Women are inflexible about their choice in men, and this is hurting them badly.

[GiaCat]

I have an MS degree. I find that when I date people who are uneducated, but very intelligent, they have a 'unguided' view of the world. What I mean is, they think they know more than they really do and can be downright arrogant about it. I find it annoying. I know I am speaking in generalities, but I find that often people who are educated actually have a better understanding that they DON'T know it all and are open to different ideas and opinions. So I find that 'dating down' is not a good compromise.

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

I never said that, but good job with the reductio ad absurdum.

Yeah you did. You said
"Women entering the workforce? Well, that just broadened the labor pool which lowered wages for big business"

Women entering the workforce broadened the labor pool which lowered wages

Do you even understand the words you write?

 

[richard_daily]

I don't think I've ever seen someone cry more about not being able to get laid than the OP.

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

I have an MS degree. I find that when I date people who are uneducated, but very intelligent, they have a 'unguided' view of the world.

And as a college graduate myself, I see a lot of college grads who show the same exact know-it-all arrogance that you claim to see in non college grads.

What I mean is, they think they know more than they really do and can be downright arrogant about it. I find it annoying. I know I am speaking in generalities, but I find that often people who are educated actually have a better understanding that they DON'T know it all and are open to different ideas and opinions. So I find that 'dating down' is not a good compromise.

Men 'date down' all the time and there's no problem with that. But yeah, I can see how you think it's different when it's women 'dating down'. Female privilege aka hypergamy is a hell of a thing to outgrow.

 

[dan_c00000]

1. And as a college graduate myself

2. Female privilege aka hypergamy is a hell of a thing to outgrow.

1. HAHAHAHA yeah right. You know the University of Phoenix isn't a real college right?

2. It's hard to outgrow things that don't exist. For example, show me where all the women in the U.S. House of Representatives are trying to prevent men from purchasing condoms. Or show me all the business that are paying women 20 to 30% more than men.

I don't find it surprising you never address any comments I make. It means that you've got me blocked (because you're a coward) or it means you know your bullshit MRA trolling doesn't exist and you're really just a whiny little pissant who can't get laid.

 

[pollynova]

8) The “I hate fedoras” woman. She’s a petty bigot. Not just a bigot, but a petty one. There’s one thing not to like Democrats or Republicans, but fedoras? Her petty bigotry will come back to bite you in the ass in other ways. And if she hates fedoras because it represents, in her small mind, Nice Guys? Can you say, “mentally unstable”? I thought so. See point #1.

Fedoras are silly.

 

[badbabysitter]

omg this thread is hilarious

gone a few weeks and I nearly missed out on this comedy gold

" If women dont date below their level ( which is funny in of itself).... then women are doomed"

doomed

dooooooooooomed

http://media.tumblr.com/3c288d13bdf577afc82ec7e1d5508ad6/tumblr_inline_mrjsslt0zY1qz4rgp.gif


if they dont date, all educated women suffer

because their rational minds can't overcome thier biology apparently

but wait, didnt you say

Sure they do. In fact, human civilization is built largely upon our ability to overcome biological urges. That's why we've got the US Constitution rather than the raw edict of Emperors and Kings.

but why can't women do this?

oh right because... they can't over come thier biology

only men in their noble wisdom can date any woman... and they do this as a moral service for those poor poor highly educated women who are slaves to their biology


https://media.giphy.com/media/KaZLJ1VQESX4c/giphy.gif


or another argument is


some women dont want to date stupid men... and some men will fuck anyone



also about this biological urge which commands all women... if men really are doing a woman a service by dating down.. why do over half of marriages end in divorce?

this would imply that both the men that are dating down.. and the women that aren't........


.....both can't get relationships right




why does the guy who dates down that gets divorced.. somehow better then the women that dates down and gets divorced


why aren't you arguing about all the shitty men out there that ruin women that date down


or is it just that a woman is always to blame?

. Female privilege aka hypergamy is a hell of a thing to outgrow.

you do realize hypergamy applies to men too right?

or have you never met a man that chases women young enough to be their daughter or granddaughter?


no, wait.. women are to blame for that too...right?



I was going to rant about how hypociritical your points in your rant were.. but here's a few gems


4) If she dates thugs and bad boys, RUN!!! If she has a reputation of ignoring nice guys, then, once again, RUN!!! Stop pursuing her. Seriously. Need I explain why? Look instead for women who actually prefer decent men. If she says there are no decent men… again, RUN!!! Clue: If she can’t find any decent men, it’s probably because she’s not a decent woman.

what if he dates strippers and bad girls... should she avoid him... oh god no, because a woman should be privilieged a man " dates down to her level".. thank you oh great man for doing what I shouldnt do


and if the guy who wrote this was a nice guy.. yes, she should really avoid him... because nice guys dont whine and bitch about women for years online./.. they're actually douchebags

5) If she’s got kids and baby daddy issues? I mean, really? Must you ask me how to handle this? Start getting zip codes between you and her. As many as possible. She made a mess of her life dating bad boys and thugs, why should you volunteer to step into that toxic soup? That kind of desperation will get you hurt, badly. Throw her back, there’s plenty of other fish in the sea. If you’re a single dad, of course, then there’s a chance the two of you have something critical in common.

Never date a woman with children!!! they're damaged goods!!!!!


men who are raising kids are saints though

because.. magic.. and ... reasons




8) The “I hate fedoras” woman. She’s a petty bigot. Not just a bigot, but a petty one. There’s one thing not to like Democrats or Republicans, but fedoras? Her petty bigotry will come back to bite you in the ass in other ways. And if she hates fedoras because it represents, in her small mind, Nice Guys? Can you say, “mentally unstable”? I thought so. See point #1.


Fedoras? Seriously?

if your headware is an intrinsic part of your personality.. you've got some serious issues

and not liking a certain style of hat is bigotry?

bigotry?

http://s557.photobucket.com/user/doodetzombie/media/meangirls-srsly.gif.html

you equate liking say a bowler, and not liking a fedora.. the same as homophobia?

seriously?

http://gifsec.com/wp-content/uploads/GIF/2014/04/Get-help-gif.gif?gs=a

seriously

 

[Penuche]

Fedoras are silly.

My husband looks good in one, but he wears it for practical reasons, not posing, and smaller brims look comedic on him.

 

[BotanyBoy]

I have an MS degree. I find that when I date people who are uneducated, but very intelligent, they have a 'unguided' view of the world. What I mean is, they think they know more than they really do and can be downright arrogant about it. I find it annoying. I know I am speaking in generalities, but I find that often people who are educated actually have a better understanding that they DON'T know it all and are open to different ideas and opinions. So I find that 'dating down' is not a good compromise.

That's funny.

I only have a couple lowly BS's and I think the educated are by far the most pompous full of themselves arrogant fart sniffers I've ever met. They REALLY think they are better human beings on a whole variety of levels.

At least in the bay area, maybe it's just Stanford/Berkeley crowd. Because unless your an alum then you're shit on their shoes at best. Unless minority, then they mock you with faux pity.

I don't think I've ever seen someone cry more about not being able to get laid than the OP.

That's pretty much all there is to it.

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

omg this thread is hilarious

gone a few weeks and I nearly missed out on this comedy gold

" If women dont date below their level ( which is funny in of itself).... then women are doomed"

doomed

dooooooooooomed

Great hyperbole there. All I said is these inflexible getting exploited by men who know these women can't find the men they want

and multiple articles out there are pointing this out

The media is declaring that there is a man shortage, you idiot.

This 'man shortage' is entirely caused by the very women who are whining their asses off about it.

Do you deny any of this?

if they dont date, all educated women suffer

I never said all. Typical feminist, you've got to make shit up to uphold your non-point.

only men in their noble wisdom can date any woman... and they do this as a moral service for those poor poor highly educated women who are slaves to their biology

More made-up bullshit based on something I never said.

also about this biological urge which commands all women... if men really are doing a woman a service by dating down.. why do over half of marriages end in divorce?

Because 68% of them are initiated by women.

And men aren't doing any service by dating down... they're more tolerant of a mate's faults. But that's true of any animal species. THAT part is biology. That's not saying all women are pathetic or men are doing women a service/favor/whatever your feverish nightmares tell you. Some women - the women who don't whine about the 'man shortage' - have no problem dating down. In fact they don't even call it dating down.

If you actually READ my (admittedly, long) post about desirable and undesirable women, you would have seen that I said men should look for women who overcome those hypergamic biological urges. But that doesn't fit in with your panic-mongering "teh oppressed wimmens" narrative, now does it?

why aren't you arguing about all the shitty men out there that ruin women that date down

You were saying - oh yeah and I posted this here, too.

or is it just that a woman is always to blame?

I'm guessing that you totally do not understand why I take a steaming shit all over traditional conservatism.

you do realize hypergamy applies to men too right?

or have you never met a man that chases women young enough to be their daughter or granddaughter?

That's hypogamy. You really need to stop and study the meaning of words before you stick your nose into a conversation.

Oh and have you ever heard of a thing called the cougar craze?

I was going to rant about how hypociritical your points in your rant were.. but here's a few gems


4) If she dates thugs and bad boys, RUN!!! If she has a reputation of ignoring nice guys, then, once again, RUN!!! Stop pursuing her. Seriously. Need I explain why? Look instead for women who actually prefer decent men. If she says there are no decent men… again, RUN!!! Clue: If she can’t find any decent men, it’s probably because she’s not a decent woman.

what if he dates strippers and bad girls... should she avoid him... oh god no, because a woman should be privilieged a man " dates down to her level".. thank you oh great man for doing what I shouldnt do

BWAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAH
What nice guy is going to date a stripper or a bad girl? He's going to avoid them because he knows he's going to get his ass blown out of the water. You are literally whining about a non-issue.

and if the guy who wrote this was a nice guy.. yes, she should really avoid him... because nice guys dont whine and bitch about women for years online./.. they're actually douchebags

Nah, you expect nice guys to listen to women bitch about how all the good men are taken.

Men have to listen to this shit and apologize for it all of the time. What do ya got to say to that? Nothing, of course. You're a feminist.

5) If she’s got kids and baby daddy issues? I mean, really? Must you ask me how to handle this? Start getting zip codes between you and her. As many as possible. She made a mess of her life dating bad boys and thugs, why should you volunteer to step into that toxic soup? That kind of desperation will get you hurt, badly. Throw her back, there’s plenty of other fish in the sea. If you’re a single dad, of course, then there’s a chance the two of you have something critical in common.

Never date a woman with children!!! they're damaged goods!!!!!

men who are raising kids are saints though

Once again you either have the world's worst reading skills or you make Andrew Breitbart look like an amateur at twisting people's words.

"If you’re a single dad, of course, then there’s a chance the two of you have something critical in common" literally, logically PRECLUDES "single dads are saints but single moms are damaged goods". Why would I even say they have something critical in common if she was so lowly relative to him?

You absolute fucking idiot.

because.. magic.. and ... reasons

Because... you are a deluded thief of precious oxygen.

8) The “I hate fedoras” woman. She’s a petty bigot. Not just a bigot, but a petty one. There’s one thing not to like Democrats or Republicans, but fedoras? Her petty bigotry will come back to bite you in the ass in other ways. And if she hates fedoras because it represents, in her small mind, Nice Guys? Can you say, “mentally unstable”? I thought so. See point #1.


Fedoras? Seriously?

if your headware is an intrinsic part of your personality.. you've got some serious issues

and not liking a certain style of hat is bigotry?

You people have vilified the 'fedora' as if it was a fucking Nazi Swaztika.

 

[dan_c00000]

omg this thread is hilarious

gone a few weeks and I nearly missed out on this comedy gold

seriously

LJ's "advice" isn't actually advice either. It's just whining on the internet about women.

https://icecreaminpakistan.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/valenti-mocking-men.jpg

 

[duranman]

This is bollocks- let's talk facts. Unless she's black, she will always choose a handsome tall white dude, preferably with a good physique, sense of humour and a good big twanger that know what it's doing. If he has money it really is a fantastic bonus, as it shows he invariably has a good brain and she wont have to work.

Any other choice is a huge compromise, fact. But how many women are that gorgeous to hit the jackpot like that?....

 

[Palamino19]

There are real world difficulties for relationships that cross socio-economic boundaries, education level boundaries, etc. If you simply don't have many of the same interests, it might not be a great plan to date.

There are also people who had a bad relationship, and years later, don't think of the person they were in it with as the devil.

Everyone fucks up relationships at some point. Doormats do it by choosing to do nothing, misogynists do it by whining, cheaters do it by cheating. It's a learning curve. It's not feminists. I do not know a single person whose relationship ended because feminism. I know guys who claim it, after complaining about everything but feminism that were real causes, perhaps omitting the most embarrassing causes, or the ones they don't know about.

And there's a plethora of guys who aren't dating down because they are egalitarian, but because they are not choosing a person, they are choosing boobies or an image.

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

There are real world difficulties for relationships that cross socio-economic boundaries, education level boundaries, etc. If you simply don't have many of the same interests, it might not be a great plan to date.

There are also people who had a bad relationship, and years later, don't think of the person they were in it with as the devil.

Everyone fucks up relationships at some point. Doormats do it by choosing to do nothing, misogynists do it by whining, cheaters do it by cheating. It's a learning curve. It's not feminists. I do not know a single person whose relationship ended because feminism. I know guys who claim it, after complaining about everything but feminism that were real causes, perhaps omitting the most embarrassing causes, or the ones they don't know about.

Feminists are a part of the cause. They're not the only cause. Shit, they're as much a cause of bad relationships as Conservatism: one preaches fear of men, the other wants to oppress women.

And there's a plethora of guys who aren't dating down because they are egalitarian, but because they are not choosing a person, they are choosing boobies or an image.

Ah, so that's why so many fat and small-chested women are also having no problems finding guys to date?

However it is an equally fatal error to judge women by their looks. A fat women who goes dutch on a date is worth forty big chested hot babes who demand that he pays. (To badbabysitter: this would be, like, the 5000th time I've said that on here.)

 

[Palamino19]

Sorry, not one relationship I can think of ended because of feminism. In my entire life, among all the people I've known.

People not taking care of their shit, or being in a relationship with someone who thinks they're ready to settle down when they aren't(which often is a good sign the person who thinks they're ready isn't, considering they are picking people who aren't), or because one or both are basically children, even if they're well past adulthood, or because they really want a parent for themselves(see people not taking care of their shit, above), or because they marry an image in their head and ignore the person in front of them.

Same shit that's ended relationships for centuries.

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

Sorry, not one relationship I can think of ended because of feminism. In my entire life, among all the people I've known.

Of course, you've seen them all, right?

People not taking care of their shit, or being in a relationship with someone who thinks they're ready to settle down when they aren't(which often is a good sign the person who thinks they're ready isn't, considering they are picking people who aren't), or because one or both are basically children, even if they're well past adulthood, or because they really want a parent for themselves(see people not taking care of their shit, above), or because they marry an image in their head and ignore the person in front of them.

Same shit that's ended relationships for centuries.

Or because they never loved that person to begin with and just wanted to get that endgame payoff (alimony) and take the kids and score child support, too. But you never saw this so it never happens.

Anyone want to gander who started the whole "mother is the default parent" (Tender Years Doctrine) thing in that equation? Caroline Norton, a feminist. This turned into a huge gold mine for women.

Also another thing you didn't mention was men who divorce women because they got too old.

 

[Palamino19]

Or because they never loved that person to begin with and just wanted to get that endgame payoff (alimony) and take the kids and score child support, too. But you never saw this so it never happens.

Yeah, child support. That goldmine that is constantly not paying dividends, unless it's a rich woman who married a rich man, much the same as before feminism, when they lived separate lives but, for fear of insulting her family or scandal, the husband allowed for stipends.

And I'm pretty sure you know that most women are not having their first kid with a man with the intent of getting child support, but I know that, while you discount my anecdotal evidence, you love your own like a chronic masturbator loves cheap lotion in a pump.

Anyone want to gander who started the whole "mother is the default parent" (Tender Years Doctrine) thing in that equation? Caroline Norton, a feminist. This turned into a huge gold mine for women.

Dream on. Most child support doesn't even cover the child. And this still does not explain how feminism caused the relationship to end. Probably one of the reasons I listed above, on one person's part or the other.

Also another thing you didn't mention was men who divorce women because they got too old.

Which has shit all to do with feminism ending the relationship, yet again.

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

Yeah, child support. That goldmine that is constantly not paying dividends, unless it's a rich woman who married a rich man, much the same as before feminism, when they lived separate lives but, for fear of insulting her family or scandal, the husband allowed for stipends.

And I'm pretty sure you know that most women are not having their first kid with a man with the intent of getting child support, but I know that, while you discount my anecdotal evidence, you love your own like a chronic masturbator loves cheap lotion in a pump.

I didn't discount your anecdotal evidence; I said that there's more going on out there than your evidence shows. That is why I brought up men dumping their wives for getting old - not because FEMINISM, but because it's something big that is not in your anecdotal evidence set.

Dream on. Most child support doesn't even cover the child. And this still does not explain how feminism caused the relationship to end. Probably one of the reasons I listed above, on one person's part or the other.

You didn't list greed. And where do you even get the idea that child support doesn't cover the child?

Basically your evidence set for why relationships end did not account for greed (and in the case of parental alienation syndrome, raw fucking spite), nor did it account for the issue of a woman getting old and her husband losing his mind and deciding he wanted to get a young hot babe. If your life experience evidence set missed that... you have missed a whole hell of a lot.

BTW I notice you didn't even talk about alimony... feminism hugely inspired alimony gold rushes as of the 1950s. Before that, not so much.

 

[dan_c00000]

I didn't discount your anecdotal evidence; I said that there's more going on out there than your evidence shows.

What does your evidence show? In all of the threads you've posted on your bullshit topic not once have you shown ANY evidence -anecdotal or otherwise- that what you say is anything other than what comes out your ass or your hero Paul Elam's.

You never mention specifics like how alimony laws can are changed to favor men. Or how there's a rise, according to one legal group, in men receiving alimony payments.

Anyway, since you've got no actual evidence I'll give you an example of someone I know whose ex-husband makes a six-figure salary. He is supposed to pay about $800 in child support (for their two children) and about $350 in alimony per month. If the ex-husband earns (net) $200,000 and he's paying $12,000 in alimony and child support for the year that's 6%.

After my friend showed me her legal papers she then showed me his actual payments: $500 for 6 months. How did he do this? He claimed he didn't have any money because he created a whole bunch of offshore accounts and trusts to hide his money from her.

The point of this story, as it always is with you LJ, is that you're a piece of shit who can't get a date and should stop complaining about it on the internet.

 

[Palamino19]

You didn't list greed. And where do you even get the idea that child support doesn't cover the child?

From the fact that the amount paid almost never covers the costs it is intended for.

Basically your evidence set for why relationships end did not account for greed (and in the case of parental alienation syndrome, raw fucking spite)

Parental alienation syndrome is almost always in the aftermath of the breakup, not the cause, so there would be no reason to list it in the causes of breakups.

nor did it account for the issue of a woman getting old and her husband losing his mind and deciding he wanted to get a young hot babe. If your life experience evidence set missed that... you have missed a whole hell of a lot.

Or maybe I felt any reasonable reader would note the implied 'etc.' And the 'image in their head' subgroup most certainly covers men who want a young women, and the disastrous relationship choices they make.

BTW I notice you didn't even talk about alimony... feminism hugely inspired alimony gold rushes as of the 1950s. Before that, not so much.

Gold rushes? You vastly overstate the alimony the majority of women receive. And alimony, by definition, is post breakup. Aside from a tiny subset that actually want just their mates money, which, by the way, far predates feminism, the vast majority of women have more access to their mate's money if they are still together.

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

From the fact that the amount paid almost never covers the costs it is intended for.

Where do you even get this from?

Parental alienation syndrome is almost always in the aftermath of the breakup, not the cause, so there would be no reason to list it in the causes of breakups.

The allegations that the divorcing parent makes pertains to things that happened
a) before
b) after
the breakup?

In other words, that scam was planned out long before the breakup.

Or maybe I felt any reasonable reader would note the implied 'etc.' And the 'image in their head' subgroup most certainly covers men who want a young women, and the disastrous relationship choices they make.

But etc doesn't cover feminism at all because reasons?

Gold rushes? You vastly overstate the alimony the majority of women receive. And alimony, by definition, is post breakup. Aside from a tiny subset that actually want just their mates money, which, by the way, far predates feminism, the vast majority of women have more access to their mate's money if they are still together.

If alimony gave the woman less than she got by staying with him then... well... she'd stay with him.

Tell ya what, if I were one of those women and I could get the house, the car and the kids, I'd call it a gold rush.

Fact is, she calculated that alimony thing long before she filed for divorce... and women file for divorce almost 70% of the time.

But nowadays women are paying alimony, too. That painful feeling of modern feminism biting them squarely on the ass...

So, what about the fact that so many women can't even find a man now because they won't date men below their socioeconomic level? Whose fault do you think that is?

 

[mark_j]

That's funny.

I only have a couple lowly BS's and I think the educated are by far the most pompous full of themselves arrogant fart sniffers I've ever met. They REALLY think they are better human beings on a whole variety of levels.

At least in the bay area, maybe it's just Stanford/Berkeley crowd. Because unless your an alum then you're shit on their shoes at best. Unless minority, then they mock you with faux pity.



That's pretty much all there is to it.

Not just the Stanford/Berkley crowd... Some of the Bellevue-Redmond (Microsofties) around Seattle are pretty bad.. Now you have add in the Amazon engineers as well..

 

[badbabysitter]

Great hyperbole there. All I said is these inflexible getting exploited by men who know these women can't find the men they want

the guy that told me castration is feminist command..is accusing me of hyperbole

and multiple articles out there are pointing this out

The media is declaring that there is a man shortage, you idiot.

and we must always believe everything in the media... like how Emma Watson was secretly in with that hacking group right

This 'man shortage' is entirely caused by the very women who are whining their asses off about it.

Do you deny any of this?

Yes... the article was about women not wanting to date stupid men.. which there clearly is an abundance of.. you want to rectify this? then get more men into secondary education

but noooo..can't do that.. a woman is always to blame

I never said all. Typical feminist, you've got to make shit up to uphold your non-point.

like castration being a feminist command, Emma Watson in cahoots with a hacking group, posting completely fabricated tweets about Jessica Valenti...

Because 68% of them are initiated by women.



And men aren't doing any service by dating down... they're more tolerant of a mate's faults.

so you're saying divorcing someone because they're a piece of shit is a bad thing..

what's smarter.. staying with someone that makes you miserable..or leaving them

are you trying to blame women for being the ones the apparently have the good sense to leave a shitty marriage?

why not be mad at the men who are staying in shitty marriages


but you didnt mention them

thusly.. a woman is always to blame

But that's true of any animal species. THAT part is biology. That's not saying all women are pathetic or men are doing women a service/favor/whatever your feverish nightmares tell you. Some women - the women who don't whine about the 'man shortage' - have no problem dating down. In fact they don't even call it dating down.

Most women don't bitch about the man shortage.. I have lots of single female friends.. and honestly, I dont hear them bitching all that much

media on the other hand wants to sensationalize a minority.. and being the mindless drone you are.. you gobble it all up

If you actually READ my (admittedly, long) post about desirable and undesirable women, you would have seen that I said men should look for women who overcome those hypergamic biological urges. But that doesn't fit in with your panic-mongering "teh oppressed wimmens" narrative, now does it?

because most women don't.. you're pandering to a minority of men about a minority of women because the media told you to

congrats sheep

You were saying - oh yeah and I posted this here, too.


I'm guessing that you totally do not understand why I take a steaming shit all over traditional conservatism.

except when you agree with them wholeheartedly

That's hypogamy. You really need to stop and study the meaning of words before you stick your nose into a conversation.

I'm soooooooooooooooo glad you said that


from Meriam Webster

hypergamy
noun hy·per·ga·my \hī-ˈpər-gə-mē\
plural hy·per·ga·mies
Definition of HYPERGAMY
: marriage into an equal or higher caste or social group


from oxford dictionary

hypergamy
Line breaks: hyper|gamy
Pronunciation: /hʌɪˈpəːɡəmi/
Definition of hypergamy in English:
noun
[mass noun]
The action of marrying a person of a superior caste or class.
Example sentences
Origin

Late 19th century: from hyper- 'above' + Greek gamos 'marriage'.




as for hypogamy

from websters meriam

hypogamy
noun hy·pog·a·my \hīˈpägəmē, hə̇ˈ-\
plural
Definition of HYPOGAMY
: marriage into a lower caste, class, or social group


well, you get the idea.. and the idea is

http://static1.squarespace.com/static/537e0722e4b0c3338dfc5521/t/53dd4a9ae4b01c361c9810b4/1407011496490/question-31842991.jpeg

Oh and have you ever heard of a thing called the cougar craze?

yes, and there's a whole niche of porn dedicated to it....now if you watch, well, literally anything else in porn and it's older men and younger women...hmmmm..wonder why that is

What nice guy is going to date a stripper or a bad girl? He's going to avoid them because he knows he's going to get his ass blown out of the water. You are literally whining about a non-issue.

wait a second...you're saying nice guys should avoid dating women who take thier clothes off.. because...why?


what makes an exotic dancer somehow removed from the huiman race that they wouldnt date a nice person

please, I'm dying to hear your wisdom

Nah, you expect nice guys to listen to women bitch about how all the good men are taken.

dude, I get that from women friends..jesus fuck man.. and right now I'm hearing you do the same to a bunch of guys

I expect my friends to listen to me gripe.. the guys you're talking about only want to fuck their friends... this by default makes them douchebags, not nice guys or friends

you do know you can have a friendship with a woman without sticking your dick in them , right?

no, wait.. dont answer

Men have to listen to this shit and apologize for it all of the time. What do ya got to say to that? Nothing, of course. You're a feminist.

I listen to it all the time from women.. they're called my friends

if you had any friends, you might hear the same

Once again you either have the world's worst reading skills or you make Andrew Breitbart look like an amateur at twisting people's words.

you mean Breitbart, the site that is one of the last defenders of Gamergate?

"If you’re a single dad, of course, then there’s a chance the two of you have something critical in common" literally, logically PRECLUDES "single dads are saints but single moms are damaged goods". Why would I even say they have something critical in common if she was so lowly relative to him?

a chance?

oh thank you kind sir for giving me a chance


but you should still avoid them, right

you stay classy

You absolute fucking idiot.

Because... you are a deluded thief of precious oxygen.


You people have vilified the 'fedora' as if it was a fucking Nazi Swaztika.

" You people"?

you just used that term

" You people"

I am one of them, the other.. to be ridiculed , hated, and scorned.....no sir, that's not bigotry, no sirree bob


I actually like fedoras.. my hubby has three.. and he has trillby's, a bowler, one cowboy hat he never wears, and multitude of caps


I like fedoras when they're presented right

example


this guy is doing it right

http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5056/5467125144_56b6511265_o.jpg

matching, lines, matching colour, trimmed beard, comfortable classy


this guy is doing it wrong

https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/2/2e/Jonah_Hill_-_001.jpg/450px-Jonah_Hill_-_001.jpg


yes, that is Jonah Hill.. and my god, that's a fashion nightmare

seriously.. the minute you put a fedora on a t shirt.. get the fuck out.. and the hair needs some trimming


in closing.. I dont vilify fedoras

it's the dumbasses who make fashion trainwrecks out of them I hate

 

[Porkwarrior]

I never graduated highschool, but I've been to more prom's & frosh weeks than I can count.

L J has a few valid points amongst his douchebaggery, but there are classes amongst the detritus that is the Western fallacy that is higher education.

If the faux wage gap was actually a serious issue, sociology & women's studies majors would have been quashed in the 70's.


And a fat guy in a fedora is still a fat guy in a fedora. If you've tricked your brain into thinking he's hot, I'm sure he would be happy to make you his future ex-wife.

 

[badbabysitter]

Never said he was hot.... but he was miles ahead of the other guy wearing the fedora... and the other guy is a movie star