Humiliation?

Humiliation can be a gift

A long time ago, when I was starting to see that I was more lesbian than bi, I lwas waiting for my friend to meet me at the mall.
I admired big busted sexy babes walking by, not knowing my friend was watching me. She approached where I was sitting and said loud enough that a woman nearby heard her. She told me that I would be spanked later because I looked at other women.
When I protested that I was only watching for her to arrive, it only made things worse.
Her: "OK, guess I'm going to have to get the enema bag out when we leave here and spank you while you hold a 3H."
I asked "What is that?"
Her: It's high, hot and a helluva lot! You need to have one to teach you not to focus on any woman but me when we are together,understand?"
I just shrugged my shoulders, not seeing that she wanted me for her own in all ways.
"Ok, I am going to teach you a lesson for your own good; go into the restroom over there and take off your panties and bring them to me. We are going back to my place NOW and I am going to finger you all the way there. Understand?"
I nodded and headed for the restroom. The woman who overheard her smiled slyly then went back to reading her magazine.
When I came back, panties in my purse, she said in a low voice "You don't know how lucky you are".
I didn't realize until later how wonderful it felt to have someone care so much for me that they would want me all to themselves.
Most guys couldn't wait to get it and couldn't wait to get rid of it.
I was humiliated that my punishment was overheard and that truckers and higher vehicles could see her hand in me with my skirt lifted. I was ordered to come.
I finally did when she fisted me deep inside, first time ever for me. My sexuality was defined by times like that and I learned that demanding exclusivity was the start of a wonderful relationship.
That night there were lots of tears and begging not to fill me with that whole hot bag with twice as much soap as needed. But afterwards I thanked her and promised to be good as she let me give her the same treatment....
 
Cum-Bucket

I personally love being humiliated. Being bi has gave me the great opportunity to experience humiliation from both men and women.

One of my favorite experience I had with is a woman, was my ex-girl friend had me dressed up in a maid outfit and I had to server her and her friends she had over for a wine party. All the women treated me like a piece of meat.

One of my favorite experience experience I had with a man was being tied up to a saw horse during my friends football party. I was completely naked and my friend told all his friends they could do whatever, they wanted to me.

Increasingly, recently, I've been getting a kind-of itch to test out my extremes. I've always been into giving oral sex, that's my primary turn-on. I'm not good in social situations where I have to indulge in smart conversations, I just get bashful and tongue-tied. So what I've been conjecturing is a kind of house-party where I'm in the corner and guests of both sexes simply use my mouth and tongue as they please, and I suck anonymous cock and pussy without having to converse with them, without permission being given or granted, just used as a cum-bucket. I don't really know how to set it up, or what to do to become involved in such a scenario…?
 
Increasingly, recently, I've been getting a kind-of itch to test out my extremes. I've always been into giving oral sex, that's my primary turn-on. I'm not good in social situations where I have to indulge in smart conversations, I just get bashful and tongue-tied. So what I've been conjecturing is a kind of house-party where I'm in the corner and guests of both sexes simply use my mouth and tongue as they please, and I suck anonymous cock and pussy without having to converse with them, without permission being given or granted, just used as a cum-bucket. I don't really know how to set it up, or what to do to become involved in such a scenario…?

Do you have any friends that might want to help with your idea? I know I had a great time on the saw horse
 
humiliation

My most extreme humiliation to date was when my wonderful Mistress invited her girl friend and two male lovers to a dungeon/playroom near here and I was slave to all present. I am straight, but was ordered to suck both lovers' cocks to prepare them for the ladies. When her lover had cum in my Mistress's beautiful cunt, I was ordered to lick her clean. Then 'to wash it down' my Mistress pissed in my mouth while the others watched.

This may sound like an invented fantasy, but it really happened. I can barely believe it myself!
 
My most extreme humiliation to date was when my wonderful Mistress invited her girl friend and two male lovers to a dungeon/playroom near here and I was slave to all present. I am straight, but was ordered to suck both lovers' cocks to prepare them for the ladies. When her lover had cum in my Mistress's beautiful cunt, I was ordered to lick her clean. Then 'to wash it down' my Mistress pissed in my mouth while the others watched.

This may sound like an invented fantasy, but it really happened. I can barely believe it myself!

This does sound very much like the kind of thing I had in mind...
 
I do!!

Anyone into humiliation as their primary fetish? Don't get me wrong I love so many things, but nothing puts me over the edge like being degraded and humiliated in the most cruel and mean ways. Am I alone?

I like both being humiliated and to be the one doing the humiliation
 
Anyone into humiliation as their primary fetish? Don't get me wrong I love so many things, but nothing puts me over the edge like being degraded and humiliated in the most cruel and mean ways. Am I alone?

What really turns me on is the feeling I get from being degraded and "used". I love being impersonally treated as if I'm nothing more than an inanimate object or tool whose mouth and throat is just a warm, wet and tight hole and whose sole function is to be fucked by other men without any consideration or concern for my comfort or safety and as a convenient receptacle for them to ejaculate into. I don't want the guys fucking my mouth to enjoy being the cause of my discomfort, that would be cruel. I'd like to think that they just don't care how I feel. I'm a Cocksucker. My feelings are irrelevant.
 
What really turns me on is the feeling I get from being degraded and "used". I love being impersonallyreated as if I'm nothing more than an inanimate object or tool whose mouth and throat is just a warm, wet and tight hole and whose sole function is to be fucked by other men without any consideration or concern for my comfort or safety and as a convenient receptacle for them to ejaculate into. I don't want the guys fucking my mouth to enjoy being the cause of my discomfort, that would be cruel. I'd like to think that they just don't care how I feel. I'm a Cocksucker. My feelings are irrelevant.

Very, very well said. I feel exactly the same way. I am a meaningless object to be used and discarded. Like a towel or a toilet. LOVE it when a guy jacks off into my open mouth, wipes his cock off on my face and then says, "Get the hell out you worthless piece of shit!" Makes me walk out with his jizz still on my face. Doesn't care that people can see it.
 
Very, very well said. I feel exactly the same way. I am a meaningless object to be used and discarded. Like a towel or a toilet. LOVE it when a guy jacks off into my open mouth, wipes his cock off on my face and then says, "Get the hell out you worthless piece of shit!" Makes me walk out with his jizz still on my face. Doesn't care that people can see it.

My slant is a bit different. Being a Carpenter, I value my tools, but they don't have feelings so it's pointless to insult them. When using a hammer I'm not concerned about hurting it but I'm careful not to break it so that I can continue using it. I'm not a meaningless object but a very useful tool. I'm a Cocksucker.
 
while I’ve previously posted my experiences being a humiliated submissive, I’ve never posted my adventures being a dominant. My favorite thing to do with submissive woman is to ease their embarrassment by blindfolding them before having them perform a dozen jumping jacks nude. This always breaks them down.
 
There's definitely an element of humiliation that turns me on so much. It makes me so vulnerable that I always get wet but also feel so exposed. I can't handle the super intense humiliation because I'm just too much of a mental person and I'm super self conscious but my Dom always pushes me outside my comfort zone and he knows I need it. I'm not brave enough to go there alone but he knows what I can handle and when he needs to stop. Having that level of trust I think is vital in this situation.
 
Humiliation

I find that playing either the dominant or submissive role in humiliation is an incredible turn-on for me. One scene that especially excites me is being with another woman in the bathroom. She desperately needs to relieve herself. I permit her to sit on the toilet seat. Some time after, while she has been wriggling and even clasping her crotch to keep from letting pee out, I may permit her to lower her panties. But when she expects I will then allow her to pee, I order her to pull up her panties. She now knows she will be humiliated by having to pee in her panties. I find this is just as much a turn-on when I am put in the submissive role.:cool:
 
What really turns me on is the feeling I get from being degraded and "used". I love being impersonally treated as if I'm nothing more than an inanimate object or tool whose mouth and throat is just a warm, wet and tight hole and whose sole function is to be fucked by other men without any consideration or concern for my comfort or safety and as a convenient receptacle for them to ejaculate into. I don't want the guys fucking my mouth to enjoy being the cause of my discomfort, that would be cruel. I'd like to think that they just don't care how I feel. I'm a Cocksucker. My feelings are irrelevant.

This a million times.
 
Yes!

I love to be humiliated. My best experience is when a couple (MF) controls me. The best is when the female forces me to be their oral and anal toy. It's incredible having a cock in your mouth and hearing her say, "make him cum, honey". I can lick, suck, swallow and take it in the ass all night. Did I say that I love creampies?
Anyone in South Alabama or NW Florida that wants a willing slave, PM me.
 
It us surprisingly difficult to get a man to humiliate me. Dont know why.
 
It us surprisingly difficult to get a man to humiliate me. Dont know why.

It's worth noting that you have rather extensively documented your very high standards for what it means to be humiliated. Not every ballplayer is Babe Ruth.
 
It's worth noting that you have rather extensively documented your very high standards for what it means to be humiliated. Not every ballplayer is Babe Ruth.

High standards? Really? I dont expect Babe Ruth, I dont usually get Oliver Gumby...
 
That's my reading from your posts, yes.

And where is this 'extensively documented'? I thought my idea was to have LOW standards, not high. Or possibly, high brought down to low. But extensively documented high standards? Really?
 
Thank you Sir for your thoughtful response. You are correct, my desire is to be taken by force and subjugated against my will. I will not subjugate myself as most so called 'doms' here (really boys looking for a bj) seem to expect.

An experiences Dom knows what he wants and how to do it and can describe the process in detail. Pretenders or wannabes just say, "Ill do everything" without a clue about what to do.

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Guys ask me all the time, "Are you wet?" The answer usually is, "No, why would I be?" Guys, you wanna know how to get a girl wet? See the response above! The answer is, "Not yet but if I read that a couple more times I will be!"

Good question. Ive found most of the "doms" here are actually boys who want a bj. When asked for specifics they answer along the lines of, "Ill do everything". Not a clue.

So guys, SPECIFICALLY how would you humiliate this girl?

...or: buy remote controlled vibrating panties. Again she dresses provacitavely. Take her to a bar. She enters first, alone. You sit a couple of chairs away.

Men ask her to dance. Wait for a slow song, a guys holding her close. Turn on the vib. Watch her squirm, trying not to cum as a stranger holds her, swaying to music.

Gee, you guys are SO unimaginative!

Seriously? What are you, twelve?

No, because (in my opinion) (s)he expressed a juvenile view. But you may not gef it either; if not, no worry.

Yeah, I need it also. For so e reason guys just cant seem to pull it off. I must be meating the wrong guys. Or do they expect me to subjugate myself?

It us surprisingly difficult to get a man to humiliate me. Dont know why.




And where is this 'extensively documented'? I thought my idea was to have LOW standards, not high. Or possibly, high brought down to low. But extensively documented high standards? Really?
Just in this thread alone, the posts quoted above all suggest that you have somewhat high standards for the caliber of humiliation that appeals to you. I'm also pretty sure I've seen similar comments in other threads where the same subject comes up. This is not a bad thing, mind you, just an observation of what seems to be a pattern.
 
Anyone into humiliation as their primary fetish? Don't get me wrong I love so many things, but nothing puts me over the edge like being degraded and humiliated in the most cruel and mean ways. Am I alone?

Certainly not as a "primary fetish" (hell, I'm not even sure I have one!), but I do enjoy verbal humiliation. :)
 
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