SynnR_SainT
Really Experienced
- Joined
- May 24, 2010
- Posts
- 171
I'm searching for a strong and patient Dominant who is a Primal Alpha male. Who can bring me out of my shell and help me explore more of my submissive side. Someone between 30/50 years old (50+ maybe, we can always see) who is intelligent, and looking for more than just play. Also, One who is an all around great guy who can balance the structure/discipline of D/s and the fun/playfulness of a DD/lg. Finding Someone near my location would be great but I won't shy away from anyone out of my area. I am open to the possibility of it developing into more but I do require time. I'm not someone's trophy, option, or knotch on your bedpost.
I am not new to this lifestyle. I have had a couple of D/s encounters but neither were quite healthy or lengthy enough to be considered a true relationship. I know there is an affectionate sub inside but bringing her out can sometimes be a challenge. I am especially interested in the emotional/psychological aspects of the D/s relationship. I want Someone who can learn me so much that they know what I want better than I do. I want to feel safe with Someone who dares me to let go and explore fantasies I wouldn't otherwise try. And Someone who will give me a good spanking when I get out of line. I'm not necessarily old fashioned but I am in the sense of dating. What happened to flirting and really getting to know the other for who they are, not just because their kinks add up to yours? I do believe a man takes charge, protects, and provides but also shares in all other responsibilities with their lady. An honorable man I can look up to and adore just as much as He adores and looks "down" at me.
I've found many times the man prefers to be entertained or showered with pictures but I am not one to do that from the start. As I mentioned, I'm not going to be your jack off material. In time and we hit it off, I'll be glad to entertain and fullfill many desires within the respectable limits. I'm not a prude but I am guarded and want to be respected.
I have a child so if children are not what you want to deal with then please move on. One must understand, my child takes up a lot of my time so I don't need a selfish man in our life. I am also a "plus sized", "fat", "hot chick" with wide hips, a belly, brown hair, and eyes. If overweight women are not your preference then you may need to stop now.
I prefer a first message to be several sentences rather than a few words such as, "Hi, how are you tonight"? or "What up, gurl"?. I despise slang talk. Please write in english.
Anyway, thank you so much for reading this lengthy personal. I do hope to find you, my love...one day.
Brief interests: cock sucking, face fucking, slapping, flogging, bare handed spankings, hair pulling, mild degradation, light bondage, spreader bars, and gags. Again, this is just a brief idea of my interests.
Limits: sharing, poly, sister sub, family lifestyle, blood, underage, scarring, heavy bondage, scat, enemas, infant items, and medical play. We can go from there....
***Pictures may be exchanged once we feel comfortable enough.
I am not new to this lifestyle. I have had a couple of D/s encounters but neither were quite healthy or lengthy enough to be considered a true relationship. I know there is an affectionate sub inside but bringing her out can sometimes be a challenge. I am especially interested in the emotional/psychological aspects of the D/s relationship. I want Someone who can learn me so much that they know what I want better than I do. I want to feel safe with Someone who dares me to let go and explore fantasies I wouldn't otherwise try. And Someone who will give me a good spanking when I get out of line. I'm not necessarily old fashioned but I am in the sense of dating. What happened to flirting and really getting to know the other for who they are, not just because their kinks add up to yours? I do believe a man takes charge, protects, and provides but also shares in all other responsibilities with their lady. An honorable man I can look up to and adore just as much as He adores and looks "down" at me.
I've found many times the man prefers to be entertained or showered with pictures but I am not one to do that from the start. As I mentioned, I'm not going to be your jack off material. In time and we hit it off, I'll be glad to entertain and fullfill many desires within the respectable limits. I'm not a prude but I am guarded and want to be respected.
I have a child so if children are not what you want to deal with then please move on. One must understand, my child takes up a lot of my time so I don't need a selfish man in our life. I am also a "plus sized", "fat", "hot chick" with wide hips, a belly, brown hair, and eyes. If overweight women are not your preference then you may need to stop now.
I prefer a first message to be several sentences rather than a few words such as, "Hi, how are you tonight"? or "What up, gurl"?. I despise slang talk. Please write in english.
Anyway, thank you so much for reading this lengthy personal. I do hope to find you, my love...one day.
Brief interests: cock sucking, face fucking, slapping, flogging, bare handed spankings, hair pulling, mild degradation, light bondage, spreader bars, and gags. Again, this is just a brief idea of my interests.
Limits: sharing, poly, sister sub, family lifestyle, blood, underage, scarring, heavy bondage, scat, enemas, infant items, and medical play. We can go from there....
***Pictures may be exchanged once we feel comfortable enough.
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Thank you both so much!
