Swinging and Swapping

BadGirl420

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We tried swapping for foreplay but never fully fucked because my husband wasn't ready. We stopped doing it but I'd love it if he'd try again.
I'd love to hear experiences ;)
 
We tried swapping for foreplay but never fully fucked because my husband wasn't ready. We stopped doing it but I'd love it if he'd try again.
I'd love to hear experiences ;)

None here - not sure I could go through with that - but do enjoy stories.
 
Tried but my wife froze . It was with some friends so that may have been why . She enjoys when I pretend to be other men when we have sex .
 
We have swapped with two couples, and have had a few singles in for threesomes.

One of the couples we have been with twice, and probably will be again. A single guy has been a third twice, but the second time was as disappointing as the first time, so there will not be a third chance for him. The most fun was visiting a swingers club.

They have been fun, but the fantasy is better than the actual act.

Hopefully life will slow down a bit, and we'll get to swing again soon.

Good luck to you getting your husband to try again.
 
I don't want the other guys wife. I enjoy watching her with a guy. So ours is more sharing and not swapping. Maybe soon I will want to do the swap thing, who knows.
 
We started out going to house parties, if we found someone that interested us we'd go off into a room and fuck. If not we just sat around socializing with the people at the party. We've done, FFM, MMF, and an orgy. We swing now, but so far it's only been MMF, we've yet to find a couple that wants to actually swing and we're not really in to the private swingers clubs as there's really no control over whose in there, we went once or twice and always had single men trying to force themselves onto my wife. So we've stuck with finding our own friends.
 
Dream it

I dream of the day my wife might agree to any of this but like most it will only be that a dream. She used to talk about sharing while we were fucking in our early days but then life and kids have pretty well kissed all chances away .
 
I have been approached by a married couple to see if I am interested in joining them for a play but my husband isn't interested. I would love to swap and change things up. There's also another guy that I would love to have join us as a part of a threesome
 
I was bisexual when I met my husband and soon after marriage engaged in our first threesome with another woman. We later expanded our boundaries into the swinging lifestyle and have been involved in it to a greater or lesser degree for many years. As we are both highly sexually driven people and have been open with one another since day one, it has made for a wonderful strong marriage.

We have volunteered as counselors of sorts for swinger groups in the past and have often advised couples not to enter the lifestyle. If one or the other is strongly reluctant, or evident that the situation is being pushed by one partner over the other partners wishes, it simply will not work. We have sadly witnessed the dark side of swinging with several marriages crashing as a result. Usually there are underlying marital problems beyond the bed though that lead to this.

For others like us it is an immense pleasure to watch each other and be watched with other individuals.
 
Love Around The World...

I have been approached by a married couple to see if I am interested in joining them for a play but my husband isn't interested. I would love to swap and change things up. There's also another guy that I would love to have join us as a part of a threesome

Dear Bliss - hang on there, just a short while, until I've got my plane ticket. I'd love to join you for a sweet frolic, with or without your significant other present...
 
I dream of the day my wife might agree to any of this but like most it will only be that a dream. She used to talk about sharing while we were fucking in our early days but then life and kids have pretty well kissed all chances away .

Next time you're having sex, whisper to her some of the things she used to talk about, pretend that you're actually sharing her with another man, tell her to suck his cock as you put your finger next to her mouth. Then start kissing your finger and her and telling her you'd love to share a cock with her. See if she responds to it. This is what I did, after she'd said something about missing our swinging days. She came so hard that first night, and then before I knew it we'd set up a bi male to join us. He's coming over again in a couple of weeks. Good luck
 
More than just fucking

We have swapped with several couples and the experience has actually brought us closer together. It's not for everybody, but can work out great for many. We’ve stuck with finding our own friends as we found all too often at swingers clubs single men try to force themselves onto my wife. Like others we have tended to go to private parties where single males are not allowed. This contributes to a much more relaxed atmosphere for finding like-minded couples. We’ve met a very attractive long-term committed couple who we have spent many weekends with. The mutual respect for each other is so far from the urban myth that all that happens is you go off to room and fuck. Yes, the sex is great but it so much more than just fucking.
 
We agree , we tried with a couple but that went south the first night. We all got drunk and went home. Since then a few 3sums with our close friends and one guy just out of the blue. We like it and we have them over for drinks a meal or grab a movie with them or out for a drink. We even went to the lake for a drive just to get out of the city. There is more to life then just sex.
 
We agree , we tried with a couple but that went south the first night. We all got drunk and went home. Since then a few 3sums with our close friends and one guy just out of the blue. We like it and we have them over for drinks a meal or grab a movie with them or out for a drink. We even went to the lake for a drive just to get out of the city. There is more to life then just sex.

........more to life than sex......ah........WHAT....wait.....
 
Is your hub not interested in the other couple or swinging in general? It's a shame that it takes some guys a while to come around to the idea. We've only played with couples but if there was a male she felt that strongly about sharing her body with, I'd be all for it. Hopefully he comes around.

I think he's attracted to her but doesn't like the idea of sharing with another guy. I really don't think he'll change his mindand I wwouldn't want to force him into anything....all I can do is drop hints and see how it goes over time
 
We have had MANY threesomes with other women. I have a favorite though..my best friend. Nobody like my BabyGirl...mmmm. Its been a while so we're overdue. I love love love watching him fuck her.
As far as another man fucking me...well thats where cheating comes in.. He's not for that one.
 
We have had MANY threesomes with other women. I have a favorite though..my best friend. Nobody like my BabyGirl...mmmm. Its been a while so we're overdue. I love love love watching him fuck her.
As far as another man fucking me...well thats where cheating comes in.. He's not for that one.

That's so great. My girl admits she'd be jealous. So would I if the roles were reversed. We both WANT to try something, but don't want it to backfire. Might just go to a swinger's club and watch for starters.
 
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