Guys: Question about body types

[Sheana_V]

It seems a lot, perhaps the majority or men, really want to fuck the curvy girl with a big ass and big tits. However they seem to want to date the petite ladies. Am I right? What's going on here?

 

[Cal2015]

No, I think the guys want to fuck the petite ladies, too. But I assume that's not where you were going with this thread...

 

[Mercury_Maniac]

honestly my preference isn't that limited to just one body type.


but i don't really date or fuck either.

 

[Sheana_V]

No, I think the guys want to fuck the petite ladies, too. But I assume that's not where you were going with this thread...

No, I'm commenting on the fact that there seems to be a difference in implicit feelings towards woman based on the shape of their bodies.

 

[Sheana_V]

honestly my preference isn't that limited to just one body type.


but i don't really date or fuck either.

But surely you don't think you are representative of men in general...

 

[HandsThatGuide]

I personally like curvy. Society seems to push, or advertisers push the petite.

 

[Ins_spacetime87]

It seems a lot, perhaps the majority or men, really want to fuck the curvy girl with a big ass and big tits. However they seem to want to date the petite ladies. Am I right? What's going on here?

I cannot speak for other men of course, but I myself can get increadably arroused by both body types! And to put it a bit unsophisticated... If I'd Fuck you, I'd date you!

BUT...

the big difference between dating and fucking is the clothes.... in the bedroom... I can enjoy your body the way it is... but when I date you, it really helps when your clothes accentuate your body in the right way... the wrong clothes can make a petite girl look boyish, or a accentuate the curves of a curvy woman in the wrong way...

love,

-St

 

[Ins_spacetime87]

hm.. rereading may post I realise it sounds like I am seeing women as an object... please don't think I'm an ass...

love,

-ST

 

[Cal2015]

No, I'm commenting on the fact that there seems to be a difference in implicit feelings towards woman based on the shape of their bodies.

I actually think it's a NYC thing, where everyone's obsession with status leads men to want to date petite blondes that look good in yoga pants, and women to want to date tall guys who work in hedge funds.

But thousands of years of evolutionary biology says men are drawn to women with a curvy, hourglass figure, which is why they want to fuck you, and take Mipsie to Nobu.

 

[Sheana_V]

I actually think it's a NYC thing, where everyone's obsession with status leads men to want to date petite blondes that look good in yoga pants, and women to want to date tall guys who work in hedge funds.

But thousands of years of evolutionary biology says men are drawn to women with a curvy, hourglass figure, which is why they want to fuck you, and take Mipsie to Nobu.

Hmmm... it might be a New York thing, though it seems to at least apply to other big cities that have a high population of douchebags (SF, LA, Seattle, etc...).

But your comment did make me realize there's also a perception that fat bottomed girls are 'low class' which no doubt is related to the problem.

 

[Halen]

In my Opinion.
There is beauty in everyone a little effort and you can find it,
Big ass and breasts are visually pleasing, however some people are blinded by media induced stereotypes and fear mocking and easing by peers, i've never felt the need to please anyone but myself and my lover(s)..

 

[Halen]

Hmmm... it might be a New York thing, though it seems to at least apply to other big cities that have a high population of douchebags (SF, LA, Seattle, etc...).

But your comment did make me realize there's also a perception that fat bottomed girls are 'low class' which no doubt is related to the problem.

Mmmm nope, dated large Drs and others considered higher class. Its a stereotype. Then reality kicks in and you judge people for their own merits

 

[Cal2015]

Yes, I would imagine the same theory holds for any major urban city. (but Seattle? really? I expected more from them.)

And I may be speaking out of turn, but if your AV is you, only in New York/LA could you possibly be considered big bottomed.

 

[Nidan]

It seems a lot, perhaps the majority or men, really want to fuck the curvy girl with a big ass and big tits. However they seem to want to date the petite ladies. Am I right? What's going on here?

Nah. No correlation in my mind at all. If anything it is the opposite. Maybe because my usual type is curvy. I've narried a curvy chick. I fancy curvy chicks and wanna fuck them. Occasionally I wanna fuck a petite chick.

 

[jaF0]

It seems a lot, perhaps the majority or men, really want to fuck the curvy girl with a big ass and big tits.

Ummm ..... No.


Just no.

 

[Cute3Kitty]

I actually think it's a NYC thing, where everyone's obsession with status leads men to want to date petite blondes that look good in yoga pants, and women to want to date tall guys who work in hedge funds.

But thousands of years of evolutionary biology says men are drawn to women with a curvy, hourglass figure, which is why they want to fuck you, and take Mipsie to Nobu.

Hmm I would not agree with the evolutionary biology statement. I watched a National Geographic show a while ago and some of the anthropologists discussed how attraction towards women or men is dependent on the economic condition of the time. In older times when the economic conditions were different being bigger or curvy was considered to be an indication of wealth. But over time the idea of being "fit" is related more towards being able to afford healthier foods and gym memberships hence the attraction/acceptance of the slim body type. There are still regions and cultures where being curvy would make a woman more eligible for marriage. It is more dependent upon how economic and socio-cultural situation of a society.

 

[Folders83]

Personally I have dated and fucked all types. Tall, small, athletic, petite, curvy etc. I tend to like the person and the personality more than the body type although I'd be lying if I said that curvy wasn't my favourite. The universe is anything but fair little boobs little bum, big boobs big bum.

Ps give me curvy any old day of the fucking week!

 

[Mercury_Maniac]

But surely you don't think you are representative of men in general...

i guess that makes sense.

 

[yellowrocket]

I have a definite preference for curvy women. A lot of it goes back to the skinny bitches in high school. Stupid I know, but I have a hard time getting over their cattiness and then add "popular" women even as adults as having a tendency to gossip and put people down and I avoid that negativity like the plague. And if a curvy girl is like that I can't stand her either.

Skinny curvy(yes there is such a thing) I really dig, but there seems to be no chemistry between myself and any if them. I think part of that is because they want guys 6 feet tall. And I'm 5 6.

 

[yellowrocket]

Also for good mesure, I'm a happy go lucky pessimist. So maybe that's part of the disconnect. I plan for the worst all the time and I'm happy when it doesn't turn out that way.

 

[Cal2015]

Hmm I would not agree with the evolutionary biology statement. I watched a National Geographic show a while ago and some of the anthropologists discussed how attraction towards women or men is dependent on the economic condition of the time. In older times when the economic conditions were different being bigger or curvy was considered to be an indication of wealth. But over time the idea of being "fit" is related more towards being able to afford healthier foods and gym memberships hence the attraction/acceptance of the slim body type. There are still regions and cultures where being curvy would make a woman more eligible for marriage. It is more dependent upon how economic and socio-cultural situation of a society.

I agree socio-economic impact certainly plays a role today, and we are clearly a society that prefers and confers greater benefits on those who are attractive, fit, young, slim, healthy-looking, etc.

I was merely saying that, on some innate level, we are probably hard-wired with our reptilian brain to be attracted to curvy women for the reason you mentioned: They looked like they were healthier and more likely to survive and propagate the species in hunter-gatherer times.

Or, maybe I'm completely wrong, and people want to sleep with Sheana but not date her, simply because they find her sexy, but annoying and high maintenance.

 

[Sheana_V]

I agree socio-economic impact certainly plays a role today, and we are clearly a society that prefers and confers greater benefits on those who are attractive, fit, young, slim, healthy-looking, etc.

I was merely saying that, on some innate level, we are probably hard-wired with our reptilian brain to be attracted to curvy women for the reason you mentioned: They looked like they were healthier and more likely to survive and propagate the species in hunter-gatherer times.

Or, maybe I'm completely wrong, and people want to sleep with Sheana but not date her, simply because they find her sexy, but annoying and high maintenance.

Annoying is possible. I'm definitely not high maintenance. And if my sample size was only me I wouldn't have posted the topic.

 

[Sheana_V]

Also people do want to date me. So it's not me per se, the perception here is more ephemeral. Maybe I'm just wrong.

 

[Cal2015]

Annoying is possible. I'm definitely not high maintenance. And if my sample size was only me I wouldn't have posted the topic.

Ha!

 

[Cal2015]

Also people do want to date me. So it's not me per se, the perception here is more ephemeral. Maybe I'm just wrong.

I imagine they do, and you were just speaking generally, and not about yourself specifically.