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[CuriousYoungWife]

Hello , call me Lolo , I am 21 years old I got married few months ago I love my husband very very much but I am curious how to get him into more rough stuff , he's very sweet and kind I love him so much but after I read 50 shades of grey I am curious about that kind of rough dirty sex, he is not into that at all he's very religious and he thinks those stuff are against his believes he even got mad at me because I bought that book so I had to read it in secret and the stories here just get more and more curious, any suggestion how can I get him into this kind of rough action without risking my marriage? Thank you so much and sorry for any language mistakes, English isn't my native language

 

[ItalianStyle]

Hello , call me Lolo , I am 21 years old I got married few months ago I love my husband very very much but I am curious how to get him into more rough stuff , he's very sweet and kind I love him so much but after I read 50 shades of grey I am curious about that kind of rough dirty sex, he is not into that at all he's very religious and he thinks those stuff are against his believes he even got mad at me because I bought that book so I had to read it in secret and the stories here just get more and more curious, any suggestion how can I get him into this kind of rough action without risking my marriage? Thank you so much and sorry for any language mistakes, English isn't my native language

Lolo ... you will have to start small and work your way up. No telling how long that would take. It could be simple things at first:

- Ask him to spank your ass while he's fucking you from behind.
Would he fuck you in that position?
- Pull your hair
- Call you slutty names (as part of sex play)

I don't think you'll be able to jump ahead several squares to things that you want.

 

[seamus221]

Welcome and your english is fine!
There's a few threads on Lit that talk about getting your mate into the bondage stuff.
Find out some of his fantasy's and then do them and then have him try just one of yours to add into the sex routine.
Maybe a blindfold on you or handcuffs and build from there.

 

[aace714]

Tell him you've been a bad girl and read the book therefore you need a spanking . it sounds like you might have a long road ahead of you though if he's that religious he may never be able to break his vanilla side. I'm guessing you don't watch porn but maybe you can use that as an ice breaker.Good luck

 

[LinusRules]

Hello , call me Lolo , I am 21 years old I got married few months ago I love my husband very very much but I am curious how to get him into more rough stuff , he's very sweet and kind I love him so much but after I read 50 shades of grey I am curious about that kind of rough dirty sex, he is not into that at all he's very religious and he thinks those stuff are against his believes he even got mad at me because I bought that book so I had to read it in secret and the stories here just get more and more curious, any suggestion how can I get him into this kind of rough action without risking my marriage? Thank you so much and sorry for any language mistakes, English isn't my native language

It sounds like he may not be a person open to the types of things you want to try. Maybe you simply need to talk to him about the subject and ask him about what types of things he would be willing to try and build from there.

 

[CuriousYoungWife]

Lolo ... you will have to start small and work your way up. No telling how long that would take. It could be simple things at first:

- Ask him to spank your ass while he's fucking you from behind.
Would he fuck you in that position?
- Pull your hair
- Call you slutty names (as part of sex play)

I don't think you'll be able to jump ahead several squares to things that you want.

He wouldn't do any of that but I will try to make him move his limits little bit further ever time. Thank you so much

 

[CuriousYoungWife]

Welcome and your english is fine!
There's a few threads on Lit that talk about getting your mate into the bondage stuff.
Find out some of his fantasy's and then do them and then have him try just one of yours to add into the sex routine.
Maybe a blindfold on you or handcuffs and build from there.

He's not the one that has fantasies , but I will try and check if there's anything interest him, thank you

 

[CuriousYoungWife]

Tell him you've been a bad girl and read the book therefore you need a spanking . it sounds like you might have a long road ahead of you though if he's that religious he may never be able to break his vanilla side. I'm guessing you don't watch porn but maybe you can use that as an ice breaker.Good luck

Watch porn ? He would kill me haha, but I might can make seem like an accedent, will try, thanks

 

[Sir Victor]

He wouldn't do any of that but I will try to make him move his limits little bit further ever time. Thank you so much

Why don't you wear a skirt that is way too short around the house, then tell him if he wants you to change into something he approves of he will have to spank you until you agree. Then let him pick out the new outfit. Let him think he is teaching you to be better, lol!

 

[CuriousYoungWife]

Why don't you wear a skirt that is way too short around the house, then tell him if he wants you to change into something he approves of he will have to spank you until you agree. Then let him pick out the new outfit. Let him think he is teaching you to be better, lol!

Lol, I will try this

 

[CuriousYoungWife]

No more advises??

 

[followmenow6969]

No more advises??

I just p.m'd you

 

[CuriousYoungWife]

I just p.m'd you

Thank you

 

[fullservice65]

Start slowly, I would say -- even something as simple as squeezing his balls while you're making love. Let him know how good/bad it can feel, and see how he responds. Try different positions, too, that might bring out the dirty boy in him.
Good luck!

 

[Sexy_Me0508]

Hello , call me Lolo , I am 21 years old I got married few months ago I love my husband very very much but I am curious how to get him into more rough stuff , he's very sweet and kind I love him so much but after I read 50 shades of grey I am curious about that kind of rough dirty sex, he is not into that at all he's very religious and he thinks those stuff are against his believes he even got mad at me because I bought that book so I had to read it in secret and the stories here just get more and more curious, any suggestion how can I get him into this kind of rough action without risking my marriage? Thank you so much and sorry for any language mistakes, English isn't my native language

Good Luck for that...let me know if you succeed and how you did..been trying for almost 5 years now...lol pre-Shades of Grey...oh and if you like the Genre, try the Crossfire Series by Sylvia Day (much much better in terms of writing than SoG)...

 

[CuriousYoungWife]

Start slowly, I would say -- even something as simple as squeezing his balls while you're making love. Let him know how good/bad it can feel, and see how he responds. Try different positions, too, that might bring out the dirty boy in him.
Good luck!

Thanks sir, I will try

 

[CuriousYoungWife]

Good Luck for that...let me know if you succeed and how you did..been trying for almost 5 years now...lol pre-Shades of Grey...oh and if you like the Genre, try the Crossfire Series by Sylvia Day (much much better in terms of writing than SoG)...

Thank you ma'am, I will let you now for sure if anything happens and thanks for the suggestion

 

[NYC_Man]

kick his ass until he fucks u like u want it

 

[CuriousYoungWife]

kick his ass until he fucks u like u want it

lol, it's not that easy ;P

 

[RamblinRed]

PM sent.

 

[CuriousYoungWife]

explain

Just to explain once again, I won't do anything with anyone here , I would feel so guilty, it's not my thing , and I won't share any personal info, all I can tell, I am 21 , married recently , and I will do my best to answer all the PMS I am getting, thank you all for understanding

 

[1sickbastard]

Just to explain once again, I won't do anything with anyone here , I would feel so guilty, it's not my thing , and I won't share any personal info, all I can tell, I am 21 , married recently , and I will do my best to answer all the PMS I am getting, thank you all for understanding

I would suggest you find what specific scriptures he is basing his beliefs regarding sex between a lawfully married husband and wife within the confines of said marriage. I also suggest you find authoritative sources, based within his religion, which permit (or even encourage) married couples to experiment and expand their sexual horizons, again, within the confines of the marriage.

Until you can change his point of view, I suggest you explore on your own via reading D/s (Dominance/submission) and BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism) stories such as those found here on Literotica, many of which are far, far better written than 50 Shades of Grey.

Very best of luck to you in your endeavor.