A question for the ladies!!! 3sum// DP and men if you know how your wife thinks :-)

[dkcouple]

My fiance and I have been thinking alot about bringing other people into the bedroom and since we are trying some new things I figure it would be nice to have some opinions from people who are well versed. I ask about the DP because I told Kayla I think it would be supremely erotic to try DP with her but she thinks it is degrading and I would like her to enjoy our new experiences instead of putting labels on it and dealing with the stigmas of society. I also don't want to force her into anything but I also don't want her not trying something due to some preexisting notion of how a woman "should" act. Be free have fun!

SO.. A couple quick questions for you ladies to answer, regarding 3sums and DP

Ladies... were you ever reluctant to have a 3sum with your significant other ( MFM or FMF) but had one anyways? If so, How did you feel after? Do you regret it or glad you did it?

Second question:

If you had an MFM, Did you want to try double penetration? Was DP fun to try, did it hurt? How do you feel about it now?! If you didn't try it, Why not?


Thanks for the help!

 

[Sheana_V]

I've never been reluctant and have enjoyed all the experiences. I have enjoyed every one of them immensely.
If she doesn't like anal, she probably won't like DP, and if she does like anal she will probably love DP. As far as her concern DP can be degrading, or it can be a really female focused wonderful experience.

The best advice is to choose the right third wheel.

If she knows you're on lit she might want to read this:
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?p=54960691#post54960691

 

[MyRubiLips]

I've been in many threesomes over the years; both double-female and double-male. Never was I reluctant.

I've also enjoyed double penetration. Does your fiancée like anal sex? If not, I'm sure she'll nix the DP.

 

[dkcouple]

I've never been reluctant and have enjoyed all the experiences. I have enjoyed every one of them immensely.
If she doesn't like anal, she probably won't like DP, and if she does like anal she will probably love DP. As far as her concern DP can be degrading, or it can be a really female focused wonderful experience.

The best advice is to choose the right third wheel.

If she knows you're on lit she might want to read this:
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?p=54960691#post54960691

First off, great story I will share it with her next time we're on the subject!

She enjoys anal but we only do it a couple times a year so every time feels like the first time lol.

The other question being.... Before you had your first DP experience, was it something you wanted to try? How did your first time come about? Thanks

 

[dkcouple]

I've been in many threesomes over the years; both double-female and double-male. Never was I reluctant.

I've also enjoyed double penetration. Does your fiancée like anal sex? If not, I'm sure she'll nix the DP.

Thanks for your reply!

 

[MyRubiLips]

Sure thing. Does your fiancée like anal sex?

Thanks for your reply!

 

[RaynieJ]

I've never been reluctant with any threesome, but when its a ffm, in my personal experience anyway, Ive always had more fun being the "third wheel" so to speak. I find it more enjoyable when not in a relationship, but Ive never been reluctant to have one while in a relationship either.

As far as the DP goes... are you referring to the one in each hope type, or the 2 in one hole type? With either one, if shes open to trying it, youve got to work her up to it physically. You cant just shove them in there without a little preparation, if shes never done it before.

Theres nothing wrong with being interested in trying this stuff...but theres nothing wrong with NOT being interested either. The important thing is not to push her into it if shes not open to the idea(s), because Im certain that will result in some resentment later. Good luck!

 

[Sheana_V]

First off, great story I will share it with her next time we're on the subject!

She enjoys anal but we only do it a couple times a year so every time feels like the first time lol.

The other question being.... Before you had your first DP experience, was it something you wanted to try? How did your first time come about? Thanks

Before I tried it the first time I definitely was interested in trying it - though I was interested in trying everything.
The very first time was a drunken college party and not really a pleasant experience, but I had trouble asserted myself at that age, so that's not a huge surprise.

The second time I tried it was when I was in my first polyamorous relationship, and I basically seduced both my boyfriends at the same time the night they first met eachother. That just sort of naturally evolved, and was when I realized just how pleasant it can be.

(BTW: I recommend sticking to one in each hole - two in her pussy will probably be even more uncomfortable for her and doesn't work very well mechanically)

 

[cuckoldedhusban]

My wife doesn't generally enjoy anal by itself. But she does like being D.P'ed VERY much. But she prefers double vaginal penetration more. She really loves it. But as stated it is sometimes difficult to pull off.

 

[bunny4med]

I am curious for a 3some with another woman, but I cannot get him into it. I think he is maybe intimidated. I am not opposed to a male 3some, but it would have to someone we trust. dp with 2 cocks as opposed to the cock and dildo that I am used to would be great. the dp experience is supposed to be concentrated on the woman and her pleasure.

 

[coacheric]

My wife has a really big cum fetish. She gets so worked up when I use toys on here and tell her how each different toy is a different cock fucking her. I jerk each one as if they are cumming in her. Then I tell her how their cum is dripping out of her pussy. Almost never fails to make her squirt. We talked about going to glory holes, meeting a stranger, gangbangs. It's all talk and I don't think she would ever go thru with it tho she could surprise me and say yes sometime. We also use the toys for DP.

I've now thought about changing up the RP next time and tell her about another woman wanting to seduce her. See how she responds to that type of talk. She once text me a tail about her tying me to the bed and then having it setup that her and another woman were going to fuck me. In the tail the other woman switched the tables on her and attacked her instead. She never finished the story but it made for a hot read.

 

[rushed2536]

I have never had an actual DP, though I did suck three dicks in a room at a frat party once. One guy fucked me doggystyle while I was blowing another one. I have fantasized about that quite a few times and wished it had turned into a DP. As horny as I was, and typsy, I would have let one of them my ass no problem. Not sure I would have been ok with two in my hootie hoot though.

 

[davidlie]

what this ??

 

[ChattyAnnie]

I've been in a few threesomes but never DP. I got the feeling that the guys were reluctant to "cross swords" in such close proximity. I would like to try it sometime if I can find the right partners.

 

[dkcouple]

Sure thing. Does your fiancée like anal sex?

Yes, every once in a while

 

[zach20092]

I've been in a few threesomes but never DP. I got the feeling that the guys were reluctant to "cross swords" in such close proximity. I would like to try it sometime if I can find the right partners.

well not all guys for sure
love to cross some swords if i get the chance with you

 

[zach20092]

Before I tried it the first time I definitely was interested in trying it - though I was interested in trying everything.
The very first time was a drunken college party and not really a pleasant experience, but I had trouble asserted myself at that age, so that's not a huge surprise.

The second time I tried it was when I was in my first polyamorous relationship, and I basically seduced both my boyfriends at the same time the night they first met eachother. That just sort of naturally evolved, and was when I realized just how pleasant it can be.

(BTW: I recommend sticking to one in each hole - two in her pussy will probably be even more uncomfortable for her and doesn't work very well mechanically)

lucky bfs

 

[SquirtnBrat]

I've never been turned on by the thought of a mfm. The only dp I've experienced would be the tongue/finger or finger/penis variety, which are very sexy and make me cum everytime. The thought of a dp in one hole.... .... if I were to ever experience either I would hope it wasn't with my S.O. Then I could keep my kinky secret and save myself from possible judgement.

 

[dkcouple]

I've never been reluctant with any threesome, but when its a ffm, in my personal experience anyway, Ive always had more fun being the "third wheel" so to speak. I find it more enjoyable when not in a relationship, but Ive never been reluctant to have one while in a relationship either.

As far as the DP goes... are you referring to the one in each hope type, or the 2 in one hole type? With either one, if shes open to trying it, youve got to work her up to it physically. You cant just shove them in there without a little preparation, if shes never done it before.

Theres nothing wrong with being interested in trying this stuff...but theres nothing wrong with NOT being interested either. The important thing is not to push her into it if shes not open to the idea(s), because Im certain that will result in some resentment later. Good luck!

One in each hole, not double vag...I'm 99% sure that is something she would not enjoy and wouldn't want to try unless she had the idea herself. She loves to try new things in bed, We have had alot of first's together and all have been things that she has ended up enjoying time and time agin. I certainly don't want to force her into anything that she feels strongly about not doing but I have a strong suspicion that if she puts the "degrading" feelings aside and gives it a chance she will enjoy it immensely.

 

[dkcouple]

I've never been turned on by the thought of a mfm. The only dp I've experienced would be the tongue/finger or finger/penis variety, which are very sexy and make me cum everytime. The thought of a dp in one hole.... .... if I were to ever experience either I would hope it wasn't with my S.O. Then I could keep my kinky secret and save myself from possible judgement.

Doing this with my fiance is the biggest turn on about an FMF MFM or DP. Being able to share experiences with her and see her receiving all the pleasure is the most fulfilling part! No judgement for her, This is a learning experience for the both of us

 

[BiTodd]

I've been in a few threesomes but never DP. I got the feeling that the guys were reluctant to "cross swords" in such close proximity. I would like to try it sometime if I can find the right partners.

I am a flagrant sword crosser.

 

[dkcouple]

I think I did a bad job of getting my point across. I was looking for women who were unsure about having an MFM and or trying double penetration before it happened, and after they experienced it...How did you feel about it? I want to hear from someone who was once in our shoes, as great as your feedback and stories have been so far. Its nothing that we can relate to our situation.

 

[Sheana_V]

I think I did a bad job of getting my point across. I was looking for women who were unsure about having an MFM and or trying double penetration before it happened, and after they experienced it...How did you feel about it? I want to hear from someone who was once in our shoes, as great as your feedback and stories have been so far. Its nothing that we can relate to our situation.

Well there's a bit of a rub. It'll probably work best if she takes the lead. I'd just start with arranging mmf and see if dp evolves from that by her own lead.