Women are inflexible about their choice in men, and this is hurting them badly.

[LJ_Reloaded]

http://time.com/4012826/why-the-dating-game-is-rigged-against-women/

Women have been graduating from college in greater numbers than men for years, but this progress has come with a cruel and unexpected twist–a phenomenon I call “the man deficit.” In 2012, 34% more women than men graduated from college, and by 2023, the U.S. Department of Education expects female grads to outnumber male ones by 47%. As a result, there are now four college-grad women for every three college-grad men among Americans ages 22 to 29.

These numbers represent a demographic time bomb for marriage-minded women (the heterosexual ones, at least). Of course, lopsided gender ratios would not matter if college-educated Americans were more willing to marry across socioeconomic lines. But research shows that most are not. “Classism is bigger than racism in dating,” says dating coach and author Evan Marc Katz. Lopsided gender ratios alter behavior too by incentivizing men to play the field and delay marriage. Indeed, I believe that today’s college and postcollege hookup culture is largely a by-product of the oversupply of women.

The obvious solution for women is to date men below their socioeconomic level. But since their rational minds cannot overcome their biology they won't do this...

So they suffer, alone.

It's always fun to watch people suffer because of their stupid decisions. Call it schadenfreude.

 

[Penuche]

http://time.com/4012826/why-the-dating-game-is-rigged-against-women/

<snip>It's always fun to watch people suffer because of their stupid decisions. Call it schadenfreude.

Isn't it a bit draughty and echoey, living under that bridge of yours?

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

Isn't it a bit draughty and echoey, living under that bridge of yours?

You mean the bridge where I'm posting to Lit from?

Your wit is as creative and accurate as I am Lit-popular.

 

[bronzeage]

http://time.com/4012826/why-the-dating-game-is-rigged-against-women/

The obvious solution for women is to date men below their socioeconomic level. But since their rational minds cannot overcome their biology they won't do this...

So they suffer, alone.

It's always fun to watch people suffer because of their stupid decisions. Call it schadenfreude.

You are so transparent.

 

[soccermomnympho]

http://time.com/4012826/why-the-dating-game-is-rigged-against-women/

The obvious solution for women is to date men below their socioeconomic level. But since their rational minds cannot overcome their biology they won't do this...

So they suffer, alone.

It's always fun to watch people suffer because of their stupid decisions. Call it schadenfreude.

Did someone hurt you?

 

[Penuche]

You are so transparent.

Yep. Tldr of OP: Y'ain't gonna hook the alphamale billionaire so make do with me and be grateful.

You know what? I'd rather wear burn out the motor on my vibrator every day, and get friction blisters from it, than live with any man who took that attitude with me.

 

[Libsam]

LJ makes me want to become a feminist.

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

Yep. Tldr of OP: Y'ain't gonna hook the alphamale billionaire so make do with me and be grateful.

Why should any rational man ever want to be with a woman who rejects a man because he's not an alphamale billionaire?

You know what? I'd rather wear burn out the motor on my vibrator every day, and get friction blisters from it, than live with any man who took that attitude with me.

LOL!!! You're like a roach telling a homeowner that you want nothing to do with them.

If I were single, I would mail you a brand new automated fucking machine with an unbreakable motor just to show how much you just "hurt" me. I bet you're not even smart enough to realize why.

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

LJ makes me want to become a feminist.

You want to appease women who don't even give a shit about you as a person until they see your Dunn & Bradstreet Report?

Have at them, dude.

The fact that anyone on here thinks I would want to be with women like this is clear proof that you know nothing about me. I'd sooner see them replaced by sex robots, except that feminists have already risen up in a panic to try and ban sex robots before they ever hit the market.

 

[Libsam]

I'm a chick and I love the cock so....

I'm grateful for the freedoms 1st wave feminism granted me, but this modern day stuff is going too far. LJ is a perfect example, I feel sorry for his tortured soul.

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

I'm a chick and I love the cock so....

Nah, you only love his status. Otherwise you'd have a problem with this idiotic "man shortage" myth the media is pushing. Women like you are incapable of actual love.

The only tortured souls here are all those women who can't find a man on their "level". They're lonely and it's because of their own biases. And you hate me because in pointing that out, I'm endangering your privilege.

 

[DesEsseintes]

LJ, why does it bother you who women are dating? Isn't it their free choice who and why they date?

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

LJ, why does it bother you who women are dating? Isn't it their free choice who and why they date?

But isn't it also my free choice to laugh when their superficial choices leave them without anyone to date?

It's always funny to see people get hurt by their own foolishness. Even funnier when you can also get a bunch of butthurt women on Lit to start attacking you for pointing out that these women are being undone by their own actions.

But nothing is quite as hilarious as watching someone resort to the "I'd never date you" comeback as if they themselves are actually worth dating...

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

Because of the absolute feminist zealot ragefest panic inspired by theprevious edition of this post, I’ve decided to up the ante with a new edition.
While absolutely no men who read the Toxic Women blog post ever responded with “I want to date women like that”, my mistake in that post was I never explained what kind of women are actually desirable. All condemnation with no counterbalancing points about which women are in fact desirable, makes for a completely negative post.

So today, I’m fixing that.

As I said before, women have their lists of men to avoid. And it’s their right to refuse to give their time, much less access to their bodies, to men that they find desirable. What many women don’t want, however, is for men to start talking about the concept of UNDESIRABLE TRAITS IN WOMEN. Especially when those traits have nothing to do with looks. You will always find a large number of women - particularly radical feminist zealots - who get their panties in a knot when men post lists of undesirable women. Keep in mind that the women are offended by lists like this, are offended because they’re one of the lowlifes on this list.

Unfortunately for these women, consent culture goes both ways. A man has every right to refuse to associate with, much less date or spend money on women who are toxic. That is, women with bigoted, entitled or otherwise crappy attitudes. A man has a duty to channel his courtship efforts away from these kinds of women, toward better, more well-adjusted women with egalitarian attitudes about relationships and courtship. Men should also spend more time expressing what kind of woman they are looking for. What men should not ever have to do is feel afraid to express what personality traits they are attracted to… or repulsed by.

Make no mistake, this is not about getting revenge against low quality women. This is about something better - it is about removing them from your life, and finding better women to associate with instead.

The women who have a problem with this post, are exactly the low-lifes who stand to lose out if men wake up and realize they can have better in life.

1) If she makes fun of men’s rights groups and doesn’t distinguish between the idiots who send death threats to women and those of us who simply air our grievances… avoid her at all costs. Consign this woman to genetic oblivion. Kick her out of the gene pool… or, at least, your side of the pool. Men’s rights groups don’t get discussed very often, at least not YET, but perhaps you should hold off in favor of a woman who takes less of an irrational and bigoted attitude toward the subject.

2) Any woman who laughs at violence against men on television… RUN LIKE HELL!!! Thanks to Ronald Reagan it’s no longer possible to commit people like this to insane asylums so the best you can do is get as many zip codes between you and her as possible. This woman sees violence against men as a trivial issue and is likely to become an abuser herself. You don’t want any part of that experience. On the other hand if you meet a woman who sees Saturday Night Live making fun of Tiger Woods being beaten by his wife and asks you to change the channel because it’s disgusting… date her, if you can.

3) Ask a date about going dutch. If it turns her off, throw that fish back in the sea! Okay so you lose a date, so what? Do you really want to sacrifice your dignity to date an entitled little princess who feels her companionship is worth more than yours? See #10 for more on this, and also see #12 for how bad things can really go for you if you ignore this particular piece of advice. Look for women with an attitude like this instead.

4) If she dates thugs and bad boys, RUN!!! If she has a reputation of ignoring nice guys, then, once again, RUN!!! Stop pursuing her. Seriously. Need I explain why? Look instead for women who actually prefer decent men. If she says there are no decent men… again, RUN!!! Clue: If she can’t find any decent men, it’s probably because she’s not a decent woman.

5) If she’s got kids and baby daddy issues? I mean, really? Must you ask me how to handle this? Start getting zip codes between you and her. As many as possible. She made a mess of her life dating bad boys and thugs, why should you volunteer to step into that toxic soup? That kind of desperation will get you hurt, badly. Throw her back, there’s plenty of other fish in the sea. If you’re a single dad, of course, then there’s a chance the two of you have something critical in common.

6) The “Men just date bitches” chick. I mean, she hasn’t noticed you, and you don’t date bitches. Obviously she’s not very observant. Trust me, this self-unaware, mentally blind woman is going to be an albatross around your neck in so many various and incompetent ways. Same goes with the “there aren’t any nice guys around” idiot child type of woman: See #4. And also see this wonderful advice from a woman.

7) The chick who cries on your shoulder about her boyfriend. Jeez, so many nice guys get suckered by this. She’s another form of emotional vampire. She’s got girlfriends to go cry to. WTF. You know all that time you spent listening to her whine? You could have been using that time to go find yourself a real, mentally balanced woman. Your time is better off spent looking for a woman who knows how to ditch - or perhaps even avoid sbusive men - rather than cry to you about them. If you feel bad about cutting off a woman like this… at least don’t let her wake you up at 2am in the morning about it. And limit her crying time to 30 minutes. Or tell her what any woman would tell you in this situation: GET PROFESSIONAL HELP.

8) The “I hate fedoras” woman. She’s a petty bigot. Not just a bigot, but a petty one. There’s one thing not to like Democrats or Republicans, but fedoras? Her petty bigotry will come back to bite you in the ass in other ways. And if she hates fedoras because it represents, in her small mind, Nice Guys? Can you say, “mentally unstable”? I thought so. See point #1.

9) The “Nice Guys are doormats” or “don’t be a doormat” chick. Usually advises you that if you want to meet a woman, you should not be a doormat. Perhaps this is true. But what is also true is that this woman is unable to comprehend the concept that perhaps being a so-called doormat IS NOT AN EXCUSE FOR ABUSE!!!!!!!!! When a woman says this, she is engaging in victim-blaming. The whole existence of the word “Doormat” is part of why the world can’t have ever seem to keep good things around for long. Note: same goes for guys who give this advice to “doormat” girls.

10) If your female acquaintance says she expects men to have the confidence to approach her, PUT HER IN THE FRIEND ZONE and never, ever let her out. Women who expect men to do all the work are self-entitled brats and you will forever be struggling to keep the fire going with her. These women’s sense of entitlement typically grows as the relationship wears on, and their odds of cheating on you also go up with time. Like I said, keep her in the friend zone. Look instead for a woman who is willing to take risks just like you do, and make the first move sometimes. Also see #3.

11) Women who use dates for free meals. It pays to do some research to know if a woman has a habit of doing this. Aaaaand this is yet another reason why going dutch is a good idea. Not all women who don’t go dutch are like this, but how can you know? This craven blood-sucking vampire is among the worst, at least when measured by sheer shameless premeditation. And she can be quite an expensive vampire, too.

12) Shamers. These are among the worst harpies of all - and foolish is the man who gets with such a cretin. You’ve seen the type - women who accuse guys of being short, less than masculine, poor, and of course there’s the “you can’t get laid!” insult. Definitely stay away from this type! They will turn on you as soon as you fall from whatever hypergamic pedestal they’ve put you on. What’s funnier is that women like this expect men to overlook their shortcomings… which are often legion. Treat her like she’s got the Plague. And very quietly excuse yourself from her presence. Matter of fact, if you can fake your own death so she forgets about you, all the better.

One caveat in all of this:
If she says she’s a feminist, don’t automatically bolt for the door.You will likely be wise to, mind you, but some self-proclaimed feminists are actually egalitarians. It happens. I’ve seen them personally and they’re out there, the problem is that they’re not brandishing their egalitarianism with the loudmouthed style employed by the bigots and misandrists who claim to be feminists. Every now and then you might run into a feminist who issympathetic toward the plight of men. (Note: the examples listed are not single women to be pursued; they merely represent examples of egalitarian feminism that exists in reality.)

Now, before I talk about the desirable women that men should pursue, STOP. First you want to get the negative women out of your life. Their presence and physical/emotional proximity has created negative energy in your life - resentment, hostility, revulsion, and most of all, defensiveness. Get these women out of your life and prepare to move onto a new state of existence: the state of mind where you are looking for Ms. Right, not fleeing from Ms. Horrible.

This transition is likely to take you a while. Hours, days, weeks, months, it all depends. Prepare to spend those nights not getting laid or going on dates.Consider it the psychological version of detox. But do not consider it to end with your total purification. All humans have a bitch bone or two. The goal during this psychological purge process is to reduce that to a minimum, so that the next woman you meet, you can approach her with curiosity such as “What will she turn out to be like?” rather than “Is she one of those women?”

Only when you get to that point will you be ready to pursue women with the positive traits that make for a healthy relationship:

1) I already talked about the egalitarian ladies. If you find yourself taking turns holding doors for each other then she might be an egalitarian. If she offers to go dutch then you also may have a winner. If she asks you out first then you do have a winner. If you’re unemployed at the time and she says it’s no problem and starts talking about how bad the economy is, then a winner is definitely she. If she tries to help you get a job then she’s a space alien princess and a winner is you. If you feel the urge to do the work to woo a lady, then women like this should be the very highest on your list. Otherwise you would be hard pressed to find a better friend than her, all other things being equal.

2) The seducer. NOTE: she usually finds you before you find her. If she came up to you offering you drinks, then you might be talking to a seducer. Some men are scared of women like this and that’s a crying shame. Other men (often playboys themselves) are downright foolish and assume she’s a sleep-around slut. Don’t be that kind of idiot. Do not fall for someone trying to convince you into being that kind of idiot. (And it doesn’t matter whether she’s experienced or a virgin… use protection.)

3) The comforter, aka Miss Sympathetic or Empathetic. When you’re down, she’s there for you. I don’t even have to explain the value of the friendship, much less the love, of a woman like this. If you meet a woman who can empathize with men’s issues, at least compliment her on her open mindedness. Ladies like this come under fire a lot from other women. If you see someone like this posting online, stop what you’re doing and at least send her a polite thank-you or word of support before moving on. Take just a moment to feed positive energy and encouragement to an enlightened woman.

4) A woman with a positive attitude. This is not to say a woman can’t be allowed to have a bitch moment or a few downer issues. (Same rule applies to her as apply to you!) But you know there’s a level of paranoia that just goes too far. Ms Right doesn’t have that. She’s friendly and talkative, and actually interested in what you have to say. Mind your manners and don’t take this for sexual interest, of course. You at least want a woman like this for a friend.

5) Miss Got-Your-Back. When the shit hits the fan, and some jackass is harassing your woman, would it not be pathetic for you to stand by and let her handle her own business? Of course. So you know where this is going. If she’s the kind of woman who is at your side in a shitstorm, yeah, get with her if you can.

6) Low maintenance women. You know the type - independent but also a cheap date. If you find yourself paying her way, but she chooses a real cheap place, then yeah, the good cancels out the bad. If she says fuck it, let’s cook at home, then for God’s sake, man, look up a good meal recipe or at least help her out if she’s cooking. I can give you a few seasonally appropriate ideas for cheap but attractive dinners if you need. Low maintenance women are more likely to be egalitarian women.

7) And if you ever encounter a woman like this then you are probably dealing with a visitor from another planet. Please be very nice to her because the species she represents is very far ahead of ours and they may be deciding whether to trade with us, uplift us, or exterminate us. (I am, of course, kidding… well, kinda. With a woman like that, you never know.)

The cold, hard reality of male-female relations nowadays is that so many women are self-entitled, overbearing and unsympathetic jerks for one basic reason: because men are so desperate that they will date a woman no matter how much of a jerk she is. Women of today act like men owe them something and many men comply because they are desperate to be with a woman.

Millions of years of evolution has ingrained this entitlement into humanity to the point where it’s hard-wired. Thus, it will take a great deal of willpower to stop feeding the egos of these self-entitled women. You will be confronted with thoughts of desperation - such as, if you refuse to tolerate this woman, will you ever meet anyone else? What will other women say if you make a stand for your right to freedom of choice? And what other alternatives do you have except for women like these? Most importantly… how will you get laid tonight if you refuse to tolerate her bullshit?

The answers to that are not easy. It may be a long time before you meet a good quality woman. You may get piss and vinegar sprayed your way by other women if you ever explain why you’re distancing yourself from the low-lifes of the world. Worst yet? You probably won’t be getting laid tonight.
But when millions of men make use of their power to choose who they date and associate with, they can force women to change their attitudes. Men are doing it in Japan right now; and even in Western nations, you’ll be amazed at how quickly women change their tunes when they hit their 30s and find that they’re no longer desirable.

What men need is a revolution - a nonviolent, and mostly quiet one. Self-entitled women don’t even have to know why they’re being rejected. You have a right to say NO!!! without saying a word. Even if they find this Tumblr post they can’t prove that this is why they can’t find a man. You don’t have to say a word, and that is the beauty of it. Just quietly steer clear of these women and let Darwin quietly do his work. This nonviolent revolution is entirely about you withdrawing consent to put up with toxic women. It is all about you channeling that energy - your efforts and your precious time - to pursuing the companionship of egalitarian women who understand the true meaning of equality and respect for all human dignity, not just that of women. Women will get your point when they see what kind of women you do choose to date and associate with.

You owe it to yourself to shun low quality women and spend your time and energy pursuing someone better.
See more here:
12 Types Of Women You Should Date
Toxic Women and the 12 to Avoid
Toxic Women by Carolyn Bushong

Also see:
For Men: Don’t be THIS Kinda Guy (10 Types of Men You Should NOT Be Like)

 

[Libsam]

It's global, cultural marxism that I hate.

My anti-feminism runs a little deeper than your superficial hate of women.

I think modern feminism is culturally destructive and is now being used to intentionally destroy the family unit's moral fabric.

Fun fact: the American women's liberation movement got co-opted by big business and big government from the start. Ever heard of Bernay's "torches of freedom"? Yeah, good job ladies, you increased the wealth of some already really rich men with that stunt, and government didn't mind the extra tax revenue either.

Women entering the workforce? Well, that just broadened the labor pool which lowered wages for big business and also generated more tax dollars for big government, with the added bonus of the state raising our children.

Oh, and the man shortage myth you mentioned, I see that as an excuse to import more immigrants.

Anyways, hopefully you don't really hate women, you've just fallen prey to an unintended (but still beneficial) consequence of feminism.

 

[someoneyouknow]

I hate to agree with LJ, but there is a bit of truth to this. In the past I have personally seen women, some women, who adamantly refuse to date anyone below a certain level either economically or physically. Or both.

I have read dating ads where the women lay out who they are looking for and nothing less. This isn't a bad thing, stating clearly what you want, but when you're not getting results, as the saying goes, the problem isn't with everyone else, the problem is you.

Somewhere else on here I made the comment that for all anyone knows I'm a multi-millionaire who's hung like a horse. However, because absolutely no one sends me a pm, there's no way to know.*

The same in real life. Because I'm not what the vast majority of women would consider to be attractive, for various reasons, they ignore me. Which is fine. We can't be everything to everyone.

At the same time I routinely hear women complain they can't find a guy and oddly enough, these are the same women who have a checklist of must haves.

By all means, have a list. Check the boxes. Do your research. Just don't whine when your list is holding you back.


* As I like to say, if you didn't want to talk to me yesterday, I don't want to talk to you today.

 

[LadyFunkenstein]

http://time.com/4012826/why-the-dating-game-is-rigged-against-women/

The obvious solution for women is to date men below their socioeconomic level. But since their rational minds cannot overcome their biology they won't do this...

So they suffer, alone.

It's always fun to watch people suffer because of their stupid decisions. Call it schadenfreude.

No one's rational mind overcomes biology.

 

[LadyFunkenstein]

I hate to agree with LJ, but there is a bit of truth to this. In the past I have personally seen women, some women, who adamantly refuse to date anyone below a certain level either economically or physically. Or both.

I have read dating ads where the women lay out who they are looking for and nothing less. This isn't a bad thing, stating clearly what you want, but when you're not getting results, as the saying goes, the problem isn't with everyone else, the problem is you.

Somewhere else on here I made the comment that for all anyone knows I'm a multi-millionaire who's hung like a horse. However, because absolutely no one sends me a pm, there's no way to know.*

The same in real life. Because I'm not what the vast majority of women would consider to be attractive, for various reasons, they ignore me. Which is fine. We can't be everything to everyone.

At the same time I routinely hear women complain they can't find a guy and oddly enough, these are the same women who have a checklist of must haves.

By all means, have a list. Check the boxes. Do your research. Just don't whine when your list is holding you back.


* As I like to say, if you didn't want to talk to me yesterday, I don't want to talk to you today.

I believe this happens because women's income/achievement increased at a far greater pace than decreasing the evolutionary need to value men's worth as providers and protectors. That is why professional women shun average looking blue collar men, even though those guys are likely a perfect match.

 

[dan_c00000]

It's always fun to watch people suffer because of their stupid decisions. Call it schadenfreude.

Now you know how everyone feels about you.

I'm sure the ladies are just knocking down your door, right LJ? Or have you been in mourning over your hero Paul Elam's shitty site going down the crapper?

 

[Libsam]

Hey, Lady Funk!

I was just watching a video of Germaine Greer (was highly regarded within the feminist sphere) talking about how transgender men are not women and are actually exhibiting misogynistic behavior.

Gloria Steinem used to think that way too, but changed her tune after those views hurt her cash flow.

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

I hate to agree with LJ, but there is a bit of truth to this. In the past I have personally seen women, some women, who adamantly refuse to date anyone below a certain level either economically or physically. Or both.

I have read dating ads where the women lay out who they are looking for and nothing less. This isn't a bad thing, stating clearly what you want, but when you're not getting results, as the saying goes, the problem isn't with everyone else, the problem is you.

Somewhere else on here I made the comment that for all anyone knows I'm a multi-millionaire who's hung like a horse. However, because absolutely no one sends me a pm, there's no way to know.*

The same in real life. Because I'm not what the vast majority of women would consider to be attractive, for various reasons, they ignore me. Which is fine. We can't be everything to everyone.

At the same time I routinely hear women complain they can't find a guy and oddly enough, these are the same women who have a checklist of must haves.

By all means, have a list. Check the boxes. Do your research. Just don't whine when your list is holding you back.


* As I like to say, if you didn't want to talk to me yesterday, I don't want to talk to you today.

Bingo!!!

If she looked down at you when you were a blue collar dude but she looks at you when your economic status rises to white collar

In the words of Papa Pope
RUN, OLLIE, RUN!!!

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

It's global, cultural marxism that I hate.

My anti-feminism runs a little deeper than your superficial hate of women.

I hate women like you. Not all women. But your ego is so fragile that you can't see that.

Women entering the workforce? Well, that just broadened the labor pool which lowered wages for big business and also generated more tax dollars for big government, with the added bonus of the state raising our children.

Wait, the problem with our economy is more women entering the workforce? And you have the nerve to accuse me of hating women?

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

No one's rational mind overcomes biology.

Sure they do. In fact, human civilization is built largely upon our ability to overcome biological urges. That's why we've got the US Constitution rather than the raw edict of Emperors and Kings.

In this situation, though, the rational woman sees a virtual man shortage due to her biological urges and re-thinks her life. Bam, more men are suddenly available to her. But no woman is desirable who sees lower status men as a lowly consolation prize or at best a backup plan. Men are fools who accept relationships with women like that.

 

[dan_c00000]

I hate women like you.

Hate to break it to you but your pencil dicked MRAs do hate all women. Probably one of the (many) reason(s) you're on the internet complaining about them.

 

[Libsam]

Wait, the problem with our economy is more women entering the workforce?

I never said that, but good job with the reductio ad absurdum.