My girlfriend is a tame, but devout exhibitionist, and I think that's totally cool. I also feel that desire, but always worry that when a man does it it's just creepy. What do you think? I would love to get some feedback on this, especially from the ladies. Anyone?
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What sort of stuff does your girlfriend do?
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For the most part, I think you are correct that a man showing off (exhibitionist) is creepy. But there are situations where not so much. Two people in a relationship. Maybe a swingers group party, or anyplace where there are like minded people, but it needs to be done in a fun way, I think,
We, women, can do it and people seem to like it and just look, but they are used to seeing women showing some leg or some cleavage and such most anytime out in public we see a sexy lady with maybe a really short skirt or Yoga pants. A crop top or low cut dress or top of some sort. In the summer a tiny bikini is common. I feel this takes the "creepiness" out of it for us. Just my thoughts off the top of my head.
We, women, can do it and people seem to like it and just look, but they are used to seeing women showing some leg or some cleavage and such most anytime out in public we see a sexy lady with maybe a really short skirt or Yoga pants. A crop top or low cut dress or top of some sort. In the summer a tiny bikini is common. I feel this takes the "creepiness" out of it for us. Just my thoughts off the top of my head.
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One of her favorites is at the nude beach...either deliberately walking by people who are lying down on their towels, so that they can get a really good look at her pussy, or sometimes approaching men and asking for a light...and of course, bending over for a light gives them a good look. Wearing a short skirt and no panties. And naturally, tops that give a glimpse...
For the most part, I think you are correct that a man showing of (exhibitionist) i creepy. But there are situations where not so much. Two people in a relationship. Maybe a swingers group party, or anyplace where there are like minded people, but it needs to be done in a fun way, I think,
We women can do it and people seem to like it and just look, but they are used to seeing women showing some leg or some cleavage and such most anytime out in public we see a sexy lady with maybe a really short skirt or Yoga pants. A crop top or low cut dress or top of some sort. In the summer a tiny bikini is common. I feel this takes the "creepiness" out of it for us. Jut my thoughts off the top of my head.
Hmmmm...yes, thanks, I suspected as much.
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My husband's an exhibitionist, in fact it was the first fetish he realised he had.
And before anyone thinks of anything, no he's not a creepy guy who sneaks around flashing himself. But he does enjoy it greatly when he gets to show some meat or do something private (and embarrassing) in consenting surroundings, such as play parties and similar. Back in the day we used to go out with him in a miniskirt and he didn't mind at all if his knickers flashed a bit every now and then. But of course we never went around flashing them rudely on purpose.
He also enjoys masturbating or having sex in our garden and balcony. It's a good compromise, hearing traffic makes him feel like he's in a public place, but in reality both are secluded and no-one will get an eyeful unless they literally climb over our fence and trespass our home.... and that's a whole different issue then.
As for myself, I like him being the way he is. The guy's got common sense and knows better than to cock up with it, so it's always safe, sane and consensual. And I genuinely like showing off his pretty dick and ass at certain parties!
And before anyone thinks of anything, no he's not a creepy guy who sneaks around flashing himself. But he does enjoy it greatly when he gets to show some meat or do something private (and embarrassing) in consenting surroundings, such as play parties and similar. Back in the day we used to go out with him in a miniskirt and he didn't mind at all if his knickers flashed a bit every now and then. But of course we never went around flashing them rudely on purpose.
He also enjoys masturbating or having sex in our garden and balcony. It's a good compromise, hearing traffic makes him feel like he's in a public place, but in reality both are secluded and no-one will get an eyeful unless they literally climb over our fence and trespass our home.... and that's a whole different issue then.
As for myself, I like him being the way he is. The guy's got common sense and knows better than to cock up with it, so it's always safe, sane and consensual. And I genuinely like showing off his pretty dick and ass at certain parties!
A few years ago, very late at night, I was outside. It was about 3am and no one was around. I wasn't wearing underwear and the urge hit me. I whipped it out and got to work on it, lost in the moment.
After I came I looked around and noticed an older neighbor woman standing across the street. She was walking her dog and had just quietly stopped to watch. I felt embarrassed and went right inside. She never said a word to me about it.
After I came I looked around and noticed an older neighbor woman standing across the street. She was walking her dog and had just quietly stopped to watch. I felt embarrassed and went right inside. She never said a word to me about it.
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Not sure if this is really exhibitionism
Back in the day, before I became a nudist, I would go to beaches so I could wear the skimpiest and tightest speedos. I would always be sure to cut the lining out and every once in a while when tanning I would reach inside to give my dick a bit of a tug to harden it a bit.
Back in the day, before I became a nudist, I would go to beaches so I could wear the skimpiest and tightest speedos. I would always be sure to cut the lining out and every once in a while when tanning I would reach inside to give my dick a bit of a tug to harden it a bit.
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Happy Thanksgiving fellow exhibitionists!
I guess it depends on exactly what kind of form exhibitionism is used.
Flashing/showing off in public where is people, pop-ing out of the bushes and etc. is definitely not my idea.
Walking at night/day in places when/where there is no people or in nature feels good.
But sadly nowadays is mostly automatically assumed that every man that likes nudity in safe public places/nature is a creep.
Flashing/showing off in public where is people, pop-ing out of the bushes and etc. is definitely not my idea.
Walking at night/day in places when/where there is no people or in nature feels good.
But sadly nowadays is mostly automatically assumed that every man that likes nudity in safe public places/nature is a creep.
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I agree - it's best if you have voyeurs that enjoy it.
My husband's an exhibitionist, in fact it was the first fetish he realised he had.
And before anyone thinks of anything, no he's not a creepy guy who sneaks around flashing himself. But he does enjoy it greatly when he gets to show some meat or do something private (and embarrassing) in consenting surroundings, such as play parties and similar. Back in the day we used to go out with him in a miniskirt and he didn't mind at all if his knickers flashed a bit every now and then. But of course we never went around flashing them rudely on purpose.
He also enjoys masturbating or having sex in our garden and balcony. It's a good compromise, hearing traffic makes him feel like he's in a public place, but in reality both are secluded and no-one will get an eyeful unless they literally climb over our fence and trespass our home.... and that's a whole different issue then.
As for myself, I like him being the way he is. The guy's got common sense and knows better than to cock up with it, so it's always safe, sane and consensual. And I genuinely like showing off his pretty dick and ass at certain parties!
This pretty much describes me and my attitude.
I wish I could get my wife to help out like you do.
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I like exhibitionism. Giving peeps to strangers.
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For the most part, I think you are correct that a man showing off (exhibitionist) is creepy. But there are situations where not so much. Two people in a relationship. Maybe a swingers group party, or anyplace where there are like minded people, but it needs to be done in a fun way, I think,
We, women, can do it and people seem to like it and just look, but they are used to seeing women showing some leg or some cleavage and such most anytime out in public we see a sexy lady with maybe a really short skirt or Yoga pants. A crop top or low cut dress or top of some sort. In the summer a tiny bikini is common. I feel this takes the "creepiness" out of it for us. Just my thoughts off the top of my head.
So true
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Ditto!
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I've been reading your posts; Woman like you are so cool. Open to your sexulaity, opens to mens sexuality. I whish I had that opportunity.
take care.
My husband's an exhibitionist, in fact it was the first fetish he realised he had.
And before anyone thinks of anything, no he's not a creepy guy who sneaks around flashing himself. But he does enjoy it greatly when he gets to show some meat or do something private (and embarrassing) in consenting surroundings, such as play parties and similar. Back in the day we used to go out with him in a miniskirt and he didn't mind at all if his knickers flashed a bit every now and then. But of course we never went around flashing them rudely on purpose.
He also enjoys masturbating or having sex in our garden and balcony. It's a good compromise, hearing traffic makes him feel like he's in a public place, but in reality both are secluded and no-one will get an eyeful unless they literally climb over our fence and trespass our home.... and that's a whole different issue then.
As for myself, I like him being the way he is. The guy's got common sense and knows better than to cock up with it, so it's always safe, sane and consensual. And I genuinely like showing off his pretty dick and ass at certain parties!
I've been reading your posts; Woman like you are so cool. Open to your sexulaity, opens to mens sexuality. I whish I had that opportunity.
take care.
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I like to drive the I-10 with my dick out and hard, always fun to get honks from the truckers.
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Guys have it harder (haha I made a joke there) because there's a negative history about it. (The creepy guy at the bus station in the raincoat stereotype)
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Merry Christmas Everyone!
My wife discovered it was fun to show off to truckers as we drove home from the city on a four-lane (not Interstate) highway at night. We had enough light in the car to give drivers a good look as they pulled up beside us. Sometimes I fingered her and sometimes she just lay back and spread her legs or showed her tits. She always got a "honk" of appreciation.
Very hot
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