slow versus fast fuck????

[BlackPartridge]

Which is more pleasurable for the woman????

 

[SlowTeaseUK]

Which is more pleasurable for the woman????

Oh boy, this is a topic that will never have one answer! It's all about the moment, the mood, the mix of people, the situation.

For me, both have a time and place. Although if I had to choose one over the other, it would be hard and fast. I love feeling like the other person is so turned on that they can't hold back, makes me feel the same.

 

[Lisalit13]

It depends! If I'm really hornyy sometimes I just wanna fuck hard and fast....other times I like it slow and sensual.....all depends on the mood

 

[suckonsimon]

If a guy wants to take his gal the distance to her own orgasm while they're fucking, he's gonna have to alternate between slow and fast else he's gonna spill his seed early and leave her disappointed. That's me anyway.

 

[WhiteManFux]

Oh boy, this is a topic that will never have one answer! It's all about the moment, the mood, the mix of people, the situation.

For me, both have a time and place. Although if I had to choose one over the other, it would be hard and fast. I love feeling like the other person is so turned on that they can't hold back, makes me feel the same.

This man definitely knows how to fux.



It is nice to start out slowly and then get her to the point in where there is that need to be fast.

Don't ever make her feel rushed.

 

[sexlover66]

I agree...it all depends on the mood of the two people involved...but a mixture of slow love making..then good hard deep pounding...but combinations are nessecary...

 

[ReadingExcitesMe]

I agree with everyone else about what fits the mood but I do fancy slow, long stroke. *shrug*

 

[suckonsimon]

I agree with everyone else about what fits the mood but I do fancy slow, long stroke. *shrug*

I like how I can do other stuff when I'm delivering that "slow, long stroke" style:

nibbling at the instep of her foot at my shoulder;
molding her breasts;
fingering her belly with my thumb at her clit doing slow circles;
french kissing;
telling her stuff about herself - whether in classic or cheap-filth style depending on her mood ...

Hey I like this thread! You gals please keep talking!

 

[BlackPartridge]

hi

Never fucked my woman fast n hard.....though she often asks but I dontlast that long.would love to watch someone fuck her that way.

 

[suckonsimon]

Never fucked my woman fast n hard.....though she often asks but I dontlast that long.would love to watch someone fuck her that way.

One of the things to look forward to in your forties+, mate: the end of concern about early ejaculation.

 

[PreggoBitch]

Depends on my mood but more often than not I prefer to be fucked hard and fast. Slow is lovely when I want something intimate but I'd rather be fucked like a bitch in heat

 

[vibes]

... even when it starts slow, it soons ends up hard *shrugs*

 

[funluvinaj]

If I have to choose its hands down hard n fast.

 

[vibes]

If I have to choose its hands down hard n fast.

Why am I not surprised, AJ?

 

[MissJW]

My boy's rather big so I'm usually very much in favour of steady, long and slow (or maybe more like slow-ish) strokes that allow me to savour his every inch. I want to acknowledge his cock, not just feel something trying to impale me.

 

[funluvinaj]

Why am I not surprised, AJ?

Because you've heard me cum? Hard n fast?

 

[vibes]

Because you've heard me cum? Hard n fast?

... unforgettable ... that's what you are ...

 

[suckonsimon]

My boy's rather big so I'm usually very much in favour of steady, long and slow (or maybe more like slow-ish) strokes that allow me to savour his every inch. I want to acknowledge his cock, not just feel something trying to impale me.

I love how you've put that, MissJW. Huge pleasure for a man, to have that 'acknowledgment' goin on, before and after as well as during.

 

[funluvinaj]

... unforgettable ... that's what you are ...

 

[suckonsimon]

Hey I love the stuff goin on between vibes and AJ ...

 

[mikendel]

It depends! If I'm really hornyy sometimes I just wanna fuck hard and fast....other times I like it slow and sensual.....all depends on the mood

I agree. Hard a fast is always great but a nice slow fuck in several positions is good too.

 

[xlgmech]

For us it always starts out very slow which I like then when we get caught up in the moment she seems to tell me faster which I like to but I know when I do its very hard to control how long I can last. So a lot of the time I just have to switch back and forth. When she has hers legs up on my shoulders that's when she loves it fast and hard!!!

 

[BlackPartridge]

hi

For us it always starts out very slow which I like then when we get caught up in the moment she seems to tell me faster which I like to but I know when I do its very hard to control how long I can last. So a lot of the time I just have to switch back and forth. When she has hers legs up on my shoulders that's when she loves it fast and hard!!!

I agree. I don't last long enough to try it fast. I fantasize often her being fucked hard&fast as I watch her in pleasure.

 

[vibes]

Hey I love the stuff goin on between vibes and AJ ...

Thanks Simon: AJ and I have been Lit friends forever, she's fun and sexy

 

[policywank]

It can go either way depending upon the mood. Of course it can be disappointing if he is a minuteman when I want a long slow session. But it is equally frustrating when he insists on being his version of Don Juan when I want it hard and fast (orgasm or not) then back to my day.

Too often both genders focus on what they think the other wants or what they want them to want instead of actually listening. I'm not interested in having to convince a guy that he is the world's greatest lover.