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[All_4_Love]

Oh...and don't piss me off...my kids learned at a very young age that when Mom said "fuck".......heads were going to roll....

Haha! I've tried this on my kids. Their response is usually to laugh at me because they say I'm "trying" to be mad. I've shown them a few times just what a spitfire their mama can be. They seriously thought I was crazy. Afterward, I have wondered if they could be right!

 

[Lord Pmann]

Oh yeah. When I was a kid, I used to swear all the time. Unnecessarily show. My mate and I used to say, "That's the fuckshit." Hahaha. That meant something was cool.

 

[SMNaughtywife]

Oh...and don't piss me off...my kids learned at a very young age that when Mom said "fuck".......heads were going to roll.....

This made me laugh, that's how it is at my house.

I'm notorious for dropping the f'bomb when I'm bombarded with stupidity, never ending requests and traffic. Sometimes they're silent and other times not so much.

 

[Suz_anne]

]But how often do you swear? Is it part of your standard vocabulary, rolling off your tongue as easy as anything else? Are you a situational swearing, only cursing at sporting events, or while drunk, or with certain friends? Are you a heat of the moment curser, only being profane when emotions get the best of you. Or maybe you're a substitute swearing, using frick for fuck, dang for damn or saying things like "shut the front door!".

And do you put any stigma on those of us free swearers that swear all the fucking time?

I probably swear more than I should, but I am able to control myself around children, grandmas, clergy, etc.. I do use substitute swearing, but usually for comedic effect. And people curse pretty freely at my office - it's not even really noticed.

 

[ChainedUp]

Fantastic Friday.........question:

How differently do you view yourself her at Lit(and outside of lit if you want to share) than you did 6 months ago? Or 9months or a year (pick the time span appropriate for you). Why why do you think that change has come about? Is it a positive change?

 

[rubydlite]

Fantastic Friday.........question:

How differently do you view yourself her at Lit(and outside of lit if you want to share) than you did 6 months ago? Or 9months or a year (pick the time span appropriate for you). Why why do you think that change has come about? Is it a positive change?

A year or more ago (when I discovered lit) I was an unsure woman who had lost her way. Nothing seemed right and I felt like I wasn't a desirable person. Lit slowly changed my perception of myself and certain people at lit helped me discover further what really makes me tick, who I am and a woman and that I am desirable. (An eternal thank you) Fast forward to now....I'm a completely different person and lit gave me the push to venture out on my own, be the person who I discovered here, and shed a toxic relationship.

So...you..know. .that^^ lol

 

[Lord Pmann]

Fantastic Friday.........question:

How differently do you view yourself her at Lit(and outside of lit if you want to share) than you did 6 months ago? Or 9months or a year (pick the time span appropriate for you). Why why do you think that change has come about? Is it a positive change?

I'm quite different than I was a while back. I'm still the same person, just with different interactions. The change was a positive one. I'm a bit more like I was when I first came to Lit, although I'm three years more charming, as you all know.

Lit has opened my eyes to a few more kinks and made me aware of how fucking weird some of you are. *wags finger in judgement*

I'd say I've really made some good friends here. There are people I genuinely enjoy talking to every day and care about. Some I talk to only on an occasional basis, but it's still so nice to hear from them when I do.

 

[All_4_Love]

Who I have evolved as here is just a reflection of the person I am becoming in real life. Or at least I think so. Perhaps, there is a safety here, a place to just be truly myself because I don't need to be anyone for anybody.

As far as whether I'm making positive changes, I'm still lost. This past year has been a tough one. There have been many changes, many, of what appear to be, setbacks. I'm still unsure. Time will tell. One thing I do know for sure is that I'm not living authentically in every area of my life. My heart is not wide open and I don't like that feeling. I'm embracing the confusion because I know it is preparing me for more change. When the time is right, I will know what I need to do. So, for now, I'm just praying. Such is life...

Fast forward to now....I'm a completely different person and lit gave me the push to venture out on my own, be the person who I discovered here, and shed a toxic relationship.

So...you..know. .that^^ lol

Ruby, it takes so much strength and courage to do this, to leave a toxic relationship. I knew it was over before it had even really started. I allowed myself to become more and more dependent on him with each passing year. It took me 14 years to find the woman I was when I met him. And when I finally did, I was free. I'm so happy that you are finally free from that. It's a fresh new start. I send you many good vibes and wishes.

“A strong woman knows she has strength enough for the journey, but a woman of strength knows that it is in the journey where she will become strong.”

 

[Endless_Night]

Fantastic Friday.........question:

How differently do you view yourself her at Lit(and outside of lit if you want to share) than you did 6 months ago? Or 9months or a year (pick the time span appropriate for you). Why why do you think that change has come about? Is it a positive change?

I’ve been on Lit two years now. While there have been a couple of rough spots, the experience has been good on the whole. It’s also been surprising. I was very sexually reserved when I stumbled onto the site. Okay, maybe repressed would be more accurate.

Reading and interacting with Litsters has gone a long way to, if not fully opening me up, at least helping me come to terms with the idea that my kinky interests are just…kinky interests. Before I always thought they were a sign of some psychological issue.

There have been other things that have surprised me. My naivete for one, at least in sexual matters. All that repressing seems to have had a stunting effect. I am, on occasion, still amazed at the things that don’t embarrass other people.

I’ve also made a surprising number of friends, one or two surprisingly good ones.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I'd like to say this... For all of you who are newcomers to this thread, your life has been bettered in the last several months because you now know me.

I have embiggened your hearts, I know.

 

[Endless_Night]

I'd like to say this... For all of you who are newcomers to this thread, your life has been bettered in the last several months because you now know me.

I have embiggened your hearts, I know.

My vocabulary has also increased.

 

[ViciousTease]

I'd like to say this... For all of you who are newcomers to this thread, your life has been bettered in the last several months because you now know me.

I have embiggened your hearts, I know.

Thanks.

 

[Lord Pmann]

My vocabulary has also increased.

You mean to say, "It embiggened."

 

[may_I_please]

You mean to say, "It embiggened."

It's an embuggerance when people refuse to learn isn't it lordp?

 

[ChainedUp]

If you could be s tree, what kind of tree would you be.

Hey, it's Saturday and I'm busy.

 

[Suz_anne]

If you could be s tree, what kind of tree would you be.

Hey, it's Saturday and I'm busy.

A lilac tree. It's not just a bush, you know.

 

[Jamicurechickie]

If you could be s tree, what kind of tree would you be.

Hey, it's Saturday and I'm busy.

Aren't we all....Saturday...the "catch up" day...

I would be a red maple. Sturdy and not too tall. Quietly shows its beauty all year around but yet all of a sudden it is gloriously gorgeous for a short time. Shades and protects all.

 

[Mindfondler]

If you could be s tree, what kind of tree would you be.

A mug tree?
.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I'm Treemendous.

Come on Papa Chained, you can do better than this. You've given us nothing! The people will revolt if you don't give better questions. They'll start talking amongst themselves, having fun, MAYBE even flirting. Oh god. I don't even want to think about how dangerous that is. Ewww. It's disgusting even thinking about it.

 

[Endless_Night]

A Southern Magnolia. Sure, they can be tricky, needing both time and space to bloom, but the flowers…. The flowers are amazing! Dense and velveting, a uniform creamy white, with an intoxicating fragrance. The scent is rich, luxurious, decadent even.

It’s also an evergreen, offering visual appeal all year round, and an excellent shade tree for those hot and sunny summer months.

 

[Lord Pmann]

http://c2.thejournal.ie/media/2014/06/single-tumbleweed-o.gif

 

[SMNaughtywife]

When Chained is away, we will play.
Hey, they're just tree trucks. Get your mind out of the gutter.


https://pbs.twimg.com/media/Bg5eMRyIIAAuAKC.jpg

 

[Lord Pmann]

^^^
Oh he's going to be so upset. This looked like... Fun. *squints*

 

[ChainedUp]

Tree porn is approved content. Leaf all you want.

- Management

 

[Lord Pmann]

All this tree porn is making me sticky. <------ that's very clever.