experienced some light things with different boyfriends but knew they were not interested in BDSM. I just recently created this account and i am hesitant to post, but the need to talk to someone about my interest in the BDSM lifestyle. this interest has increased to a breaking point. So here I am.
I am a college student in Virginia. I'm hoping someone can help me locate a club or something near me. Sadly, when I try to find any BDSM clubs, they have been closed down. BDSM groups are scarce in Virginia, or at least to the public. Since I'm in college, I do not have a car on campus, limiting me from going to BDSM events.
I know know I'm interested in finding a master, even though I'm young. I would like them to be someone older than myself but relatively young and experienced in the BDSM lifestyle. A fellow college student or graduate student would be amazing to find! This is not some post to get a master, even though finding one that is genuine seems impossible in this sea of BDSM. I am honestly curious about the BDSM lifestyle and willing to learn.
One last question, how do I sort through the people who are not, how do I say it, trustworthy people who have my best interests at heart? I know, ending on a difficult question. But I guess I'm hesitant to trust people because of all the bad things that happen to girls that you hear about on the news.
Thanks for reading my obviously amateur questions and insecurities,
-BlondeSub18
I have read BDSM stories and have been a "lurker" on different BDSM sites for quite some time. I have experienced some light things with different boyfriends but knew they were not interested in BDSM. I just recently created this account and i am hesitant to post, but the need to talk to someone about my interest in the BDSM lifestyle. this interest has increased to a breaking point. So here I am.
I am a college student in Virginia. I'm hoping someone can help me locate a club or something near me. Sadly, when I try to find any BDSM clubs, they have been closed down. BDSM groups are scarce in Virginia, or at least to the public. Since I'm in college, I do not have a car on campus, limiting me from going to BDSM events.
I know know I'm interested in finding a master, even though I'm young. I would like them to be someone older than myself but relatively young and experienced in the BDSM lifestyle. A fellow college student or graduate student would be amazing to find! This is not some post to get a master, even though finding one that is genuine seems impossible in this sea of BDSM. I am honestly curious about the BDSM lifestyle and willing to learn.
One last question, how do I sort through the people who are not, how do I say it, trustworthy people who have my best interests at heart? I know, ending on a difficult question. But I guess I'm hesitant to trust people because of all the bad things that happen to girls that you hear about on the news.
Thanks for reading my obviously amateur questions and insecurities,
-BlondeSub18