Serious question...BBW vs BBM

[TallTimbers35]

So I have a serious question.

I see a lot of men out there who love BBWs. They seem to prefer some curves and so forth. Yet I never, ever (at least not that I can find) find anything that says it goes the other way too.

Are there women out there who love BBMs? I talk to so many women who say that it's not about looks, size, or physical appearance as much as it is about personality and brains and such. But I find it really hard, being a BBM myself (working on it but not there yet), to find anyone to give me the time of day once they see me in person or in picture.

So, ladies of lit...are there those of you out there who would go for an oversized dude? Or am I (and others like me) forced to stay hidden behind avatars and dick pics (trust me, I'm not going to share unless someone really truly asks...and even then...maybe not), and the like?

May I ask for respectful honest answers only, please. I don't need to be bullied or belittled any more in my life. I know that I'm big and that I need to work on it and that it's my fault and that "they know what causes that these days" and any other creative insult you can come up with. Just leave those at the door, please.

Thank you for listening.

 

[ElijaRDC]

Are there women out there who love BBMs?

Well, there's at least one.

 

[TallTimbers35]

Cool

Well, ElijaDC, if you're interested in chatting sometime I'd be interested. But good to know, at least, that there's one out there.

 

[Pink_Milkmaid]

Plenty of women love men of all shapes and sizes. I'm one for sure. I *do* look at brains first, but I must admit to a thing for bigger men, especially big hands.

 

[TallTimbers35]

Good to know

Well I guess they just aren't making themselves as evident on the forums and chat rooms as perhaps I'd like. And certainly not in real life.

I'm glad to hear there are some out there.

(BTW, I'm 6'7" so the big hands are part of the package

 

[Titts4Tatts]

I'm no tiny petite thing. Doesn't bother me. I'm very healthy and as active as most 30yr olds if not younger. I like me a man that's not a walking stick figure. And talk would just be an extra bonus.

 

[TallTimbers35]

Love hearin ghat

Thank you for the reply. I love hearing that.

Talk is one thing I do pretty well. And I love curvy women too.

I'm glad that there are a few Ladies of Lit who are interested in the bigger men.

 

[Porkwarrior]

Dood, unclench.

I'm an unabashed chunky chud, and frankly at 42 after being fit & athletic & miserable for too many years, I'm happy eating too much good food, drinking too much good booze, smoking too much, and spending time with better women than I deserve.

It always comes down to attitude, be happy with yourself first, before you want others to be happy with you. I can still see my dick, wipe my own ass, and fuck a woman that deserves it 5 times a day. That's my self imposed red line, everything else is gravy.

To answer your OP question, yes there are women that can look past a gut & man boob's, but only if you're content with them first.