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JAMESBJOHNSON
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it does matter, to me, at least
Because, in my case, the whole saga started like some innocent fun, which amused me, too.
However, things progressed and it had nothing to do with my sexuality. It became a way of changing the power dynamic within a debate or argument, of putting me down and telling me to STFU. It was v. upsetting for me I felt that it was bordering on harassment.
And I suspect that other Lit women feel the same way - again, most often these 'accusations' have nothing to do with hooking up or sexuality.
OFFICIAL HARASSMENT NOTICE: STFU