My partner is on a different continent and dressed up at a dinner. Its a college thing - She is beautiful and in her late 40's. When I go to bed I know she will be tucked up - but ladies please tell me what its like for her to be noticed, chatted up, admired, flirted with or more. Whats that like for you and does that turn your partner on - or just churn him up and how does that make you feel. I am a real mix of stuff tonight in my head - she took her best shoes, best jewellery, best lip gloss. I feel dry in the mouth just writing this. Is it normal to feel jealous for no good reason .. and like it.