Cougars

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I'm curious.... At what age is one considered a cougar? Does it vary depending on those involved or is there a definite line?

Thoughts??
 
Older women who go after significantly younger men = cougars.

Older men who go after significantly younger women = men.
 
I'm curious.... At what age is one considered a cougar? Does it vary depending on those involved or is there a definite line?

Thoughts??

the title takes hold on the third thursday after her unhappiest, most vodka -soaked, self-thrown birthday party.
 
What if an older woman does not go after the younger guy but he goes after her.. is she still a cougar if she dates him?
 
What if an older woman does not go after the younger guy but he goes after her.. is she still a cougar if she dates him?

honestly, i think its a horrible term. people date who they date, marry who they marry.

who comes up with these judgy, unnecessary titles?
 
honestly, i think its a horrible term.

9 times out of 10, when I hear someone say it, it's said in a derisive manner. And I hear it a lot where I live.

But cats are awesome, and people are assholes. So, I'm all for it being re-defined as something more positive. Hasn't happened yet, though.
 
IMHO 'Cougar' conjures up the image of a mature upper-middle-class woman hunting young studs. The Wikipedia entry says:

Cougar is a slang term that refers to a woman who seeks sexual relations with considerably younger men. ABC News states that these women pursue sexual relations with people more than eight years younger than they are, while The New York Times states that the women are over the age of 40 and aggressively pursue sexual relations with men in their 20s or 30s. However, the term can also refer to any female who has a male partner much younger than herself, regardless of age or age difference.

The origin of the word cougar as a slang term is debated, but it is thought to have originated in Western Canada and first appeared in print on the Canadian dating website Cougardate.com. It has also been stated to have "originated in Vancouver, British Columbia, as a put-down for older women who would go to bars and go home with whoever was left at the end of the night."
So it's a Canuck thang.
 
OHhhh so kittah!

They are srsbZnZ as adults though....got a big boy that I share the mountain with, he's fuckin' intimidating.

Agreed with the kittahz part. I tend to stay out of reach of the bigger ones ever since I read that article where one tore the face off of some woman.
 
I'm curious.... At what age is one considered a cougar? Does it vary depending on those involved or is there a definite line?

Thoughts??

Rather than age, I think it is the age difference. I would arbitrarily say, an age difference of more than 12 years.

I would pose a correlated question. Is the older woman still a cougar, if she is pursuing a younger woman, rather than a younger man?

My answer would be "yes".
 
I'm curious.... At what age is one considered a cougar? Does it vary depending on those involved or is there a definite line?

Thoughts??

Rather than age, I think it is the age difference. I would arbitrarily say, an age difference of more than 12 years.

I would pose a correlated question. Is the older woman still a cougar, if she is pursuing a younger woman, rather than a younger man?

My answer would be "yes".

I'd say, even though the age between the lover and the conquest may be a relative number starting from being legal on upwards, because there is a concrete visual aesthetic attached to the term socially speaking, it's definitely at an age where a woman develops noticeable wrinkles on her skin, particularly her face.
 
honestly, i think its a horrible term. people date who they date, marry who they marry.

who comes up with these judgy, unnecessary titles?

I don't know. I get along with this guy really well I'm all freaked out because he is younger and he thinks it's funny
 
I dated many older married cougars when I was younger... They love young hard cock... Especially getting eaten out and thief clitty licked. At 42 I still have a thing for older women...
 
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