Tumblr experiment

[DallasDonna]

After reading this article, I decided to ask my new(ish) boyfriend to set up a Tumblr account, and fill it with pics that turn him on, and that I wanted to see it.

I showed him my 'fetish' pic thread here as well.

So far, he has a fairly mainstream porn collection started, maybe with time he will add pics that will give a deeper insight into his kinky side

The writer of the article's friend said " “I like being able to see what’s going on in his head. But I could really have done without there being so much anal sex on his page. I’d chosen to believe that wasn’t something that he wanted.”

So what do you think?

Is this a good way to explore a lover's unspoken desires, or pathway to trouble?

 

[jason28053]

sounds like a fun way to me. do you have a tumblr you wish to share?

 

[DallasDonna]

sounds like a fun way to me. do you have a tumblr you wish to share?

Mine is here, on Lit.

 

[ItalianStyle]

Communication through illustration may be a good avenue.
Just have to make sure its well received. Both individuals should be open-minded about what the other could be potentially thinking. (... as you seeing the multiples of anal ..)

Seeing a text from your BF describing how he would like to use his tongue as a brush and paint your body may seem erotic... seeing a tumblr photo of a guy adoring the girls pussy with his tongue might raise the level of eroticism up a bit higher.

 

[jason28053]

Mine is here, on Lit.

so you like to be naked in a clothed group.. interesting

 

[DallasDonna]

Communication through illustration may be a good avenue.
Just have to make sure its well received. Both individuals should be open-minded about what the other could be potentially thinking. (... as you seeing the multiples of anal ..)

Seeing a text from your BF describing how he would like to use his tongue as a brush and paint your body may seem erotic... seeing a tumblr photo of a guy adoring the girls pussy with his tongue might raise the level of eroticism up a bit higher.

I agree.
It seems to be an easy way to explore the 'dark side'...

 

[DallasDonna]

so you like to be naked in a clothed group.. interesting

My fantasy is that.

 

[jason28053]

mine is here http://justjasonus.tumblr.com/

 

[ItalianStyle]

and to explore some of the various positions to try too.

 

[DallasDonna]

mine is here http://justjasonus.tumblr.com/

Would you / have you shared that with your Significant Other?

 

[ItalianStyle]

I have an enjoyment of giving oral... so I've enjoyed the various tumblr of the girl receiving a thorough licking/sucking.

 

[jason28053]

Would you / have you shared that with your Significant Other?

good question... I think I would

 

[MatthewVett]

I like the idea. Not sure what my Tumblr reveals about me... Pretty obvious I like Mad Max and Asian girls, though...

 

[MissJW]

Using Tumblr for this sort of purpose is a brilliant idea! I update mine every now and then (just did in fact) and my husband reads it regularly. It's a great way for me to let out some steam and to keep him on the edge while he's off working. It's always a joy to hear that my "tumblings" got him to masturbate or just left him with a puddle of precum in his pants

I reblog stuff that I like, post my own writings and get way too excited when I come across pictures of guys who look like my husband. For obvious reasons I will never share a real photo of him (even though I would love nothing more) so those are the closest thing I can deliver.

If you feel like taking a look, you'll find the address in my signature.

 

[DallasDonna]

Using Tumblr for this sort of purpose is a brilliant idea! I update mine every now and then (just did in fact) and my husband reads it regularly. It's a great way for me to let out some steam and to keep him on the edge while he's off working. It's always a joy to hear that my "tumblings" got him to masturbate or just left him with a puddle of precum in his pants

I reblog stuff that I like, post my own writings and get way too excited when I come across pictures of guys who look like my husband. For obvious reasons I will never share a real photo of him (even though I would love nothing more) so those are the closest thing I can deliver.

If you feel like taking a look, you'll find the address in my signature.

So... Do you fuck him with a strap on?

 

[CarnivalBarker]

That article is funny only because EVERY guy wants a LOT of anal sex...

 

[CyranoJ]

That article is funny only because EVERY guy wants a LOT of anal sex...

The big question is: do they actually know anything about doing it or have they just seen it in porn? Too many out there who are the latter.

 

[MissJW]

So... Do you fuck him with a strap on?

Indeed I do, it's a regular part of our sexlife.

 

[MissJW]

That article is funny only because EVERY guy wants a LOT of anal sex...

Mine wants to receive it only. Giving it is, according to him, awkward and not very pleasurable.

 

[DallasDonna]

Indeed I do, it's a regular part of our sexlife.

Good for ya'll.

 

[ftwayneguy9797]

I learned in college to never look at someone else's porn collection unless you really want to know the person.

 

[Algos_Idoni]

I've used it with an online submissive. As a way to catalog her kinks, desires, write stories, journaling, etc.

Knowing what excites the other person, makes it exciting to me.

 

[DallasDonna]

Let's say you saw something on your Significant Other's page that you were not on board with.

For example: Your GF had pics of a MMF, where he was pleasuring the other M, and that was a 'no go' with you.

Or, you had a BF that had a page with chains and whips, which turned you off.

How would you address that issue?

 

[Algos_Idoni]

Let's say you saw something on your Significant Other's page that you were not on board with.

For example: Your GF had pics of a MMF, where he was pleasuring the other M, and that was a 'no go' with you.

Or, you had a BF that had a page with chains and whips, which turned you off.

How would you address that issue?

If the purpose is to understand their kinks and fantasies, then I think you need to be able to respect them.

Is having it on tumblr really any different than talking about them?

 

[RawHumor]

Let's say you saw something on your Significant Other's page that you were not on board with.

For example: Your GF had pics of a MMF, where he was pleasuring the other M, and that was a 'no go' with you.

Or, you had a BF that had a page with chains and whips, which turned you off.

How would you address that issue?

As long as it's not something I find morally reprehensible, I'd be okay with it. If she and I share 90% of the same kinks and fetishes, that'd be a major win. No two people are going to match 100%.